Girls and I are not very communicative people, so it's not embarrassing to talk.

Suggest some good topics and starting points as follows.

1. Storytelling: Tell curious, thrilling and emotional stories (girls are usually curious, girls are emotional animals, aren't you as popular as Korean movies).

2. Tell jokes (be deep and cultured, don't say dirty jokes, and tell jokes naturally and skillfully)

3. Play games (common number games, computer games, tongue twisters, etc. )

4, take her to participate in activities, which is best to open a topic, such as climbing mountains, playing ball games.

If the relationship between two people has not been released, you can use the cold reading method (cold reading method means don't ask, guess, in this case, it will be interesting for you two to chat. You: Are you a student? Don't ask that. You: Are you a student? If you guess correctly, she will be surprised and curious about why you know, and she will ask how you know. If you don't guess correctly, she will also wonder why you asked, and the topic will open.

Chasing girls lacks the topic of chatting with girls, and sometimes even after learning the chatting skills of chasing girls,

1. First of all, you must learn to listen.

1 & gt； Women hate nagging, self-expansion, interrupting others, and only talking about their men from beginning to end.

2> Successful communication is two-way. Especially when women are willing to talk, you'd better listen carefully.

A woman's willingness to talk to you doesn't necessarily mean that she likes you, but at least you have given her the initial trust. When the attraction between men and women is based on the platform of trust, this relationship is stable.

For example, sometimes it suddenly becomes serious:

"What do you think is the biggest challenge in your job? 」

"What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship? 」

"I want to know what you think of life. What do you think people should pursue in life?

This is the ability to ask questions.

You see, a successful host is an expert in asking questions.

I know these questions are serious at first glance, but if you can cut into them in the right atmosphere, there will be unexpected results.

Secondly, the real key lies in the atmosphere.

Many times I don't deliberately limit the topic, because I want to create a simple atmosphere, which is to make girls feel comfortable and not oppressive when chatting with me.

3. But women want more than the atmosphere. They want to meet men who can inspire their thoughts.

In other words, if you can express your unique views on things in time, or point out those subtle things that have not been detected, with a story description, you will make her throb like never before.