What does masculinity mean? What does a cultivated man look like?

The masculine qualities of a man, regardless of age or status, are mature and steady in everything, think twice before acting, know how to help others have fun and accumulate good deeds; know how to be magnanimous, open to all rivers, and do not care about the faults of small people. Being able to punt a boat; knowing how to interact with people informally and knowing how to deal with things are the foundation of being kind to others. A man's temperament and bearing are his masculinity. So what does masculinity mean? What is a cultured man like? Follow me and take a look!

Well-educated men understand taste very well

There may be many men who disagree with this point, thinking that it is only a woman’s business, and categorically saying that women understand taste is for the sake of greater success. It’s important to understand men well and enjoy happiness, but in fact, men should know more about fun. Of course, interest requires some talent, but acquired practice is also essential. You must be able to tell some jokes and be able to stir up the atmosphere. Everyone expects you to sing well when you can sing, and have fun when playing. When a woman is unhappy, you can make her happy and make her happy. For a well-educated man, taste can be very noble or vulgar, but it cannot be absent.

A well-educated man will know how to respect others

Respect is the same for people who are very close to him. Including your significant other or those who admire you, do not use your advantages to trample on the dignity of others, and respect the love they give. You must know that if you don’t give respect to others, others will not give you face. As we often say, respect is given by others, but face is lost by yourself. A well-educated man will never let things about his appearance and reputation harm him.

A well-educated man knows tolerance and forgiveness

A man without a broad mind cannot achieve a high level of self-cultivation, and precisely because he has Only when you have tolerance can you forgive others. In fact, to forgive others is to accept the reality and forget the pain, because everything has been settled, which is also good for yourself. Moreover, forgiveness is a transcendence of knowledge. It is a kind of generosity and detachment; there is a saying that goes like this: "When I forgive you, I forgive myself. How can a man who transcends cognition, a man who accepts reality, and a man who forgives himself... Is he a man who is uncultivated and unhappy?

A man who is cultivated has a mature mind.

An immature man cannot achieve much in his cultivation. , It’s not that he has stubble all over his face, nor that he has wrinkles on his forehead, but that he has a convincing and satisfactory attitude and way of dealing with people and things. He is the kind of man that makes women want to rely on him. And that is. Complete willingness and no hesitation. Although maturity is a vague concept, it is reflected all the time. If you don't have it, you can't force it. If you insist on being pretentious, you will only make others laugh.

Yes. A well-educated man is confident

After a man reaches his twenties, he must learn to manage himself carefully. Confidence is reflected in his own thoughts and self-cultivation. Self-confidence is the most important quality of a man. , A confident man is like a seagull fighting in a storm. A confident man can always infect others, whether they are friends or enemies.

A well-educated man should be pleasing to the eye.

If a man's own image is too bad, I think his self-cultivation will not be much better, because this is also a kind of emanation from the inside out, just like that sentence. Same: there are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women. The same goes for men. There are no bad men in the world, only lazy men. I am not emphasizing how gorgeous a person's appearance should be, but at least it should not make people feel disgusted. Comfort is also a kind of charm, and it is also a kind of long-term persistence. If there is no cultivation to complement each other, it is probably just playing the piano to others.

A cultivated man should also know how to appreciate others.

Appreciate others. The process of learning is like a project of tasting and discovering yourself. If you cannot fully release your vision, then you will stagnate. Because of this, we should be open to accepting and appreciating others, and respond in a timely manner. Don't be stingy with your compliments, so that others will have a good impression of you and give you as many points as possible.

Manhood starts from the outside to the inside and from the inside to the outside.

Being handsome does not mean that you are masculine, and not all men who are masculine are handsome. Being handsome, capable, responsible, and motivated means you are full of masculinity. Men should pay attention to appearance. Appearance is image. Don't walk coquettishly like a "pretend", and don't act like a "weak person". A man relies on his clothes and a horse relies on his saddle. A straight suit shows his confidence, he is generous and charming, and he is domineering and mature. A cool action, a melancholy expression, and a touching detail, how can a woman look smelly, with a faint smell of tobacco on her body and a strong smell of love in her heart. At home, consideration and care come together, and both husband and wife take care of the home; outside the home, career is successful and fruitful, and success and fame add luster.