How to treat the ex-gift?

Nowadays, there is no romance. Different people have different ways to deal with this problem. Some are reserved as souvenirs, some are returned to the first love, which indicates the end of that relationship, and some directly ruin everything and save troubles that may occur in the future.

The following three situations are analyzed as follows:

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Keep it as a souvenir.

I have the first love in my heart and often miss it. This kind of person is nostalgic, and there is a nostalgic thought of "clothes are not as good as new, people are not as good as old". Nostalgia certainly causes gratitude. Even if such people break up with their first love, they will be grateful for their first love and thank each other for appearing in their own lives and bringing them a beautiful love life. There are more or less some sentimental factors in it. Imagine taking it out at a certain stage of your life and recalling the good times of your first love.

However, this kind of behavior is an untimely bomb for the future life, which may explode at any time, because no one wants their other half to keep those photos and gifts, and they will think that you are still thinking about each other, so when there is a family conflict, these will be regarded as old scores and reasons to say things, and they will unconsciously become a catalyst for the escalation of contradictions.

02

Give it back to the other party as the end of the relationship.

People who adopt this method belong to the rational type. They know that since they broke up, they can't keep in touch, not only with each other in their lives, but also with photos and gifts they exchanged in the past. Giving these back to each other also shows their determination. They know that nostalgia will cause dissatisfaction with their future partners, so they should put an end to any idea of breaking up.

Rational people are generally ruthless. They separate their feelings from the reality of life. Radish and eggplant are clean and never drag their feet. Of course, when returning these photos or gifts to each other, the other party must be very sad. Even if we break up, we will have resentment. Man is such a strange animal that he always wants to possess something by himself. Since we can't possess it, we can't forget it. It's just that different people have different intensity of this desire.

Of course, this seemingly ruthless but sensible behavior has cleared the obstacles of emotional entanglements for my future life, which is worthy of recognition.

03

Just destroy everything.

In this case, most people think that the other party has done too much harm to themselves, so it is also the behavior of most people in today's society to take such drastic measures. This kind of person is extreme in character, and he will never tolerate it as long as it hurts himself.

However, this seems to be a temporary injury, but it will never happen again.