What if I don't want to send a circle of friends?

Everyone's life is changing. From the past, when we were free, we always liked to make friends and bask in our lives. Since we got married, we have become very busy. Because life has changed, there are many things to deal with. Children are busy with their own affairs, work and family affairs every day, and they don't have much time to make friends. Because our life is changing time, it will be arranged very tightly. Even though I am not in the mood to make friends, there are many things to deal with because time is limited.

1, there are many things to consider.

In the past, I have been promoted one role after another by life, and I must try my best to play every role well. Most importantly, I want to manage some roles through my circle of friends. If you are a parent, you must be stable as a parent. Can't send some grandiose dynamics in the circle of friends. If you are an employee, you must be an active employee. Can't send some depressed dynamics in the circle of friends.

There are too many things to consider, too many aspects to consider, and you can only suppress your true colors, for fear that this person will feel inappropriate and that person will see bad influence.

What is this equivalent to? There are many things that restrict your behavior, so it is better not to send them directly than to bother to shield them.

This is an emotional change.

I became low-key and calm, and began to focus on my own life, no longer caring about other people's opinions. For example, when I was young, I was very concerned about what others thought of me. I was afraid that others would think that I was not doing well, so I always wanted to show and prove my life through my circle of friends.

But then I realized that life is your own, you don't need to prove anything, and you don't need to care too much about other people's opinions, no matter whether they think you are living well or not.

Because of the change of mood, I became low-key, simple and simple. In fact, I also consider that everyone lives a similar life.

What you can experience, others have experienced, so it is not worth mentioning, and you can't show your superiority in this matter, it will only make you look low.

3. Understand life.

It's also a trip. Some people use the whole process of travel for retouching and copywriting, which is equivalent to a trip in a circle of friends. Others enjoy it quietly and feel the beauty, magnificence and brilliance that their eyes see. So which one is still alive?

Then if you don't send a circle of friends, it is likely that you know how to live, know how to keep the beauty in life in your heart, or know how to feel the colorful beauty with your heart.

This is what really belongs to you and can be kept forever, so there are fewer and fewer friends, not fewer and fewer experiences, nor a lack of beauty in life, but a real understanding of self-sharing.

4. The pace of life is too fast.

The pace of modern life is too fast, there are too few leisurely years, and there is less time to pay attention to friends. Busy with life, work and family every day. When they finally rest, they no longer care about the dynamics of their circle of friends, or even bother to read it again, leaving themselves time to breathe.

Occasionally, I came across some interesting stories, which made me on a whim, but before I finished editing them, I immediately got a call from my family, leaders and teachers, and my mood of coming back was over.

Gradually, people are becoming less and less sensitive to the circle of friends and completely lag behind life. When they can't even care about life, it's even harder to care about others.

5. Learn to digest by yourself.

If you live well, others will be jealous, if you live badly, others will laugh at you, so you gradually learn to digest your emotions, swallow your grievances, endure loneliness, and you can still face life positively the next day. I didn't lose my mood later, but life told me that I can only be strong.

When people are most sad, they are always the most emotional. They don't necessarily want to attract others' attention through their circle of friends, but just want to find a place for themselves to vent.

However, as I grow older, I understand more and more that the grievances and sadness that no one can feel will only make others have a bad opinion. As the saying goes, the more you grow up, the more lonely you are. You can only lick your wounds silently in the middle of the night. So later, I only had the happy one, and the most sad and wronged one was only myself.

It is for these reasons that more and more people no longer send friends, and they are slowly quitting their friends. Here is more of an adult's helplessness. Yes, there is no dynamic day, everyone is trying to live, and everyone is actively living. Simple life is because it is not simple life.

Maybe everyone has different views and ideas, so no matter what lifestyle they are keen on, they all have their own attitudes. In fact, life does not need others to understand.

Friends circle will make people gradually develop certain living habits, and it is only a living habit. But for a person who seldom makes friends, he is often more rational and has strong willpower to support him behind his back. After all, he has restrained many things behind his back, including patience and determination, and he can also show his firmness in these things.

People will inevitably get emotional sometimes, whether you are interesting or lost. This should be our life, because the process of life is that there are many things to deal with, but we will start to be busy and seldom make friends.