From luck to happiness, take a step towards happiness.

The beauty of life lies not in your position, nor in how much money you have, but in how high your heart is and how much love you have. People with lofty ideals have ideals, goals, pursuits and struggles. That kind of life is at least full, even wonderful, which makes people feel a sense of accomplishment. People who love more are happy, happy, lucky and moved. This kind of life is not only happy, but also warm and gives people a sense of belonging. I still remember that in the spring of March of the year of Beijing Olympic Games, we held hands sweetly and set out from happiness. Now, after seven long years, we still love and cheer for happiness.

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Time is always in a hurry. I remember when I was about to stand in Beijing, I often asked myself, who will accompany me to watch the Olympics? As the journey of "going to the third year of high school" is coming to an end, the silly problem comes not from the "embarrassment" of parents' forced marriage, but from the "embarrassment" of small career and no love. When I was in my twenties, Yue Lao ignored me. Just for the sake of career focus on entrepreneurship, remarkable achievements, but also missed the affair. So after I started my career in Beijing, I knew it was time for me to get married.

God may have heard my heart, but soon after I let out a little sigh, I met the right person, and we finally came together. I sincerely thank God, whose ears helped us to realize this marriage. Of course, thanks are deserved, and many things are ultimately won by ourselves. Of course, I will never forget the scene in yuyuantan park. The weather was hot and the flowers were in full bloom. The two young people met for the first time, sitting by the pool with blue sky and clear water, chatting about the sky and mountains until it was getting late. With the more relaxed and unconstrained style, the more we talk, the more we have a common language, and the more we have an impression, so there will be a second, third and more appointments and meetings.

What impressed me the most was September 9, 2007. That day, in order to watch the flag-raising ceremony in Tiananmen Square together, we got up early and went to Tiananmen Square before dawn. Although it is not a big festival, people from all over the world have gathered a lot. In our opinion, everyone is here to add fun to our romance. After the exciting flag-raising ceremony, we saw the sun's head above the east side of Chang 'an Avenue, took photos as a souvenir, and then went to Beihai for a day. A day is long and short, so I won't go into many details. It's all engraved in my heart anyway. Or, you can use your imagination to guess, haha.

Don't mislead everyone. In fact, what I really want to say is that the process that is easily overlooked is the most precious journey in life. Looking back at the initial acquaintance stage, perhaps we have a kind of * * * knowledge in the tacit understanding: knowing more about each other will make us stronger in the next step. So we didn't rush to express anything at first, but exchanged attitudes towards life through contact from different angles, which laid a necessary and important foundation for the rapid development of their relationship. I remember the most interesting "contact" was to agree to bring a laptop, sit together and have a drink, while looking at each other's photos of various periods and chatting about interesting past events. In the film-like contact, we like each other from time to time because of each other's stories or fall into thinking or smile through tears. Through such a unique way, the other party gradually came alive from the abstract concept, that is, on that day, we established a heart-to-heart love relationship.

The next days will be natural. We roll the road together every weekend, and we also go to Mount Tai to watch the sunrise on National Day in 2007. Our feelings are getting closer and closer. On New Year's Day, my parents came to Beijing. After some meetings and consultations, the parents of both sides formally signed an engagement agreement. Since then, the door of happiness has been opened to us without hindrance. So, one day in the spring of March, we, a happy couple, walked hand in hand into the Dongcheng marriage registration office where the residents were located and got back two little red books. From luck to happiness, from love to marriage, we officially became a young couple and booked wedding photography on the same day.

As fast as meeting a partner and holding hands with happiness, the days after marriage pass quickly. In a blink of an eye, we have been married for seven years and our children are almost six years old. People say that marriage has a "seven-year itch", but we are still like the first love, and we are not even surprised. If there must be a panacea for keeping love fresh, I think it may be, like many things, Do not forget your initiative mind. What we need most to nourish love is to be kind to each other forever. Be good to a person, you can't just talk without practice. Trust is the foundation as always, and respect for each other is the magic weapon. Just as it takes a long time to look at people's hearts, it takes time to prove love, and it needs to be expressed by actions. After all, home is not a place for reasoning, but a paradise for love. Apply the declaration she once used in her personal space: "Home is a shelter from the wind, home is an arm to rely on, home is a symphony of pots and pans, and home is a fragrant rice floating in the kitchen."

Marriage and family can't be as passionate as when they are in love, but the more normal the intimate feelings are, the more secure they are, and the more they can experience the test of life friction. Home exists because of love, and love is always there because it is moved. The so-called plainness is true, and gratitude and gratitude persistence after passion are trustworthy love. Looking back on these years, my lover touched me so much that I couldn't get together. For example, after marriage, I spent more time with my work than with her, and she didn't complain; When I gave birth, I only stayed with her for one day and then went back to work, and she didn't complain; The children are in hospital, and I only occasionally rush to the hospital more than ten kilometers away to see their mother. Once, I worked overtime until late at night. I used to watch her and her children sleeping unkempt in a narrow hospital bed, and I cried reluctantly. When the children started kindergarten, she quit her job and became a full-time wife. Knowing that I can go home for dinner at night, I have been waiting for me with an empty stomach; In order to take good care of our father and daughter, she also learned to make cakes, biscuits, meat floss and mutton kebabs. Those things that we love to eat have become her specialty.

To sum up, in fact, the main reason why my wife moved me is that it is not easy to be a military wife. It is said that military wives are not easy, but it is not easy, but it is not easy to understand. Soldiers are a brick in the Great Wall of Steel, protecting the country and defending the country. No matter where they need to be moved, even if they don't go to the wasteland of Yeling Island on the border, they often work day and night to prepare for the war. Soldiers are busy because of their heavy responsibilities. This heavy load of busyness, let alone outsiders, even military wives themselves, is often incomprehensible. The sacrifice of the ego is for the safety of the ego. In this way, family affairs are often left to family members, and even because it is often difficult to see people when they leave early and return late, many family members in the camp seem to live a life of separation. But looking at my hurried back and tired back every day, she can only be independent and strong.

Fortunately, my wife and children gradually understand in their adaptation and gradually give more and more support in the deepening of understanding. When I am stressed, she will chat with me and tell jokes; When I use my brain too much, she will help me massage my head and neck; Most notably, she is always scrambling to do housework. Although housework is not on the table, it is something that a family has to face every day. From this perspective, the importance of doing housework is self-evident. But in order to let me go to work with peace of mind and concentrate on my work, she has taken care of all the laundry and cooking, basically eliminating other work such as cleaning. The only thing she wants from me is that I can spend more time with my children. It is said that fathers should not miss their children's life, play, study and education, but I can't do much except feel guilty. Therefore, as long as the work is not urgent, I try to stay with my child at night, and then quietly leave after he falls asleep to deal with the unfinished work in the middle of the night. My wife loves me deeply, but only in this way can I repay her support.