How not to talk to death?

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The most direct way to talk to death is the mode of "you ask me and answer me". For example, someone sends you a message asking, "What are you doing?" Then you say, "I'm eating!" " "After a while, somebody else sent another sentence:" Have you finished eating? "You said," well, I'm finished. "

What's wrong with the chat above? Not exactly. That's how the Chinese teacher taught us. Answer whatever you ask, don't answer some irrelevant questions. But ... don't you think it's strange? You are chatting with your friends. Do you think you are doing reading comprehension? This tm is obviously a situational dialogue! Can't you just ask, "I'm done. Have you eaten? What are you going to do in the future? " How can you expect others to respond to your shriveled answer? Do you have to turn yourself into a hundred living people just to chat with you? Why?

Secondly, you need to change the topic in time when chatting. Attention, this is the right time! It's not that others are chatting happily, so you start another topic by yourself. Think about it. If one day you buy a super beautiful dress and share it with your girlfriend happily, then you send countless photos to your girlfriend that you think are the most beautiful in history, and then your girlfriend replies, "Well, it looks good. When shall we go shopping?" I'm hungry. "Wow, this atmosphere is really lively? Yes, you are looking for a topic, but you feel comfortable?

I think a normal person will doubt whether his best friend doesn't care about himself or doesn't want to discuss this topic with himself, so when switching topics, we must distinguish the situation, but we must change it! If you don't change, your chat will end sooner or later, even if … neither of you wants to. For example, you and your friend were just about to finish a topic, and then the other person replied, "Haha." Then you ask stupidly, "What are you laughing at? Share it with me! " Mm-hmm ............................................................................................................................................................................ Maybe the memory is too big!

Active atmosphere, the most important thing in chatting is active atmosphere. Sharing knowledge or experience in a serious way will only make the other person think that you are knowledgeable or good at chatting, but … he won't leave a deep impression on you, and then he will feel dull in retrospect. On the contrary, people who know how to take the initiative often make friends more easily. After all, others will find you interesting, or at least feel happy with you.

Language is the most important way people communicate with each other. It's not like physical and chemical formulas. If you remember it, you can always use it. According to different people and different situations, you may still need to summarize and use it yourself.