How to pass happiness on to friends?

Laughter and humor are unique characteristics of human beings. Humor is the expression of wisdom. People with a sense of humor are popular everywhere, which can resolve many interpersonal conflicts or embarrassing situations, turn people's anger into openness and bring happiness to others. So people say, "Laughter is the shortest distance between two people".

A person who is good at joking and humor will often bring great joy to friends and add charm to interpersonal communication, which is very popular. Generally speaking, a person is naturally elegant, witty, humorous, self-deprecating and funny. We can all say that he has a sense of humor. It is even more impressive to make good use of metaphors and introduce interesting stories into the theme.

Interpersonal relationship is an important part of our life, which covers a wide range, such as superior-subordinate relationship, colleague relationship, father-son relationship, husband-wife relationship, relative relationship, brother-sister relationship, classmate relationship, teacher-student relationship and so on. Humor has always been a place to display one's talents in interpersonal relationships. Witty words, laughter, it is easy to connect to the emotional hotline. When misunderstandings, frictions and contradictions occur, only those who lack a sense of humor will make things more and more rigid; If the parties have a certain sense of humor, they will quickly point out the shortcomings of others and show their views with a smile, thus eliminating misunderstandings, easing contradictions and reducing friction. It can be said that humor is monosodium glutamate that regulates interpersonal relationships and is a lubricant in interpersonal communication.

There is an anecdote about western world-class leaders, from which we can know that they have profound wisdom in dealing with difficulties.

At the end of World War II, the leaders of East and West held a meeting in Cairo, Egypt. One day, American President Roosevelt was anxious to discuss an important matter with British Prime Minister Churchill at that time, so he drove to Churchill's temporary pavilion.

Living in cold and humid England for a long time, Churchill found it difficult to adapt to the dry and muggy climate in Cairo, especially when the daytime temperature exceeded 40 degrees Celsius. Churchill spent almost the whole day in a bathtub full of cold water to cool off.

Roosevelt arrived in a hurry, and Churchill's entourage had no time to refuse, so they had to inform Churchill to dress and meet with the President of the United States. Roosevelt went straight into the hall, but he couldn't find Churchill. He heard Churchill singing in a small room next door to him. Roosevelt followed the sound to find the past and happened to bump into the British Prime Minister lying naked in the bathtub.

When the heads of state of the two great powers met in such an embarrassing situation, Roosevelt immediately said, "I have something urgent to find you." This is great. This time we can really be honest with each other! "

Churchill also responded immediately. He said quietly in the bathtub, "Mr. President, you should believe that I really have nothing to hide from you."

The wise dialogue between the two great leaders easily resolved the interpersonal crisis and became a beautiful talk for later generations. From this little anecdote, it seems that we can also appreciate the unparalleled power of humor. Indeed, the power of humor is really immeasurable. From the confrontation between the two leaders in the story to the interpersonal relationship we have to face every day, a good sense of humor is definitely the best lubricant to resolve the conflict crisis and enhance the friendship between the two sides.

The cultivation of a sense of humor comes from being able to relax in time at ordinary times, looking at things with a cheerful and philosophical eye, and giving appropriate entertainment from different angles. As long as you don't criticize and abuse, sneer, comment and laugh at yourself, it will be a popular way of humor.

Japanese companies are investing more and more in the United States, and even many companies directly set up factories in the United States and hire local people. This is of course a mutually beneficial measure, but accidents always happen when Japanese bosses visit because of different languages.

In a Japanese-funded American factory, the Japanese chairman came from afar, and the director called all the employees in the conference hall. Please give a speech.

The Japanese president can't speak English, so he must translate into English sentence by sentence with the help of a translator. The chairman interspersed many jokes in his speech, but unfortunately, due to the cultural differences between the two sides, he did not win the expected laughter. There is only one short story that the chairman spoke in Japanese for more than ten minutes, and the translator translated it in just a few words, which made the audience laugh. This incident left a deep impression on the chairman.

After the speech, the Japanese president asked the translator with great interest: "Your country has a rich vocabulary. I talked about that joke for more than ten minutes, but you managed to translate it in a few words. The effect was really good. "

The American translator said modestly, "Actually, it's nothing. I just told them,' That old man just told a long and funny bad joke. Please join with a smile. " "

Laura, an American student in the doctoral class, is getting married. She has always made many friends, but among many suitors around her, she chose Tom as the object of exchanging wedding rings. After learning the news, several of her good friends were very surprised, because among all the suitors, Tom was neither the most handsome nor the richest.

"Why him?" Laura's mouth turned up: "Simple, because he makes me laugh the most." I see! He won the beauty's heart with a sense of humor, and it was wonderful to laugh at the marriage.

We all like humorous people, and we also like to be laughed at. In fact, having a good sense of humor is the secret weapon of physical and mental health.

A sense of humor can also make us creative, thus producing an epiphany effect of "so that's it". But most importantly, people with a sense of humor are more tolerant of setbacks and more likely to feel happy.

To be honest, how do you evaluate your sense of humor? The situation is a bit miserable. I have been like this since I was a child. What should I do if I always lose interest? Don't put too much pressure on yourself, it's really hard for us to become the second in Zhao Benshan overnight.

There are actually many ways to express your sense of humor. If what you say is always not funny, please change your strategy of expressing your sense of humor. Don't be in a hurry to train your eloquence, try to laugh at others' humor first, because what jokes people like best is that their humor has aroused * * *. Basically, you have to be a master of humor to understand another joke. Therefore, people who know each other's humor and laugh happily must also be full of humor. Next time you hear an interesting conversation, please feel the humor with your heart and laugh out loud to show your extraordinary humor skills.