How to view yourself correctly

As the saying goes, "It's important for people to know themselves." You need to know how many bowls of dry rice you can eat. Don't belittle yourself, don't be arrogant, and look at yourself with a normal heart. Some people say: "Don't take yourself too seriously." Perhaps this is the principle of life, but it must also be analyzed. "Not taking yourself seriously" will not work, and "taking yourself too seriously" will not work. The key is " The word "too", "too much" and "less than" are both undesirable. If others don't take you seriously, you must do the opposite and take yourself seriously. This is because if others don’t take you seriously, it means that they don’t understand you, may have some misunderstandings about you, may still be observing you, or may your talents and character have not been discovered by others. In this case, others may temporarily ignore you. It’s not strange or difficult to understand if you don’t take you seriously. After all, people have a process of getting to know you, and it takes time to test you. If you don’t take yourself seriously at this time, you will belittle yourself and belittle yourself. Being contemptuous of yourself, not knowing how to make progress, and treating life with a negative attitude just proves that others' views of you are correct. Isn't this using other people's "prejudice" to punish yourself? This way, people will take you even more seriously. If others take you seriously, you must be clear-headed, guard against arrogance and impetuosity, and do not be complacent. This is because others take you seriously because they recognize your achievements. Maybe they see your small progress and encourage you. Maybe others pay attention to your achievements while ignoring your shortcomings. Maybe others have requests. For you, I deliberately exaggerated my good impression of you. If you always follow other people's feelings, you will inflate yourself amidst praise, overestimate yourself, and underestimate others, so that you will stagnate. This objectively provides people with a basis for not taking you seriously. There is a fable here about a camel that worked hard to cross the desert. A fly lay on the back of the camel and crossed the desert without any effort. The fly laughed at the camel and said, "Camel, thank you for your hard work in bringing me here. Goodbye!" The camel glanced at the fly and said, "When you were on my body, I didn't even know that you were there. There is no need for you to follow you when you leave." I say hello, you have no weight at all, don’t take yourself too seriously, who do you think you are!” In daily life, if you take yourself too seriously, you will make a joke. Booth Tarkington was a famous American novelist and playwright in the twentieth century. According to him, he once attended an exhibition of artists' works as a special guest. In the meantime, two lovely girls aged sixteen or seventeen piously asked him for his autograph. A girl handed him her very delicate notebook, and he wrote a few words of encouragement with a pencil gracefully and signed his name. The ancient Zou Ji was very smart and self-aware. After thinking about it day and night, he said: "When my wife beautifies me, she is private to me; when my concubine beautifies me, she is afraid of me; when a guest beautifies me, she wants something from me." It seems, isn’t it a bit sad to take yourself too seriously? No matter how powerful a person is, there will be a time when he leaves office, and a time when the most popular stars will take their final call. If you want others to take you seriously from the bottom of their hearts, you can only rely on your own virtue and let others judge you, not what you brag about, let alone what you are "awesome". Generally speaking, if an official goes to a subordinate place or unit, even if he is traveling with his family, it is called "inspection", and he must be cheered and supported, and even police cars must clear the way. The higher the official rank, the bigger the scene, and sometimes the place has to be cleared and martial law enforced. Why mobilize troops and mobilize people like this? Because those officials took themselves too seriously, as if becoming an official doubled their worth and made them different. Otherwise, they would not be able to show their nobility. Food is the most important thing for the people, and three meals a day are necessary for human beings. However, it is not necessary to have delicacies from mountains and seas every day, and it is not necessary to accompany each meal, drink and drink together, and even sing and dance to cheer up the meal. As a result, "the official family has a meal and the people have a meal." Annual food". Because officials take themselves too seriously, they eat hundreds of millions of dollars a year, setting a Guinness World Record. It is too harmful for an official to take himself seriously, because if an official takes himself too seriously, he will not take the people seriously, and the relationship between the government and the people will become tense. If officials put down their arrogance and take the people seriously, a harmonious society will be realized as soon as possible, and people will live a well-off life as soon as possible.