Story

The girl asked, "Uncle Han, should I break up?"

Uncle Han is not an emotional expert or a psychologist.

The girl came running again and asked, "Uncle Han, should I break up with her?"

Uncle Han is not a chicken soup aunt or a bosom sister.

the girl asked again; "Uncle Han, should I ..."

Uncle Han: "Divide it! You are so shaken yourself, do you still need to find reasons from me? "

There is a state of love, which I call deaf and blind.

maybe this is not the category of love. In fact, I have met and experienced this kind of love, so I can empathize with it ... < P > Li Di said that her partner ignored her all day. Although two people live in the same room, they hardly say anything to themselves, let alone have any interaction. Sleeping in the same bed is also different, and even there are few slaps.

she said that she was too tired to be with her.

-Some people, perhaps because of their personality, or because of their thinking and cognition, can really be indifferent to each other's emotional changes in the face of the objects they get along with day and night, and really almost degenerate into simply living.

I changed my hairstyle and walked around in front of the other person, who didn't notice.

Put on new clothes and ask, "Do you think this new clothes look good?" Without raising his eyelids, the other party says "good-looking, good-looking" in a perfunctory way, and even if he is blocked all the way, he will know how to spend money indiscriminately ...

When sharing a joke with the other party, the other party will send a "hehe" or a casual smile expression, or say "boring" ...

When he is upset at work and suddenly loses his mood, he will cry with the other party. Even impatiently criticize sentences: "Why did you do that ..."

If you want to communicate with each other, you will end impatiently with "I can't talk to you", "I can't tell you clearly" and "I can't communicate at all" ...

Li Di said that once they went out to play with a group of friends, all of whom were insiders. Others are all kinds of sweet love shows, and their partners are not even willing to let themselves arm in arm, saying that the weather is hot.

it's difficult to walk through a mountain road without stairs.

others can treasure their own objects, and their own objects go straight ahead without even waiting for themselves. Li Di accidentally fell down and shouted at the back, XXX, come and help me!

it's embarrassing that the other party didn't hear it and went further and further.

Li Di said that she felt that her partner didn't really hear it, but didn't want to hear it.

Uncle Han replied, "Yes. I have no intention. "

There is no denying that some people really pretend to be deaf and blind in love. You said you had no feelings, but the other party denied it and refused to break up. I just think that after a long time together, it should be like this. The emotional needs of the other party are all melodramatic and artificial.

Being with such people is like living with a stone and a piece of wood. You can only rely on yourself, and you can only share your joys and sorrows.

In the face of such an object, I will slowly give up communication, and when I want to say a lot, I will hold back, and finally I will be indifferent and numb.

This vicious circle will eventually bring feelings to a deadlock, and the emotional demand side will become more and more depressed, and contradictions will break out sooner or later, and the final result is often a slap in the face.

The passionate love will dissipate sooner or later, and time can't kill love. What is obliterated is the patience and desire of two people who just got together, and the emotional connection that they will try to establish.

I can live without love, interaction and emotional communication, but this is a "dead day", "deaf and blind", and I just make do with it.

Today, someone said to me, "At least you have a baby." Hehe, what happened to a baby? Baby can replace lover? Eva can't meet the needs of love, and she will have her own life and love in the future ...

As for love, she will never compromise.

marry love no matter how hard it is.

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