How to make yourself a humorous person?

This question is just like "how naive". It's hard to answer.

I thought about it and thought that humor is a kind of human nature. This does not mean that humor is innate. Of course, optimism is a natural feature, and this optimism often changes with the change of environment. When things go well, I naturally feel that everything will go well; If things don't go well, your mood will definitely be affected.

How to cultivate a sense of humor

Humor is a special emotional expression. It is a tool for people to adapt to the environment and one of the ways to relieve mental and psychological pressure when people face difficulties. Russian writer Chekhov said: People who don't know how to joke are hopeless. It can be seen that everyone in life should learn humor. A little more sense of humor, less panic, less paranoia and extreme, less life-and-death

Humor can dilute people's negative emotions and eliminate depression and pain. People with a sense of humor, life is full of fun, many seemingly painful and annoying things, but easy to deal with. Dealing with troubles and contradictions with humor will make people feel harmonious, happy and friendly. So, how to cultivate a sense of humor?

Understand the inner meaning of humor, point out the shortcomings or advantages of others quickly and tactfully, and affirm or deny them with a smile. Humor is not glib, nor is it sarcasm or satire. As a celebrity said, impetuous, pretentious, stubborn, lacking in resources, dull and clumsy, it is difficult to be humorous. Only when you are calm, treat others equally, be aloof, be smart and thorough can you be humorous.

Broaden knowledge, humor is a manifestation of wisdom, and it must be based on rich knowledge. Only when a person has the ability to assess the situation and extensive knowledge can he be rich in conversation and interested in Miao Yan, thus making an appropriate metaphor. Therefore, to cultivate a sense of humor, we should read widely, enrich ourselves, constantly collect humorous radio waves from voluminous books, and extract humorous gems from the essence of interesting stories of celebrities.

Cultivate sentiment, face the reality optimistically, and humor is the expression of tolerance. To be considerate of others and learn humor, we must learn to be generous, overcome haggle over every ounce, and be optimistic at the same time. Optimism and humor are close friends. If there were more fun and relaxation, more smiles and games, more optimism and humor in life, there would be no insurmountable difficulties, and there would be no people who would be sad all day.

Cultivating profound insight, improving the ability to observe things and cultivating the ability of wit and agility is an important aspect of improving humor. Only by grasping the essence of things quickly and using appropriate metaphors and humorous language can people feel relaxed. Of course, at the same time of humor, we should also pay attention to the importance of not being careless, treat different problems differently, and be extremely flexible in dealing with them, so that humor can provide real nourishment for human spiritual life.