Should the marriage that only gives money but not love continue? What's going on here?

Should we continue to give money to loveless marriages? What's going on here? Very concerned, the following light snow to sort out the relevant information, let's take a look now!

Marriage without love and "sex+money+children", as long as one of these three things is enough to maintain a marriage, for this Japanese woman, children are different from money, which is already very good. Recently, a news broke. A Japanese actress received 1 10000 living expenses every month after marriage, but she could not see her husband. On weekdays, her life is just making friends and taking care of the baby. As soon as the news came out, I chatted with my female colleagues around me and agreed that there were many single, passionate and married people with children. Money is a good thing, but not all women are money worshippers. Behind the craze for money is women's "collective disappointment" with marriage and men, so there will be a consistent "identity" to vent.

Should the marriage that only gives money but not love continue? What's going on here? Let's take a look at Bian Xiao.

A loveless marriage and "sex+money+children" are three things. As long as there is one of them, the marriage is long enough. For this Japanese woman, children are different from money, which is already very good.

Recently, a news broke. A Japanese actress received 1 10000 living expenses every month after marriage, but she could not see her husband. On weekdays, her life is just making friends and taking care of the baby.

This news is nothing, but the comments have exploded. Netizens have said that there are such good things in the world. ...

In these jokes, I read a kind of helpless bitterness. Isn't this the voice of some puzzled women in Fortress Besieged?

Marriage without love and "sex+money+children", as long as one of these three things is enough to maintain a marriage, for this Japanese woman, children are different from money, which is already very good.

As soon as the news came out, I chatted with my female colleagues around me and agreed that there were many single, passionate and married people with children. Money is a good thing, but not all women are money worshippers. Behind the craze for money is women's "collective disappointment" with marriage and men, so there will be a consistent "identity" to vent.

Yi Shu said in Xibao: "What women want most is love, lots and lots of love. Without love, money is good. "

Desperate Housewives is not just a soap opera, but people we can see every day. They are either busy with their careers, neglecting their families, abandoning their dreams and staying at home full-time, or they are exhausted between work and family. They usually have little chance to complain about the lack of love in marriage, but occasionally they make fun of themselves and cover up their loneliness with humor and openness.

Even now, marriage is still a besieged city for women.

The CP of Song Dynasty announced the wedding news, and the women happily expressed their praise and support.

Even if your marriage is a mess, it can't shake your inner belief in romance. Just like when they first entered marriage, brides would think they were the happiest women in the world at the moment they put on their wedding dresses.

Even after 80s and 90s with strong independent thoughts, most girls' growing environment is still full of male chauvinism. They were subtly taught to worship their father from an early age, and after they got married, they just transferred the worship of their father to their husbands. The problems they face after marriage are still the same as the previous generation, such as career and family, men's infidelity, mother-in-law relationship, raising children and romantic wedding. Only after taking off the wedding dress is the unavoidable truth of marriage:

Before praying, many people will inevitably listen to the "terror curse" issued by their three aunts and six grandmothers or even their own mothers. "If you don't get married, you will be left"; "A woman is worthless after 25." "How can a person live well? How can a woman get married? "

Under the influence of fear, lack and dreaminess, we entered the marriage, because we never learned how to run a "close relationship", and people always have a blind optimism or inexplicable pessimism. Happiness, happiness, anxiety, panic, anxiety and doubt will inevitably appear with the development of marriage.

Soon after they got married, they entered what marriage and love experts call the "truth-emerging period". Some couples started a running-in journey, some started a long and lasting power struggle, some lost each other, some parted ways, and some were inseparable.

After all, we always deceive ourselves with such rotten chicken soup as "marriage is the grave of love" or "love is short-lived, and it will always turn into affection in marriage".

After the protracted war, men and women feel disillusioned at the same time, and they don't believe in love or even marriage, so it is natural to cheat and lie.

Experience and growth are never positively related.

As Wang said in "See you later", it's still not good to know so much.

Different from men, men "have a world to fight for", but because of the traditional marriage system, women are given the role of helping men manage their families, so women have always regarded marriage as the main battlefield and sought self-worth in it. Of course, at this time, a woman with a strong sense of independence will stand up and loudly refute "we also have our own world." However, her confidence is insufficient. However, public opinion will only think that this woman devoted herself to her career because of the failure of her family business. There is no praise, only sympathy or denial. Park geun-hye is a typical example.

The highest evaluation of women by public opinion is often the combination of career and family, which is why Tamia Liu and Sun Li are so sought after. People think this is the representative of the winner of women's life.

Career success is icing on the cake, and family happiness is the foundation.

This is determined by genes. In the same marriage, the husband is not distressed at all, but the wife is often on the verge of collapse. This is also in line with what we often see in marriage counseling.

Once a woman enters marriage, she will immediately assume all the roles she can: wife, mother, daughter-in-law, daughter, and working woman. In this drastic role change, many women often feel panic and confused. She will naturally think of her husband first and seek psychological comfort and support through various words or actions. But many times, the husband can't get what his wife wants, or he will give an emotional response patiently at first, and then he will get bored and choose to escape and ignore it.

Many marriages are neglected by one party, and the despair of the other party gradually leads to a dead end. More sadly, in real life, this kind of marriage is often maintained, with neither hope of improvement nor determination to crush it completely.