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Language is the key to communication and the bridge of emotion. How to improve language expression ability?
First of all, realize the importance of language expression ability.
The ability of language expression is one of the basic qualities necessary for modern talents. In modern society, due to the rapid development of economy, people's communication is more and more frequent, and the importance of language expression ability is becoming more and more important. Good eloquence is increasingly regarded as an essential ability for modern people.
As modern people, we should not only have new ideas and opinions, but also express them well in front of others. We should not only contribute to the society with our own actions, but also infect and convince others with our own language.
As far as occupation is concerned, people from all walks of life in modern society need eloquence: for politicians and diplomats, eloquence and eloquence are basic qualities; Business workers sell goods, attract customers and entrepreneurs manage enterprises, all of which need eloquence. In people's daily communication, eloquent people can make plain topics attractive, while clumsy people will sound dull even if the topic content is no matter how good. Some suggestions are passed by people with good eloquence, but those with poor eloquence can't get them even after many times.
David, former president of the American Medical Association? Dr. Auman once said that we should strive to cultivate the ability to let others enter our thoughts and hearts, and clearly convey our thoughts and ideas to others in front of others, in the crowd and in front of the public. When we make continuous progress in this way, we will find that our true self is shaping an unprecedented image in people's hearts and producing an unprecedented shock.
In a word, language ability is the main way to improve our quality and develop our potential, the priceless treasure to control our lives, transform our lives and pursue our career success, and the only way to success.
Second, test your language quotient.
Language quotient (LQ) refers to the quotient of a person's ability to learn, understand and master a language. Specifically, it refers to a person's language thinking ability, speech expression ability and adaptability in language communication.
Language ability is not innate, but a skill acquired by people through acquired learning. Although there are genetic or brain structural abnormalities, there are language advantages or language disabilities. In real life, due to different subjective and objective conditions, time spent and learning needs of everyone, the speed and level of acquiring language quotient ability are also different. This shows that people's language quotient ability is mainly strengthened and improved by acquired language training and language communication.
Language is the most widely distributed and average ability of human beings. Among all kinds of human intelligence, linguistic intelligence is listed as the first kind of intelligence. Facts show that language plays an important role in people's lives and is the core factor for people to develop their intelligence and social skills.
For a long time, people always think that language is just a communication tool, and we must master it and use it skillfully. In fact, this kind of understanding is only based on the communicative function of language. From the relationship between language and speaker, language is a kind of "multimedia"-it can be used as a tool and also a reflection of psychological ability. For example, it is the same to express a meaning, some people will "punch lines", while others "fail to express their meaning"? This is the difference in psychological ability. If a person's other abilities are excellent, and at the same time, his language quotient ability is gradually improving, then he will definitely be better. Quotient can not only make people think with their brains, but also express their thinking problems in words at any time. If we speak with accurate language, proper rhetoric and beautiful pronunciation, we will be more handy in all kinds of work, more successful in our careers and more colorful in our lives.
People's language communication and interpersonal skills are more important in this increasingly competitive 2 1 century, and language quotient will bring us new opportunities for survival and improve people's quality in all directions.
We live in a world with a sound language, and language ability is an extremely important survival ability for everyone in his life. The level of language communication is the level of language quotient ability. Through the following tests, we will determine our language quotient ability.
And:
Chapter IV Skills of Developing Brain Potential (1)
Section 2 1 Language Potential Development Skills (2)
Test one
Detection content
1. What effect do you think being able to speak has on a person's life?
A. important.
B. general
C.it doesn't matter
2. When you talk to many people, you will:
A. sometimes interrupt a few words.
B. let others say that they are just spectators.
C. Make good use of words to increase others' goodwill towards you.
3. In public, your performance is:
A. good at words.
B. inarticulate
C. be ashamed to talk.
4. If a highly dependent friend calls to chat with you and you have no time to accompany him, you will:
A. ask him if it's important. If not, call him back.
Tell him that you are too busy to talk to him.
C. not answering the phone.
5. Because a language mistake has a bad influence on colleagues, you will:
A. talk as much as possible.
B. Try to find opportunities to save the influence with good words and deeds.
C. dare not speak.
6. When someone tells you that someone has spoken ill of you, you will:
A. beware of him everywhere.
B. Speak ill of him, too.
C. Take the initiative to chat with him.
7. At a friend's birthday party, you met his classmate. When you see him again:
A.just saying hello in a hurry.
B. Call out his name as soon as you open your mouth and talk to him enthusiastically.
C. I talked a few words and left a new contact information.
8. After being misunderstood by others, you will:
A. Give more understanding.
B. ignore this problem.
C. stop talking to people.
grading standards
1. Choose A, 2 points, choose B, 1 point, choose C, 0 points.
2. Choose A, 1, B, 0, C, 2.
3. Choose A, 2 points, choose B, 1 point, choose C, 0 point.
4. Choose A, 2 points, choose B, 1 point, choose C, 0 point.
5. Choose A, 0 points, choose B, 2 points, choose C, 1 point.
6. Choose A, 1, B, 0, C, 2.
7. Choose A, 0 points, choose B, 2 points, choose C, 1 point.
8. Choose A, 2 points, choose B, 1 point, choose C, 0 point.
Test analysis
A score of 0 ~ 5 indicates that your language quotient is low, and your language expression and communication skills are still lacking. If you are too introverted, it will hinder your language ability. You should try to change this situation, jump out of your own small circle, get in touch with people outside, find some opportunities to communicate with others, and strive to cultivate your speaking ability. Only in this way can you hope to become a popular person.
The score is between 6 ~ 1 1, which shows that your language quotient is good and your language expression and communication skills are average. If you work harder, you can communicate with people easily. The magic weapon to improve your language ability is to take the initiative, so that you can win the initiative in language communication and your language quotient ability will naturally go to a new level. The score is between 12 and 16, which means that your language quotient is high. You know how to express your feelings and thoughts, and you can understand and support others well. You can keep a good conversation with your colleagues, friends, superiors and subordinates. It is worth noting that you should never show off your communication and communication skills, otherwise others will think that you are deliberately trying to please others, which is a very hypocritical performance. Especially for people who are not good at communicating with others, pay more attention to impress others with your sincerity. Only in this way can you maintain a good popularity for a long time and your language quotient can be higher.
There is a small test next, and then do it.
Chapter IV Skills of Developing Brain Potential (1)
Section 22 Language Potential Development Skills (3)
Test 2
Test content:
If someone interrupts you in the middle of your speech and changes the subject, you will:
A. stop talking.
B. talk to each other.
C. please don't interrupt.
D. wait for him (her) to finish, then go on.
Test results:
Choose a.
It shows that your language quotient ability is too low. Being interrupted in the middle of a conversation may make you feel that it is a sign of disrespect. You think this "treatment" is shameful, but you won't argue with him right away. You try to swallow what you haven't finished, hoping that no one will notice you and pretend that you haven't said anything. Your quotient index at this time: *
Choose B.
It shows that your language quotient ability is low. You have no patience and can't tolerate others interrupting you at this time. Once you are treated unfairly, you will immediately "answer blows with blows." This kind of personality doesn't seem to suffer in interpersonal communication, but it always gives people a sharp-edged feeling and makes others stay away from you. In addition, this personality is also easy to cause unnecessary disputes in conversation with people. I suggest you strengthen your training and improve your language quotient quickly. Your quotient index at this time: * *
Choose C.
It shows that your language quotient ability is good. However, the disadvantage is that you are overbearing when you speak, and you are not allowed to interrupt or interrupt, otherwise you will never sit idly by. You will warn each other in person and make them respect your right to speak. You are a self-centered person; You do whatever you want, and no one will interfere. Once someone interferes with you, you will rudely correct it. Your language behavior shows that you are confident, full of courage and strength, but it is easy to conflict with each other. You might as well pay more attention to this. Your quotient index at this time: * * *
Choose D.
Explain that your language quotient ability is high, and you will handle any conflict between you and others well. You belong to the kind of person who feels uncomfortable before he finishes speaking. If someone disrespects you and interrupts you, you won't be angry. You will wait patiently for the other person to finish before continuing. I can see that you are a very calm person, which can not only avoid the embarrassment of unfinished words, but also teach each other a lesson. Your quotient index at this time: * * * * *
Through the above tests, I believe everyone has a certain understanding of their language quotient. In the following reading, we will also learn a lot about how to improve our language quotient.
Chapter IV Skills of Developing Brain Potential (1)
Section 23 Language Potential Development Skills (4)
Third, improve the language quotient quickly.
People with high language quotient have a wide range of knowledge, flexible mind, strong judgment, full confidence, magnetic and attractive words. At the same time, they can speak freely in all kinds of conversations, and talk with Kan Kan, winning the respect and praise of others. If readers and friends do not perform well in the above tests, but want to win the respect and praise of others with their own words in various conversation occasions, then we should remember and do the following nine points.
(1) Don't use common sayings. Common sayings will hinder your free use of language.
(2) Use as many numbers as possible. When you speak with more numbers, your language will be more vivid and convincing, and you will be more confident.
(3) Watch more TV. Television is the most emotional source of language, but we should pay attention to: don't just watch TV series, watch more consulting and interview programs, so as to learn other people's conversation skills better.
(4) Cultivate a sense of purpose. Speak with a clear goal, just like walking, and have a directional choice. This "choice" can help you avoid rambling in your speech.
(5) Learn some new languages. In daily work and study, we can often learn and absorb some new languages, which can better enrich our own language vocabulary.
(6) Cultivate the spirit of inquiry. In the process of study and work, I suggest you try your best to do it: either don't do it, do it well, and constantly explore various laws in life. You should know not only what it is, but also why.
(7) training judgment. This ability is very important for language. When talking with people, if you make a mistake in judgment, you may make an answer with the opposite meaning, which may easily lead to unnecessary misunderstanding.
(8) Say more powerful words. If you have the power, you can speak directly. If you have, you can do it. If you can't, you can't. For example, you'd better not say "I think …" and "I think …", but try to say "I think …", so that your words are strong enough.
(9) Talk to people more. You might as well try to expand your circle of friends and constantly increase your opportunities to speak, which is more conducive to improving your ability to control the language.
Fourth, improve the six abilities that language quotient should possess.
If you want to improve your language quotient and become a language genius with high language quotient, you should also have the following six abilities.
1. Listening ability
Listening is the basis of speaking. If you want to be able to speak, you must establish good habits of listening, listening and listening, such as listening to news and speeches, so that you can get a lot of rich information. After the information is integrated and refined, it will form a rich source of language wisdom. Cultivate listening ability and lay a solid foundation for cultivating oral ability.
2. The ability to see
Reading more can provide material and demonstration for speaking more. You can watch movies, books, newspapers and TV programs with many language dialogues, and you can also watch various vivid and touching scenes in real life. On the one hand, these ways can cultivate sentiment and enrich cultural life, on the other hand, they can let you learn other people's speaking styles, skills and contents. Especially the dialogues between characters in movies, plays, books and newspapers, which originate from life and are higher than life, can provide you with an example of learning to speak.
3. The ability to recite
Reciting can not only strengthen memory, but also train you to form a good sense of language. I suggest you try to recite more poems, aphorisms, proverbs, etc. , rich in connotation and beautiful in writing. Reciting more will not only nourish and edify your emotions, but also gradually form your own correct and vivid language.
4. Thinking ability
Thinking is the only way to keep your mind organized. In real life, many times we don't say it, but we don't think about it. If you don't understand, you can't say it clearly. Before you say something or introduce a person, I suggest you seriously think about the time, place and process of this incident, and think about the appearance and characteristics of the characters. With more organized thinking, you will make your language more organized.
5. Editing ability
Being able to compile a good theory is a sign of rich imagination and strong creativity. I suggest you develop good writing habits, which will play a positive role in improving your language thinking and speaking ability.
6. Ability to speak
Speaking is the highest expression of language expression ability. Only by talking more can your business ability improve rapidly.
Chapter IV Skills of Developing Brain Potential (1)
Section 24 Language Potential Development Skills (5)
5. Concentrate better.
In order to make your speech short and your article concise, you must learn to concentrate. Concentration is the refinement of language, and concentrated language is the essence of language.
Hundreds of years ago, a clever old king gathered a group of clever courtiers and gave them a task: "I want you to compile a book of wisdom for future generations."
After leaving the old king, these smart people began to work hard. It took them a long time to finally finish a twelve-volume masterpiece. They showed the book of wisdom to the old king. After reading it, he said, "Ministers, I am convinced that this is the crystallization of wisdom of past dynasties. However, it's too thick, and I'm afraid no one will finish reading it. Concentrate again! " After long-term efforts, these smart people cut a lot of content and finally finished a book. But the old king still felt that the time was too long and ordered them to continue to concentrate.
This group of smart people condensed a book into a chapter, a page, a paragraph, and finally condensed it into a sentence. When the old king saw this sentence, he was very happy and said, "Ministers, this is the crystallization of wisdom of all ages." As long as people everywhere know this truth, most of the problems we have been worried about can be solved smoothly. "
This classic sentence is: "There is no such thing as a free lunch."
This sentence warns people: even if they meet their most basic needs for survival, they should do it themselves; Even if your grandparents and parents can provide you with a rich material foundation, you need to do it yourself. Otherwise, you will have to live on an empty pocket.
Six, four strategies to expand the language quotient
If you want to expand your business quickly and efficiently, I suggest you follow the strategy of "four wants and four don't".
1. Seek truth from facts and don't talk big.
Just like doing things, we should pay attention to reality, don't blindly pursue to decorate with gorgeous words, and don't grandstanding.
2. Be popular and don't pose.
Avoid abstruse words and try to use popular language, such as common sayings, two-part allegorical sayings and humorous jokes. You may get twice the result with half the effort.
3. Be concise and not vague.
Speak concisely, don't be wordy and have nothing to say, so that others won't understand you.
4. Be modest and don't put on airs.
If you put on airs in your speech, the audience will be very disgusted. In this way, you will not only fail to achieve the purpose of speaking, but also affect the mood of the listener. I hope you can remember that modesty is the virtue of a speaker.
The above four points are some general speaking methods summarized from the overall language expression, which is very helpful to expand your language quotient.
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