What if personality can't be independent?

This sentence may be the steel brand in the hearts of most strong and independent people! However, this view must be considered separately.

I think people will always be social people, no matter how excellent and independent you think you are. But you will always be dependent on others! This dependence includes: the care of parents, the friendship between friends, the love of lovers, the filial piety of children and so on.

I think a normal person always needs all of the above, or at least one, to live a happy life! Therefore, I think no one can do it without relying on others. Unless he has left the social group!

However, I want to go deeper and say that becoming independent and strong is really shaped by the environment. If a person is in a well-educated environment (including parents, school, living environment, etc. I think it is difficult for him to be strong and independent!

My strong independence comes from the harsh environment, and my mother's education for a dull child is different from that of ordinary parents. Kind-hearted, I still think that my mother's death is inseparable from her kindness and selflessness. Hard-working, small body can always bring up our three sisters when they are too poor to eat. Strict education has taught us since childhood that only learning can get ahead. Life experiences are many!

Such an environment makes us gradually become independent and powerful. But dependence on mother still exists, even after her death for so many years. All her thoughts and love have been passed down. ....！

I remember what my uncle said to me: be a self-respecting, self-confident, self-reliant and self-reliant person. How can such a person succeed without the support of the belief behind him? Faith comes from those rich emotional cornerstones that we rely on!