Can lovers see jokes?

Both men and women should remember that what jokes can't be played between lovers are likely to lead to the end of breaking up? Many people want to talk about a love that will not break up, but couples will argue for a long time. From passers-by to acquaintances to lovers, we may think that even if everyone is in love, it must be the most important person between each other, and there should be no big problem in joking in daily life. However, it is usually some unintentional jokes that lead lovers to strangers. Both men and women need to remember that there are three jokes between husband and wife that can easily lead to the end of breaking up.

The first joke: Don't make fun of each other's parents. Try not to talk about your parents when you are in love. Everyone loves their parents and wants their parents to be respected and loved. It is easy for couples to chat without face, skin, you and me. Sometimes offending each other's parents doesn't know, and it will leave a crack in each other's heart. Naturally, deliberately mocking and offending each other's parents should not be done. If parents can't take it seriously, there is no need to be together.

In addition, when lovers quarrel, don't take each other's parents as examples, such as "Your mother didn't teach you" and "Your father is an asshole". I believe everyone will collapse when they speak ill of their parents. No matter how bad his parents are, he is his parents. He can make fun of his parents, but as an individual, don't talk nonsense, otherwise it is easy to disagree with the object.

The second joke: you can't break up easily. Some people say that people who often break up are actually the last ones to break up. They only use it because they feel insecure. "Breaking up" allows the other person to deceive himself and confirm that the other person still loves him. But I don't know, lovers break up at two ends in three days, and they break up at a little thing, and they can really be exhausted by nagging. Physical and mental exhaustion and disappointment are enough, and it is really possible to break up with you. This is certainly not the result you want. In a relationship, a perfect adult should usually control his temper.

If you really love each other, there is each other in your heart. When there are disputes and differences, no matter how fierce the dispute is, don't break up irrationally. After the argument, calm down, think about your own reasons, and then think about whether he is wrong. Don't put all the mistakes on each other and throw yourself away, which will only make you more and more interested in walking into a dead end, and it is not good for love.

The third joke: don't always talk about your predecessor. Many men and women, even if they have incumbents, always like to talk about their predecessors. Some people show off how good their predecessors are, and some people laugh at how hateful their predecessors are. But whether it is showing off or laughing, it is not good for the current relationship. Showing off your predecessor will make you dissatisfied with him, so you will miss your predecessor and make him feel inferior. Laughing at your ex will make you feel bad and even feel like I broke up with you.

Both men and women have a new relationship, so it's best not to mention the past relationship. There is a saying that "a qualified predecessor should die like a dead man". Keeping your mouth shut is the greatest respect for the present. The object must be emotional intelligence, IQ and skills. Don't think about why jokes can be made. Some jokes may ruin your love.