What is the greatest irony of marriage?

For marriage, the biggest irony is that you hate each other, torture each other and find that you can't live without each other. The Lost Girl, directed by the famous director david fincher, tells the story of a couple who get to know each other, love each other, hate each other and hurt each other, and finally can't get rid of each other, so they can only continue to entangle and maintain a fake marriage. This film can be said to be a dark interpretation of modern marriage. Although it is suspected of being partial, it does analyze the essence of marriage from a certain level. Many people bluntly suffered from fear of marriage after watching it, and some married people expressed the same feeling, that is, they did not encounter anything as extreme as in the movie.

In reality, marriage can't be 100% harmonious and perfect, and there will always be various contradictions between them because of their differences in personality and ideas. At this time, smart people will slowly find ways to resolve it, but most people will just let it go. Even if most contradictions can be solved, some things involve people's hearts, and even compromise can't be solved perfectly. For example, when two people get along for a long time, their feelings will be dull and seemingly unstoppable, but because of marriage. We still have a tacit understanding to eat, sleep and go shopping together. It seems that each other is deliberately forgetting this small change.

Because after the passion of love faded, everyone realized the importance of life. Everything is its side dish, its seasoning. We have tasted the ups and downs and found that the flat talk is true. For the faint feelings, it also makes the taste of life dull. For the elderly, this is the most suitable for their tastes. This is a process that countless marriages must cross. What I am most afraid of is that the relationship between two people suddenly becomes dull without the baptism of time, which is a dangerous signal. Because this is to change the taste, not to get tired of all the flavors.

For such people, they will not choose divorce because of formalism. But once all kinds of temptations come to them, they will betray their lover very decisively. At this time, the couple, as described in the lyrics, became the world? The most familiar stranger? . Marriage without emotional foundation is like a drama, and everyone needs to wear his own mask. Over time, everyone will feel bored and anxious. At this time, various contradictions will emerge one after another and they will hate each other. But they still can't afford the risk of divorce, and they still choose to continue living together.

To a certain extent, hatred will turn into all kinds of harmful behaviors, and everyone will retaliate against each other. But after a sleep, the two sides had to pretend to live in peace. After all, there is still a long way to go before you can completely tear your face, but over time, after you get familiar with it to a certain extent, you will gradually adapt to this kind of life atmosphere and eventually you can't live without each other. In fact, all marriages lead to the same goal, and love is weak. Because we have known each other for decades, we have become more closely linked. And this close connection will eventually become a more familiar emotion? Family? .