Boyfriend is in a bad mood, what should girlfriend do?

Boyfriend is in a bad mood, and girlfriend must comfort him.

Men are naturally not good at expressing themselves and have no desire to talk. When have you ever seen two big men spitting melon seeds and grabbing a handful of melon seeds for a long time? I don't think so. So when girls are in a bad mood, they always like to do things that make boys collapse: why don't you say something? Tell me about it.

Girls, that worked for you. After all, you are the kind of person who wants to talk to someone. You may just want to be comfortable and don't want to solve the problem or anything, but in the eyes of boys, there is nothing to talk about if you can't solve the problem. But what if the boy's heart is blocked? Simple, I'll tell you what their core demands are.

Boys are taught to have a sense of responsibility and responsibility from an early age, and they are not even allowed to show weakness. For them, the sense of responsibility and mission is the burden of their life. When they are frustrated, their instinctive reaction is self-doubt. A person is fine, but for boys, having a girlfriend may make the mood worse.

You said I didn't need them to prove anything, and I didn't expect much-here comes the fun. Remember what I said about boys' sense of responsibility and mission? Even if you really don't have any ideas, they will default to "you have ideas", "you have expectations" and "you are responsible for yourself".

Then we just need to solve their inexplicable guilt and the pressure they put on themselves. You should show maternity and care, but you should also stimulate the boy's fighting spirit appropriately. Tell him that you are here with him and you are willing to take care of him, guide him to show his vulnerability, and inspire his fighting spirit after reassuring him.