These 50 topics must be discussed with your children before going to bed every day!

Some parents think that chatting is just about saying whatever you want without any scruples, but this is not the case.

Chatting should be an art. Effective chatting will build a bridge between the hearts of children and parents. This bridge will connect the generation gap between generations.

And casual and unskilled chatting can sometimes have the opposite effect, causing children to lose trust in their parents and leading to serious consequences of gradually closing their hearts. How to find topics when chatting with children?

1. Choose an appropriate time to chat

To chat, choose a time that is pleasant, when the child is in a good mood, and when everyone is not busy, the effect of chatting is best. Don’t force your child to chat with you when he or she is tired or in a bad mood and just wants to be quiet.

2. Find the same language as your child, and don’t habitually deny everything

Some parents think that their children have immature ideas and always disagree with their children’s words. When chatting with children, they also habitually deny it, while overwhelmingly educating them on what they should do. Children feel that they have no right to speak or choose, and they gradually become unwilling to chat with their parents.

3. Appropriate use of loving body language when chatting, so that children can feel the love and care of parents

Parents can use body language appropriately, such as hugging and kissing children at the right time. The child's face praises the child's performance. When children are chatting with their parents, they feel that their parents love them, and they regard the process of chatting between their parents and themselves as a matter of loving and being loved. Children are more and more willing to talk to their parents about their feelings and solve various problems, and the parent-child relationship will become deeper and deeper, thus achieving effective chatting.

Always talk to your children about these 50 topics before going to bed every day to bring them closer and exercise their thinking skills and language expression.

1. If you have 100 yuan, how do you want to use it?

2. What gift do you want for holidays/birthdays?

3. If we go out to play together, where would you like to go?

4. Did the teacher teach anything new today?

5. What did you eat at school today?

6. Who is your favorite? Why?

7. If you could become an adult, what would you most like to do?

8. If you had a super power, what would you most want to do?

9. What is your favorite toy?

10. If you could raise a small animal, what animal would it be?

11. What is your favorite thing to do?

12. Is there anything you are angry about today?

13. What will happen if you don’t brush your teeth?

14. Which of the life and study rules your parents set for you do you feel bad about?

15. If you were parents for a day, what would you let us do?

16. If you were a teacher, what do you think you should/shouldn’t do?

17. If you could name yourself, what would you think of?

18. Let’s exchange a secret. What is your secret?

19. If you could use three words to describe your parents, which ones would you use?

20. If you could make a video or phone call, who would you most like to call?

21. What do you think home is like?

22. What would you do if you came home and found no one at home?

23. Which character in the cartoon do you think is the funniest?

24. What is your favorite song to sing?

25. How do you feel when someone hugs you?

26. If you wanted to draw a picture, what would you draw?

27. Who do you like to play with the most?

28. Which cartoon is your favorite?

29. When will the baby find his mother annoying?

30. If there was a supermarket, what would you want to sell?

31. If you could go to bed in one hour, what would you like to do?

32. What new game has your baby learned?

33. If you were to give a gift to your good friend, what would you give?

34. If you could describe yourself in three words, which ones would you use?

35. If your parents are unhappy, how will you comfort them?

36. What do you think you are best at?

37. Is there anything you want but can’t get?

38. What is your favorite festival?

39. If you could change the sky into a color you like, what color would it be?

40. If a dog could talk, what do you think he would say to you?

41. If you could fly anywhere like a bird, where would you fly?

42. If you could become an animal, what animal would you most like to become?

43. What are you happy about today?

44. If your parents grew a vegetable with you, what vegetable would you grow?

45. What fun things happened today?

46. What smells best to babies?

47. How can you become brave when you feel scared?

48. What do you want to do when you grow up?

49. When you go to the supermarket to buy something, what do you want to buy most?

50. What are you most afraid of?