Is it true that when you are in trouble, your relatives may laugh at you and your friends may help you?

When you are in trouble, relatives may watch your jokes and friends may help you. I wonder if this is true. This situation is relatively normal. According to the statistics of sociology and psychology, more than 95% people have felt this way. Many people think that relatives will not watch jokes when they are in trouble, and friends will not help them. Relatives will watch your jokes when you are in trouble, and friends may also watch your jokes. It's just that some people feel that their relatives are close and have higher requirements for them. Once their relatives don't get the expected help, they will be more depressed. People are based on the exchange of interests and values. Family members are like this, so are friends. People should rely on themselves, don't pin their hopes on others, and try to save as much as possible when they have the ability to live a good life, so that they can tide over the difficulties in the future. No one really wants you to live better than them. Everyone is likely to see your jokes, unless he and your interests are very close, and the distribution of interests is fair, how much interest others need is uncertain. In a word, it is best to solve the difficulties by yourself. Good luck.