Reflections on reading "Meet on Tuesday"

After reading a book carefully, you must have a lot of thoughts in your heart. At this time, you need to carefully record it and write down your thoughts after reading. In order to save you from the headache of writing and reading, here are the sample essays I have carefully compiled for meeting on Tuesday (generally 6 articles). Welcome to read and collect. Thoughts on Tuesday’s Appointment 1

I once saw this article on Reader. The article tells the story of an old professor, Morrie, who learned that he had a terminal illness. During the last period of his life, he and his His student Mickey agreed to give a life lesson every Tuesday, and after his death, the students compiled his notes into a book, "Tuesday Dates." I once thought about reading this book, but soon forgot about it...

When I had time to organize my bookcase during the winter vacation, because my father’s books were put together with mine, I took a quick look at them. The book my father bought before. "An old man, a young man, and a life lesson" came into view. Although this sentence was concise, it caught my attention. The memory was recalled and my curiosity was aroused. Since you didn’t read this book at first, let’s take advantage of the winter vacation to read it!

In the book, I met an old man who was very optimistic, kind, and humorous. He actually held a funeral for himself and cried and laughed as everyone wrote poems for him. Every day he faces his own shrinkage, where are he today and where will he be tomorrow? This is almost more painful than death, seeing my body shrinking and my ability to take care of myself getting worse and worse. But the old professor of sociology enjoyed death, and often joked with Mickey that he seemed to be back in his infancy again, with someone helping him go to the toilet and someone wiping his butt...

At different stages. Enjoy the happiness that this stage brings to us, instead of wasting youth time when we were young and regretting it when we are old. I admire Professor Mori's willingness to accept it. He does not envy healthy people's bodies. He just strives to live this time to the fullest and enjoy the beautiful things even in pain. Since every day is passing by, why not take advantage of our right to enjoy joy and happiness? Instead of fearing and panicking about death, aging is coming.

However: "Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live." This sentence is so profound... Reading Thoughts on Tuesday Meet 2

What I'm talking about here is A very true story: Murray, a social psychology professor who was over 70 years old, suffered from amyotrophic lateral sclerosis in 1994 and unfortunately passed away a year later. As Morrie's favorite student in his early years, Mickey stayed with the old professor every Tuesday during the fourteen weeks when he was seriously ill, listening to his last teachings. After his death, Mickey compiled the teacher's teachings into a book. The world-famous anthology is titled "Tuesday Date".

The author Mickey Albom is a famous American writer, radio and television host, and the author of a novel "The Five People You Meet in Heaven" that has sold five million copies worldwide. 》. For him, the experience of "Tuesday Appointment" with his mentor was another opportunity to re-examine himself and re-read the required lessons in life. This life lesson not only shocked the author, but also touched the whole world with the author's wonderful writing. This book has stayed on the best-seller lists of major books in the United States for four years and has been translated into thirty-one languages, including Chinese. It has become a miracle in the book publishing industry in recent years.

Before reading this book, I struggled with it in my heart for a long time. After all, because the cover of the book so solemnly states "Recommended by the writer Yu Qiuyu", I am very afraid that this book will be like Mr. Yu's book, which makes people feel that it is so serious and upright. Fortunately, as far as my own feelings are concerned, as long as there is a true understanding of books about life and death, they will always be attractive, they will always make me understand the meaning of life, and they will always make me feel deeply. the connotation it expresses.

What will an old professor who is suffering from a terminal illness think about when facing death? This is what makes this book so attractive and thought-provoking.

In the book, he is not the kind of fighter who fights against death. He just re-examines his life. He just tells us lightly that competition is not the only purpose of life. There is only one first, so be the second. So what? He feels that if sadness comes, there is no need to retreat, but rather to fully experience the taste, taste it carefully and then put it aside, so that you can truly transcend... Maybe these are not too new, or even not "with the times" But after reading the entire book, you will understand that what he is actually re-examining is the standard that people generally don’t think much about, and we are still living under such standards, living in a muddle-headed and high-spirited way. The author Mickey has been accompanying the professor, listening to his heart, and thinking about his own life, so the book also contains his memories and random thoughts.

Reading such a book always makes people slow down involuntarily, thinking of the dusty paintbrush in the corner, thinking of friends whom I haven’t called for a long time, and wanting to spend time under the autumn sunshine. Sit calmly for a while and squint your eyes, wanting to leave the current fixed, tense, and busy life like a top... However, closing the book is like closing a window, and the days are still ticking on. The old man said, "When you learn how to die, you also learn how to live."

Re-examine your own life, your own life, and see what you want and what you need. The so-called pursuit of life must be achieved to a certain extent. Isn't it a good pursuit to live a good life and appreciate life well? After reading this book, combined with your own In reality, we will come up with our own answers, so let’s meet on Tuesday. Thoughts after reading "A Tuesday Date" 3

My heart trembled as the title page of "A Tuesday Date" opened. Then, a sentence came to him: "Before he died, he wanted to teach the students one last class. The name of the class was life. After fourteen weeks, the last class was a funeral. He left the class behind. The class got bigger and bigger. , now extends to China. I shouted to the friends passing by: Come, it’s worth going in and listening.” Mr. Yu Qiuyu’s words made my heart tremble even more, and it was with this mood that I finished the book...

This is an education lesson about love. Love yourself, love your family, love your friends, love nature, and love everything around you. Old Morrie gradually affects Mickey, the people around him, and of course... Affects me. Love is indeed the greatest emotion in the world. We all need to love ourselves, because this is a reward for those who love us. By loving ourselves, we can also learn "Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you." "; We must love our families. The special blood ties bind us together. We will give a lot to each other but also gain something, because we love each other deeply; we must also love our friends, Friendship lets us know that in addition to the love between relatives, there is also friendship that allows people to treat each other sincerely and make selfless contributions; we should also love nature, which has given us a beautiful home to live on, allowing us to continue from generation to generation; we should even Love everything around you, because love is the greatest power in the world. It transcends all words and all actions. It can make the lives of all of us better. So, love with your heart! When the world is filled with love, each of us will be wrapped in love!

In addition, Morrie's attitude towards illness and death also made me unable to let go for a long time. Watching his body gradually decaying, the protagonist Morrie faces it painfully and soberly with his unique optimism and optimism, and uses the last days of his life as a lesson plan to show a person's optimism in the process of aging and approaching death. , humor, pain, struggle and calmness. This reminds me of many similar people. When Cong Fei was suffering from a terminal illness, what lingered in his mind was not his life or death. He was equally open-minded and calm about it. What he always cared about was his "children" Jiang Tao was not overwhelmed by the disease. He was optimistic and calm. He wrote "Give Me Ten More Years" as a way to fight against the disease.

Why can they face the last stage of life so optimistically and calmly? This question has been bothering me until one day I suddenly thought that the main content of this book is "love", and they all love everything around them so much. It is no wonder why they are so optimistic and calm. . Morrie loves life, so he doesn't want to let such a beautiful life go to waste in complaining about everything, so he chooses to live a positive life, optimistic and calm and struggling with terminal illness; Cong Fei is the same, he deeply He loved his "children", those people who were extremely poor but simple and kind, and his heart had already been filled with love for everything around him. How could he contain hatred and resentment? The same is true for Zhou Tao, so he can face life and death with a smile.

We should also love, use love to enrich our lives, use love to fill our hearts, use love to make us fearless.

However, when we look back and think about ourselves, we find that we do not seem to have done the above two points. Living in the reinforced concrete forest of Shanghai, we seem to be pursuing material enjoyment more and more and forgetting the baptism of the soul. As a result, people sacrifice themselves for materialistic desires, their families turn against each other, their friends become alienated, and they become indifferent to everything around them. The final result will be that love will gradually drift away from people, and the hatred that has been growing secretly will surely take over the magpie's nest, and jealousy and hatred will also follow. Then, it is self-evident what the whole society is like. So, let our hearts be filled with love. Friends, please continue to love boldly and think of a better future! Thoughts after reading "Meet on Tuesday" 4

Outside the window, the pale red hibiscus leaves fell in the wind. Every Tuesday morning, I go to my required course on time to discuss the meaning of life. An old man, a young man, and a life lesson. ——Mitch Albom

The book "Tuesday Date" tells a story between the author and his teacher. It is his personal experience and his life insights. Being a student of Teacher Mori, being able to meet again after many years, and even accompany the teacher in the last period of his life, I have to say that this is fate destined by God.

Every Tuesday, Mickey will go to Teacher Mori's house on time to listen to his life lessons. Because his favorite old professor suffered from amyotrophic lateral sclerosis. This was so unfortunate, it was unbelievable. When Mickey recalled his college days, the old professor who was enthusiastic and humorous in the classroom during the day and charming in the outdoor dance hall at night was still in front of him so clearly. In this way, it starts from talking about the world and continues to talking about goodbye at the end, fourteen Tuesdays. Every week, Teacher Mori's health is not as good as the last week, but his attitude towards life of deeply loving his family, warm friends, and enthusiastic life has never changed, just like the rays of the sun. Although there is not much time, he cannot waste it. He is not willing to die of exhaustion and must face death bravely.

Like Mickey, I also like Mr. Morrie. He never hides his feelings, enjoys his lifestyle, and truly touches people's love. He is unkempt, loves to talk, and loves to laugh. He constantly unleashes his humorous cells, causing those around him to be drawn out of their bodies, and they attract and heat up each other. Although his body became increasingly weak and his skin became saggy and weak, he still laughed without any restraint, as if he had heard the biggest joke in the world.

Appreciating Teacher Mori’s unique philosophy of life has benefited me a lot. To build your own culture: work. Don't let it go to extremes, either perfunctory or tiring. Everyone’s balance point is different and the key is finding it correctly. When you are busy with important things, don't make them boring. Make them more meaningful, so that you will always have a feeling of being desperate. Loyalty, trust and enthusiasm, establish correct values, set several practical goal plans, review carefully every day, work hard to make corrections, and believe in tomorrow. Teacher Mori said: "Disease has been knocking at my soul, but it cannot take it away. The disease can take away my body, but it cannot take away my soul."

He paused while looking at the ceiling, and then said: "Be compassionate and have a sense of responsibility. As long as we learn these two things, the world will be a lot better." "When I read this, my eyes were filled with tears...

Love, giving love and being loved are both happy. Don't neglect to express your family and friends because they are taken for granted. My love for them. Even if I give ninety-nine points of love, I only get one point of love in return. Teacher Mori also taught me how to cherish life and love what I love. Life is so short. The gorgeous dim night sky blooms freely and beautifully without any scruples. After reading 5 of "Meet on Tuesday"

"The father walked in front of us, singing about the new leaves growing on the trees, and the children believed that it would come. The spring will also dance with my father..."

This is a poem by E.E Cummings, which was read by Morrie's son at the funeral. Listening to the voice that seemed to come from heaven, I finished reading and closed the book quietly. The warmest sunshine in the afternoon slanted in from the window, and the golden afterglow of the sunset was still shining brightly.

Morrie, this cute little old man, brought so many touches and took away so many people’s fragile emotions. I can imagine the author Mickey’s favorite professor. He was short and frail when he walked; he put on a robe. He looks like a prophet in the Bible or an elf on Christmas Eve; he has a pair of bright blue eyes, shining with wisdom; he likes dancing, rock music, jazz, and blues.

However, he is a strong old man, a person who is both respected and loved. In 1994, when he was over 70 years old, he suffered from amyotrophic lateral sclerosis. The disease tortured him mercilessly and endured unimaginable pain. After he learned that he was ill, he made a surprising decision. He wanted to tell the story of his last life, and he wanted to spend his last days and his last happiness. As a final gift to all mankind. To say goodbye to his most lovely life, he found his former protégé Mitch Albom and gave him a class every Tuesday. The content is about life, death, and all the truths that people avoid.

An old man who is suffering from a terminal illness and has little time to live; a student who has put his dreams on hold and is gradually becoming secular.

When reading this book, I seemed to feel that Professor Mori was right in front of me, and I was the student listening to the lecture. With that wheelchair, that smile, and that tape recorder, I heard him saying: "I don't want to make the world panic. . I want to know what happened, accept it, enter a peaceful state of mind, and then leave." In this book, Morrie has many life mottos that are worth collecting, and this is the one that impressed me the most.

Because he showed me a kind of calmness in life.

In life, it is inevitable to face some setbacks calmly, even if it is death. No one can deny the inevitability of death, just like no one can deny that the earth is round. Life is the beginning; death is the end. The only thing we have to do in the face of death is to "accept it." Professor Mori told the students that there is an important philosophy to remember: if you refuse aging and illness, you will not be happy, because aging and illness will always come. Will there be happiness? Yes, if we are not happy, we will undoubtedly paint our lives with sadness. In the world, people die every moment, and it is not even as easy as the cause and effect of the disease, but the prison of the heart is difficult. Interpretation, since death must come back, why should we escape such fear and escape into a prison of our own making?

What particularly moved me is that although Old Man Mori understood all this, in the last few days of his life? Tian is still respectfully experiencing, learning through experience, and preparing lessons through experience. What to experience? Experience the coming of death. He knows that this is an important part of life lessons, but he could not prepare lessons in advance. .

Just a few days before his death, he told his students that he had a dream in which he was crossing a bridge and going to a strange place. "I feel that I can go, can you understand?"

Morrie said, "Death is a sad thing. But living unfortunately is also sad."

Perhaps, an unfortunate life will be more tragic than death.

There are always some people in the world who are always busy working but don’t know what they want! They try to pay attention to a lot of major issues based on secular standards, but they are often tempted by the encouragement of eloquent people and easily give up their original intentions and persistence, and finally lose their own judgment. They are confused, they don’t know the meaning of life, and they often ignore their relatives and friends around them. As the years passed, they suddenly realized something and began to cherish everything around them. They began to realize that there were still many things they wanted to do that they had not done, and there were thousands of so-called "too late" things. But by that point, maybe they'd reached that point for Morrie. So they repented and cried...

Therefore, for us young people, no matter what our previous lives were like, from now on we should use the kind of positivity taught by Morrie Cherish life, cherish life and others, and live a fulfilling and meaningful life. Don’t wait until the end of life to look back and sigh. No matter how optimistic and open-minded you are at that time, the ending will not be perfect.

Morrie, this cheerful and optimistic old man, the spiritual guide of the soul also told us:

"——Make peace with life."

"Love Will win. Love always wins."

"It's only scary if you think it's scary."

"Sometimes you can't just believe what you see. Believe what you feel. If you want someone to trust you, you should first feel that you can trust them too - even if you are in the dark, even if you are falling backwards."

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He taught us so many things.

Everyone will die one day. Before dying, perhaps no one could die as meaningfully as Morrie, and no one could die as selflessly as Morrie. I think everyone who reads this book will be influenced by Morrie in their lifetime. His calmness, his innocence, his thinking, his fearlessness.

Morrie spent the rest of his life teaching us an eternal life lesson! After-reading of Tuesday's Appointment 6

In the years when I am about to die, these conditions combined will produce what a divine philosophy of life. The other is a former outstanding student, now a successful television worker, a young man deeply involved in various social turmoils. The two of them reunited in the former’s last days, which not only gave the old man’s wisdom the best possible The way to express and spread has also enabled young people to understand life better, and it has left us a great spiritual wealth.

The philology is not good, and it cannot express and over-connect the various insights well. It is simply as rigid and independent but clear as a list of formulas.

First of all, due to the rush of reading, I was not able to pay close attention to and experience the philosophy in the book. This book is one that needs to be read at least once. Since I only read it once, I can only understand it. There are only a few good feelings about the content, which I can still remember to this day.

The first thing is what Mr. Mori said. People nowadays are not good at expressing their feelings, and they don’t know how to express their feelings. This is what struck me first. We always It's stressing feelings, emotions. Whether it is liking or disliking people, happiness, depression, or pain. When we were growing up, we were restrained by etiquette and ethics and suppressed our emotions. When our expressions become more and more numb, people say we are beginning to mature. When we pretend to be unfazed, we reach the pinnacle of success.

This aspect reminds me of an incident in junior high school. During a test, a girl in the class made great progress, and the head teacher praised her "hardly". There were still awards at that time, so she was Step forward to receive the award. As usual, according to our teachings, you should be humble at all times. No matter how happy, happy or proud you are, you can't show it too much. It's best to try your best to pretend to be helpless and reluctant. , go to receive the award with a frown on your face, don’t be too arrogant, at most you can just smile, and only then can you secretly be happy after receiving the award and returning to your seat.

As it turned out, this girl was very generous and natural. She walked to the front happily, without concealing her inner excitement and happiness at all. Her smile was bright and natural, and she was full of joy. The pride and joy in her heart were naturally and generously revealed in her hearty laughter. It's very unusual. After receiving the award, the class teacher was also very happy. He said specifically, "Look at how good this classmate is. This is how everyone should be. Show your happiness and don't have too many worries. I like this very much." I guess our old class was fed up with our bunch of kids pretending to be serious at such a young age. It was rare to see such an innocent person today, so we continued to praise him for a long time. It is also written in the book that the author and old man Mori often shook hands later on. I think this is a phenomenon of people who dare to express and like to express their feelings. This reminds me of one day in high school in the school cafeteria, when I was a sophomore in high school. , I met a junior high school classmate by chance. He was originally in the South Campus. I didn’t know that he moved to the North Campus. I was very excited to meet unexpectedly this time. As soon as the two of us met, we shook hands! ! Quite like a meeting between leaders. Not being good at expressing feelings is a personal phenomenon, but it is also a social phenomenon. Etiquette and the level of expression are also a problem for me. In fact, it is not a problem, because these emotional behaviors depend on the heart. With an innocent heart, It is not disrespectful to hug anyone with your heart, the aura is different...

The second is emotion first. I have seen philosophers say more than once that people are not born to live for material things, but for material things. For the emotional pleasure of life, such as eating, right? After being hungry for half a year, I would feel very happy if I drank a mouthful of polenta porridge. The satisfaction I get is much greater than eating delicacies while wearing shackles. The example is not very appropriate. In short, I still prefer it. People who believe in this live to feel happy. Old Man Morrie's disdain for money is obvious. Money is actually not an inseparable necessity of human society, but it is a symbol. When we say that a rich man is rich and full of money, the rich man is very happy, oh, we will think that this rich man is a nouveau riche, and his character is not very good. of. But we say, even from textbooks, farmer Chen Huansheng ("Chen Huansheng Goes to the City"), since the country changed its policy and took off his hat of a funnel household, he lay in bed at night and thought about it, the food in the granary at home slowly... There were a lot of livestock in the yard, so I didn't feel happy. When we see this, we must praise the hard work and simplicity of the farmer comrades and be sincerely happy for him. If you think about it carefully, this is strange. Aren’t the situations of rich people and farmers the same? ! From a certain perspective, money is equivalent to food, cattle and sheep. Why do we think less of people who hold a lot of money, but continue to praise farmers who have well-stocked granaries and prosperous livestock?

This should also be a simple question, probably because money has played more evil roles in history, and also because of the advantages of money itself - easy portability and wide versatility. Bribes are always handed to the other party with banknotes instead of bringing a large cart of rice of the same price to the other party's house. What do the bandits want to rob? If you have money, you must first grab it. Because of money, many families have been ruined. So people don’t have a good attitude towards having more money. You can buy a lot of things with more money, but not food. Think about it again, what is the origin of the Chinese people’s hatred of the rich? envy? Could it be that he has the same mentality as a boy who hates being with a girl he likes? If you can't get something you like, such as money, you will have a dual psychology of loving that thing and hating its owner? There are countless discussions about money, and a communist society does not need money.

Old Man Mori doesn't care about the "trivial" things of money at all, because he is about to die and a few thousand dollars is enough. Will his lack of attention to money become more serious because he is about to die? Let’s talk about this again. We need money, but we must not become its slaves. It is enough for the family to live a happy and healthy life. It is not a symbol of status. If you are worried about running out of money in an unexpected situation or not having enough money, then buy insurance. Insurance companies are a great product of this society, with mixed reputations. But from this perspective, insurance is still useful

Third, it is a change on the part of the author, a small change, but enough to make people think. After listening to Mr. Mori for a few weeks, the author, as a television worker, suddenly began to dislike the entertainment gossip and peripheral news that he once loved to watch. Another time, he encountered a large group of reporters carrying equipment nervous and urgent. He ran towards the sports star, and one of the reporters accidentally kicked him while he was crowding forward in a panic. The reporter continued to attack and said sorry over and over again, and he suddenly felt a lot of disgust. Heart, everyone's face is full of scrambling, rush, uneasiness and fear, and he feels uncomfortable. I think the author has changed at this time. To be more elegant, it means breaking away from low-level taste. To be more elegant, it is the beginning. It is difficult to enjoy loneliness and loneliness. Many of the things we do in life are to escape loneliness and loneliness, such as playing games non-stop, experiencing learned helplessness, and using all kinds of boredom without nutrition. Use things to fill the emptiness in your heart. In fact, once you stop, greater emptiness and panic will hit, so you don’t dare to come out. Internet addiction and various addictions appear. This is the case in college. Therefore, in order to avoid uneasiness, people instinctively Seek pleasure and indulge. Therefore, I think it will be different when a college student, especially one from Hegong University of Technology, thinks that students do not like to stay in the dormitory, play games and surf the Internet, but like to sit in the study room and enjoy this time. I started to enjoy loneliness. I started to understand the concept of isolation and loneliness after reading a video on the Internet - "A Class by Teacher Chen Guo of Fudan University". Although it is still not possible to enjoy the study room, we are working hard to overcome it.

Forget it, let’s summarize the three main insights: we should try to express our feelings more naturally and unrestrainedly; we live in pursuit of emotional recognition and pleasure; Learn; enjoy solitude.