Don't talk to others casually when you have difficulties, otherwise problems will easily occur.

People will encounter all kinds of problems in their life. Everyone will have their own temper, and everyone will have their own views on things, so they will eventually be troubled by their own ideas. Of course, it's hard to figure it out after you have troubles. After all, if you have been wandering in a corner, it is difficult to solve the harm you will eventually bring to yourself. At this time, many people will choose to talk to someone, but sometimes the person you talk to may not want to listen to you, and sometimes it will even have a certain impact on the relationship between two people.

1. The other party will feel very unhappy.

Some people are especially suitable to be talkers, and some people are especially suitable to be listeners. We should learn to distinguish these people accordingly. Because in our daily life, basically everyone will have their own troubles, and for a good listener, then naturally you can share your troubles with him and feel more comfortable inside. And if a person is not so good at listening, and her temper is very violent, if you often talk to him about your troubles and irritability, it will also cause him to change his attitude accordingly. Because in his opinion, you always have nothing to say to yourself, and even sometimes you have to say something unnecessary, then he will feel very unhappy. In fact, it is not good for the relationship between two people, and even sometimes two people will become worse because you often spit.

If you share it with a big mouth, your troubles will no longer be a secret.

In our daily life, there are many gossips, and some people can't keep secrets. If you tell them all your troubles, you will become a person with no secrets. Everyone will have troubles because of themselves, and sometimes they feel that this is their own business and don't want too many people to know. So when you choose a person to talk to, it is often because you believe that they will not tell your secret. But you must never think that he is a man who can't keep a secret. Finally, he tells you everything, so that you will feel naked when you are outside with others.

Therefore, when we talk to others, we must first distinguish what kind of people are suitable for listening and what kind of people are worth talking to.