There is a big age gap between people who forget to make friends, so how to eliminate the psychological gap between them?

Old people seldom get along with young people, and young people seldom respect old people. As long as both sides can eliminate the psychological distance in communication and communicate with each other on an equal footing, they will certainly get good friendship. In order to bridge the psychological gap, both sides need to make efforts.

To bridge the psychological gap, young people should not be too afraid of each other or take their elders seriously. When facing elders, don't "deify" each other, get rid of the stereotype of elders in the past, and treat each other as a "person" with flesh and blood, thoughts and shortcomings. To eliminate the psychological gap, the younger generation should take the initiative to approach their elders and play a few jokes with them when appropriate.

Old people should smile more and correct young people's mistakes without preaching. If you can, tell young people what to do with your own personal experience. In addition, when reasoning with young people, the elderly should allow young people to refute and listen carefully to each other's views. In the face of each other's reasonable views, we must agree with each other; In the face of each other's wrong views, we must be tactful and patient when pointing them out.

When joking with people who forget the Chinese New Year, we should understand each other's personality characteristics. For example, whether the other party is serious or cheerful, and whether there are any quirks and taboos. When you don't know each other's personality, you'd better not joke, otherwise it will be self-defeating.

In the face of serious elders, be careful not to tell vulgar jokes with each other. It is best to quote classics and tell some profound and meaningful jokes. When joking and making one-liners with serious elders, you should be just right, so as to win each other's happiness and let them appreciate you.

Joking with cheerful elders is relatively less scruple. Cheerful people tend to think things very simply, even if you say something inappropriate and damage the "majesty" of your elders, the other party will not blame you.

When joking with elders who have quirks and taboos, try to avoid involving each other's quirks and taboos, otherwise they will feel that you are insinuating him. This will not only hurt each other, but also be detrimental to the emotional development between you and your friends.