17-year-old Maoming girl was forced to get married by her parents. Why is son preference still so serious?

I think there are three reasons why son preference is still serious.

The first reason is that some people's inherent feudal ideas have not been completely corrected, which comes from the topic? Forced? You can see between the lines, and 17 years old should be the school age, either senior two or senior three. Just as the school is the most nervous and busy age, but it is forced to get married by parents, it can be seen how harmful the feudal thought of son preference is.

The second reason is: influenced by regional culture and religious customs. I have a Hui classmate in high school. She said that in the past, Hui people were all 65,438+05,65,438+06 years old when they got married, and even younger people were regarded as old people if they were not married at the age of 20? Old woman? . Although the situation has changed now, there are still not many girls who can go to college because they are old enough to finish college. Too big? Yes Her cousin won the opportunity to study abroad because of her excellent academic performance, but she had to give up because of the opposition of the elderly at home. What a pity it seems to us, but some regional cultures are not formed at one time, and it takes time to change. Some big cities are more open-minded and cutting-edge, regardless of this matter, but the more remote and traditional families, the more concerned about women's marriage. If they get married too late, they will be laughed at by relatives and friends, but the age of marriage for men is not as limited as that for women. This should be the patriarchal ideology caused by customs and traditions.

The third reason is: under the pressure of life and reality. A few years ago, when our family went back to their hometown to go to the grave, people would say that it was good for my mother to have only one child, and that it was good to raise a boy. A loan? Raising girls, right? Deposit? Boys want to buy a house and marry, but they have no money. Girls are different. You don't have to buy a house, just get married. Although I don't agree with these words, it is also a reality that rural people don't have that much money to buy a house. After all, in reality, people just think that girls just need to get married.

In a word, many people have not completely broken the concept of son preference, and it will take a long time to change it.