Why do I have so much resentment against my husband that I want to scold him when I see him?

Explain that the love foundation between you and your husband is not solid at all, even without emotional foundation, or there is no emotion at all. A person who beats and scolds another person is trampling on the other person's personality, and people with dignity will not tolerate it. If you are an abusive person, then the scolded person must have done something you think is unforgivable. If you can say it, scolding will not solve the problem.