When everything goes wrong, it is mostly a reversal of life.

Good luck is not waiting, but accumulating.

Many people would rather complain about the unfair fate every day than think about life, let alone study hard.

Man, it rains all night, and the more you complain, the worse your luck. It is better to adjust the direction and turn the missed opportunity into a camera; He who does not advance loses ground.

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At the age when I should have worked hard, I lived a particularly comfortable life.

Brownie Mayer, an American hospice nurse, wrote a book "25 things I will regret before I die". Among them, what I regret most is-"I hope I have the courage to live the life I really want."

What kind of life do you really want? Most of them work hard to make money, travel well, love the people they like and live according to their own wishes.

Many things that you can't do when you are young, you still have a chance to do when you are old, but the effect is not the same. Old people study to cultivate their self-cultivation, while young people have a "utilitarian heart" in reading.

"An old horse is brave and resourceful" is very inspiring, but it will also make people feel overwhelmed.

Many people don't realize how important it is to make money and save money when they are in their twenties. Not only are they penniless, but they also overdraw their future money.

At the age of 30, I should have got married and started a family, only to know that "daily necessities are expensive, unless I am the master", which is true. Try to do one thing, but there is no cost and no wisdom.

By the age of forty, if you accomplish nothing, life will begin to take shape. By the age of fifty, you will know your destiny.

At what age, what kind of things to do, a little slack, will be a thousand miles a day. At the age of white hair, I can only end up with a sigh. If you struggle a few times, it will be miserable.

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I always look at other people's faces when I should make myself happy. I am very angry.

I read a story called "Angry Camel".

A camel is walking in the desert, and the sun is burning, which makes it tired and thirsty.

Suddenly, the camel was hit by a piece of debris. It suddenly flew into a rage and kicked the debris out with its feet. At the same time, the soles of the feet were also injured, and the blood was not stopped.

The smell of blood attracted the hungry vultures. The camel was frightened and ran wildly. Because I was so tired, the wound expanded rapidly and I fainted.

Vultures, ants, flies and jackals swarmed, and camels lingered and said, "Why did I get angry with a piece of debris in the first place?"

Many times, like this camel, we are particularly unhappy because of a little thing.

Originally, unhappiness was only a temporary thing, but we were desperately unhappy, thinking the worst of everything, leading to emotional loss of control and extreme behavior. As the saying goes, "You can't live if you do evil."

Smart people know that when there is "qi" in their hearts, they should make themselves happy, no matter who laughs at themselves, don't care. Life is your own, so why bother to show it to others?

Every day after work, you could have had a good meal with your family, but you bravely went to the dinner, and because you were drunk, you felt uncomfortable all night.

Going out to see the scenery, I see the garbage dump and smell the sweat of others. Therefore, all the trips are in vain.

Some people criticize you in order to make you correct your shortcomings, but you think it's a "trifling smile", so you hold a grudge and make bad friends with others.

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When you should let go, grab your child.

When you are old and find life particularly sad, it may be related to your child's failure. You always complain, why are your children so useless?

While you are complaining, you are still interfering with your children's small families and telling them what to do. You tried your best, but you did a very stupid thing-you suffered for others and fought for others.

It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. As long as we train our children and force them to be independent, elderly parents will really enjoy it.

Your family is not going well, not because you can't live, but because family members are too closely connected. You chose to control the child when you should let go, and the result was counterproductive.

Love and care should be measured and time-limited.

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When we should enjoy the happiness of the present, we should pester people and worry about future accidents.

Pick up books, study hard, and don't chat with guests; When you are chatting with the guests, put the book down. People's minds should be single-minded, not materialistic.

Let the past be the past, let the future be the future, and do what you want to do now. This is a happy life.

During the Meiji period in Japan, Zen master Tanshan came out of the clouds and met a girl. Because it rained for days and the river rose, the girl stood by the river and didn't know how to cross it.

Tanshan picked up the girl and sent her across the river.

After a while, my colleague said, "You are close to a beautiful woman, and you are mistaken."

Tanshan said, "Oh, you told me about the girl in the river. I put it down a long time ago, and you are still holding on. "

Let bygones be bygones; Everything in the future, things will adapt. However, we are always entangled and lose the happiness of the moment.

You feel bad, maybe it's an illusion, but you just messed up your thinking, didn't do the right thing according to the time schedule, and didn't adjust your thinking to the right time.

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Everyone should control his own destiny, and at the same time, he should not control the destiny of others.

Everything has its own laws. If you persist in violating them, despite your special efforts and courage, it has little effect.

We can grow out-of-season vegetables, but the taste is always worse. Once we eat them, they will be gone.

We can swim against the current, but it's not as happy as "returning to Jiangling a thousand miles a day"

When everything goes wrong, you should compare the course of life and see if it is wrong.

A lot of bitterness, we didn't want to eat it originally, really.

Author: coarse grains in cloth.

The pictures in this article are from the Internet.