Listen to destiny: first of all, you should try your best to listen to destiny!

When people wander in the Jianghu, they often hear a sentence: "Do your best and listen to your destiny". Some people regard this sentence as an inspirational benchmark, some people regard it as spiritual liberation, and some people understand it as fatalism. Different people have different answers to this sentence. I think this sentence should be understood as: first do your best, work hard until you can't do anything, and work hard until you touch yourself, so that you can achieve your goal and be qualified to hear the voice of fate.

What about personnel? What is fate?

There is a source for the phrase "Listen to your destiny as best you can". The original text is from the sixth chapter of Li Ruzhen's Mirror Flower Garden in Qing Dynasty: "Listen to destiny". Literally interpreted as: personnel, human feelings, things; Fate, the laws of nature; The whole sentence means to do things wholeheartedly, but whether you can succeed or not, the result is unpredictable and you need to let nature take its course.

Personnel is personnel. As the saying goes, "everything is clear, everything is learned, and people's cultivation is an article." In our daily life, we should try our best to be a man or do things. There is a saying I quite agree with: you may succeed if you work hard, but you will definitely not succeed if you don't work hard. People are born with a mission, at least I think so. According to the common people, some people are born with stars on their shoulders, such as those great men, who have official positions and need to do good deeds for the people for a lifetime; Some people are born with golden keys, such as some rich second generation, who need to take over the family business or their mission is to spend money (this mission is enviable); There are more ordinary people like us. Our mission is to do our own role in life: study hard when you are young and be a good child; Be a good couple when you are old; In the future, I will be a good parent and filial to my parents.

Destiny refers to providence (the entity representative of natural "Tao"); It also refers to the fate of man under the control of heaven. The language "Shangshu Shangshu Pan Geng": "The first king had clothes and kept his destiny." There are three explanations: 1. God's will (the entity representative of nature's Tao); It also refers to the fate of man under the control of heaven. 2. Natural laws and regulations. 3. Natural life; Destiny is the law of nature, that is, the law of natural operation, which is not controlled by human beings. Everything has too many changes and unknowns. No one can control everything. We can only do what we can, and success depends on the laws of nature. Everything is constantly changing, so is time, space and people's heart. These changes are affecting the success of things.

How to do everything possible

1, with dreams and goals

I remember Stephen Chow said in the movie, "If you don't have a dream, what's the difference with salted fish?" This line is really inspirational. Yes, it is better to have dreams in life. No matter how big or small your dream is, as long as you have a dream, you will work hard and have motivation. If you have a dream and a goal, you won't waste your time, let alone become a walking corpse and a glutton. I remember there is such a joke on the Internet: The white horse that Tang Priest rode when he learned Buddhist scriptures in the West was just an ordinary white horse in a mill in Chang 'an. After many years, when the Tang Priest returned to the East of Datang, it was already a world-famous virtue, and this horse became the hero of learning from Buddhism and was known as the "first horse in Datang". White horse came home in gold and went to the old mill to visit his old friend. A large group of donkeys and old horses surrounded the white horse, listening to the white horse talk about the experience on the westbound road and today's glory, and everyone admired it. The white horse said calmly, "Ladies and gentlemen, I am nothing great, but I am lucky to be chosen by Master Xuanzang and go to the west and the east step by step." In these seventeen years, everyone has been busy, but you are spinning around at home. In fact, if I take a step, you are taking a step. On the whole, the road we have traveled is still long and equally difficult. "All the donkeys and horses are quiet. Yes, I am not idle myself. How come everyone is "successful" and I'm still the same? This passage is very thought-provoking People still have dreams and goals when they are alive, otherwise we will run around like headless flies in life. Clear dreams and goals can guide our actions and make us feel comfortable. With dreams and goals, every step you take is steady and easy, because every step is approaching happiness and success in your heart.

2. Take action and make a plan.

If you have a dream and a goal, you must put it into action, otherwise it is fantasy and fantasy. Dreaming is the first step, and the second step is action. Otherwise, dreams will only stop at dreams, and only actions can make dreams come true. Dreams and goals give us a clear direction, while actions and plans tell us what to do to get where we want to go. First, plan your study and life, let yourself know what you need to do every day, and then plan your weekly and monthly arrangements. Secondly, the arrangement of the plan should be reasonable and scientific, neither too low nor too high, and it must be formulated in light of its own reality. Third, any plan will inevitably encounter some difficulties when it is first implemented, but any effort made to implement this plan is worthwhile, because it is an important step to ensure that you achieve your goals and dreams.

3. Have determination and perseverance

With goals and actions, you must have determination and perseverance, and you can't give up halfway. There are bound to be difficulties and setbacks on the road to realizing your dreams. As long as we make up our minds and persevere, we can realize our original dream. Your efforts today will not be rewarded in a short time. Don't be anxious if you can't see progress for the time being, let alone be discouraged and don't give up easily. Hold on! Persistence is bound to work miracles. A drop of water wears a stone and a pestle grinds it into a needle. People are doing things and watching. As long as you persist, you are not far from success.

How to listen to fate

1, don't forget your initiative and stick to the bottom line.

Dreams are more beautiful than rainbows, deeper than the sea and wider than the sky. They are the noblest pure land in everyone's heart. When we look up at the sky, we also need to look down at the lofty moral laws in our hearts. Always stick to the bottom line, never forget the goodness of human nature, and never pity your true colors. After all, people should have a little conscience. Doing something wrong to them will first make them eat badly and sleep badly, then affect their fortune, and finally even affect their descendants. When building dreams, we need to practice moral conscience, shape perfect personality and lay a solid foundation for the realization of dreams. Law-abiding is an untouchable "bottom line" and a hard constraint. The bottom line is the foundation, but we cannot be satisfied with the bottom line. We should have higher pursuit on the basis of sticking to the bottom line, and the premise of pursuing our dreams is Do not forget your initiative mind, sticking to the bottom line.

2. Embrace tomorrow despite difficulties and obstacles.

"Life is to struggle, and life is to pursue dreams". I hope this sentence can become the motto of our life struggle and pursuit of dreams. Mankind is great because of dreams, and life is wonderful because of hard work. Although there are difficulties and obstacles on the road ahead, the future is still full of sunshine and hope. No matter how many thorns there are ahead, even if we stumble over setbacks again and again, we will not fall behind, refuse to bow our heads, fight bravely, stick to the end, raise our confident sails with our courage and wisdom, and embrace a better tomorrow with our passion and strong perseverance.

3, don't be surprised, be calm.

"Don't be surprised, look at the flowers in front of the court; I have no intention of staying long. I hope the sky is full of clouds. " This sentence first came from a couplet written by Hong Yingming in the Ming Dynasty and was recorded in Caigen Tan. Mr. Fan Zhongyan's "don't be happy with things, don't be sad for yourself" is similar to this sentence.

First of all, be clear about your mission and be yourself.

On the stage of history and life, few people can become protagonists, and most people are passers-by and spectators. Even those rich officials mentioned above can be remembered by future generations, and more of them are ordinary people. We must understand that no matter how brilliant the stage is, if we are not on it, it has nothing to do with us. We don't need to envy and hate, because God is fair. The so-called lonely at the top, officials have the troubles of being an official, and rich people also have the troubles of being rich. We are willing to watch their performances for a while, and if we don't want to watch them, we will go home and cook with our children. In fact, no matter how busy this stage is, inner peace and ease are our greatest wealth. You don't have to be hard on yourself to please others, but act according to your true story; Don't care what others think, people live for themselves, not for others! You don't have to rush, but you neglect to appreciate the surrounding scenery and the people who love you around you.

Secondly, recognize your own path and take care of yourself.

As long as you work hard, as long as you struggle, go your own way and do what you like, what does the outside world say? Wang Xizhi loves white geese, but he is slightly drunk and writes "Preface to Lanting Collection", which has been passed down through the ages. Tao Yuanming lived in seclusion in the countryside and wrote The Peach Blossom Garden, which was fascinating. Li Bai said, "An can make faces, bend over, be a strong person, and never be seen as an honest face." With "since God has given talents, let them find jobs!" , I ride a whale fairy; After Ouyang Xiu's relegation, he devoted himself to mountains and rivers and enjoyed himself, making Zuiweng Pavilion famous. "Go your own way and let others talk." We should inspire ourselves with our own dreams, shape ourselves with our own abilities, temper ourselves with our own actions, and illuminate our brilliant life with our unshakable beliefs.

Finally, appropriately reduce psychological expectations and affirm yourself.

The temptation of money, the dispute of power and the ups and downs of the official sea are exhausting. In the face of the results, we should be calm and calm, and have a mentality of being humiliated and not surprised. Of course, this requires a realm. Doing things for people can be as common as watching flowers bloom and fall, don't make a fuss; See if you want to keep the position, it can be unintentional. Life's attitude towards things, things, fame and benefits is: what you get is not happy, what you lose is not worrying, not humiliating, and you have no intention of staying. Only in this way can you feel peaceful and indifferent to nature. As long as you try, you won't regret it. Even if you finally leave this world, we will not regret it. People live all their lives, and plants grow in autumn. Try not to leave regrets when doing things. If you have to leave regrets, stay less.

Mencius said, "Confucius climbed the East Mountain but was small, and climbed Mount Tai but was smaller than the world. Therefore, it is difficult for people watching the sea to swim in the water, and it is also difficult for people at the gate of saints to speak. If you have the ability to watch water, you must watch it. The sun and moon are bright, and the light will shine. Running water is also a thing, but it is not a mirror; The ambition of a gentleman is also in the Tao, and it cannot reach the chapter. "

Liu Guoying, the first batch of military officers who changed jobs and chose their own jobs after the 20 16 military reform, is a third-level psychological counselor and assistant financial planner, the first secretary-general of Langfang Military Innovation Home, the founder of Langfang Military Lawyers Volunteer Service Team, and now he is the people's supervisor of Hebei Provincial People's Procuratorate and an intern lawyer of Hebei Tonglun Law Firm.

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