Ekin Cheng, who hasn't had children for many years, first talked about Dink's reason: not having children is because being a man is too hard.

"Why get married if you don't have children after marriage?"

In Liangzhuang China, there is a passage that I think is very well written:

"For them, daily life is just an unconscious life. Eating, drinking and having fun with rice, oil and salt doesn't seem to be a big pursuit, but once given the opportunity, they are willing to think, better understand the meaning, and strive to integrate themselves into this realm. "

I have no intention to advocate any lifestyle here, because everyone's choices are different, and some people are just willing to provide their own daily life dimensions and have different possibilities. But many people can take this opportunity to examine and think about their lives, so as to stick to or give up another choice, so the answer to this question is of the greatest significance.

In most people's minds, it is perfect to have one or two children after forming a family with a loved one. However, star Ekin Cheng has never had children. Once on a program, when he was asked when he planned to have a baby, his answer was amazing.

Ekin Cheng publicly stated that he and his wife chose Dink because they thought it was too difficult to live and survive in this world, and there were too many frustrations in life, so they didn't want their children to suffer with them as soon as they came to this world.

Many people say that Ekin Cheng's ideas are too extreme and even pessimistic. However, Ekin Cheng said that after having children, it is natural to set aside a lot of time and energy to consider whether the children can live well in the future. If there is no way to guarantee this, it is better not to have children at all.

At the same time, some people say that people who don't want children when they are young are mostly selfish and unreliable, because they always have only themselves in their hearts. Some people, as they get older, feel that they should be especially cautious when having children, because it is sad to be unprepared for their children coming into this world, not to mention that these parents are extremely unreliable people.

After listening to Ekin Cheng's words, it seems that many people have a new view on having children after marriage. If you are strong, don't let your children suffer in the world. The so-called strength is not only reflected in money, but also in many so-called big stars in ideological education. Their ability is only enough to cope with career problems, but it doesn't mean that they can cope with ordinary life problems, so he sees his life clearly.

Not only their husband and wife, Tony Leung Chiu Wai Carina Lau and Chow Yun Fat are infertile because of some things; Liu Qingyun has no children, and Stephen Chow is unmarried and childless. They all had such a hard time, and they also saw what they wanted and what they would have. It's not that they don't want children, but that they will have responsibilities, pressures and obligations after they want children. They didn't get the warmth of their families when they were young, so they were afraid that they were not good parents.

Ekin Cheng said that children nowadays are very sensible and asked adults: Why did you give birth to me? Have you thought about how I feel?

Ekin Cheng was right. Most people are selfish in wanting children. First, they want their children to avoid public opinion. Second, they want their children to bring them happiness. Third, they want their children to be old. Have you considered their feelings? You're right. It will put pressure on children.

To tell the truth, with their economic strength and modern scientific means, it is not as easy to want a child as to step on an ant. It is ridiculous to say that they can't be born. If they just pursue a child, there will be many ways. Life is really bitter, especially mental pain. Even if we have money, we can't get rid of it. But their hearts are so soft that they don't want their children to suffer, but they are ridiculed like this. They didn't accuse you of having a baby under bad conditions!

In the past, people were poor, and their only hope was to carry on the family line and hope that the next generation would live a better life. No matter how tired and bitter they are, they still have something to look forward to. Nowadays, rich people say they don't want to have children. It's a big joke. This is absolutely selfish, indicating that they are used to freedom and don't want to be bound. The happiness of ordinary people is simply that children and grandchildren are full, and children and grandchildren are the continuation of life.

Sometimes I feel very tired. When you wake up every day, you have to work hard and be busy for a lifetime. Finally, when you get old, you have to experience the pain of various diseases and death. Sometimes I really wish I had never been to this world. If I had a choice, I would choose not to be born.

Treating the problem of having children rationally, I like children very much, but I feel that I can't afford to raise more children, so I gave up the idea of having more children. It is not easy to live once. In today's society, only a few people can safely raise many children and let them grow up healthily and correctly. It hurts to see a child suffer, and people who think they have a child but don't care really don't deserve it.

In my opinion, people come into this world to suffer. How many people think they love their children, and how many people really love their children? Or to satisfy their own empty and lonely days, where do children get happiness now? They study and do their homework every day like robots. They had to be born in a good family, a bad family environment, and their parents divorced, which made them even more sad. If you can't give children a good material and living environment, where can they get happiness? A bright future, living is more selfish than not living.

Life is too bitter, and it is not bitter if you don't have children. Some people say that life is full of pain and happiness. Calm down and think about it. This is actually quite ridiculous. Your mother's half-life was lost when you were born. I'll tell you the rest. In fact, from birth to death, you are harming people and consuming the resources of the earth. Your happiness is only based on the pain of other people or things. On the basis of causality, everyone's retribution is similar.

To tell the truth, there are advantages and disadvantages to being born or not. Being born means paying the price of manpower, material resources and freedom, but you are spiritually more complete. For example, you can experience the happiness of extending your life. On the contrary, you can enjoy freedom when you are young, and you don't have to bear such a big financial burden. But when I get old, I have no family to accompany me. That's your own experience. Therefore, there are always gains and losses in life.