Do you yearn for love that lasts until old age?

I definitely yearn for the love that lasts until old age. There are many in this society. Just look at the couples who stay together until old age. They will not get tired of each other. In their lives, they only never tire of looking at each other. What supports their love to stay together until old age? It means treating each other with respect as guests. There is no affection between them, and there is no love and affection between them. In their hearts, they can respect each other as they respect guests. Not to mention the ancient treat of treating each other as guests, just take our fathers as an example. In their time, there was free love and matchmaking. What brings them together is that they have the same ambitions and the same preferences. On the premise of maintaining an independent self, there is still another person in his/her heart.

They also quarreled and got angry. After the quarrel, they could make a self-examination in their hearts. Of course, only they knew this and would not say it out loud. , they still care about each other in their hearts. They can always keep each other in their hearts. There seems to be no romance in their lives, only warm greetings and concerns. What is great love? What is love worth celebrating? Seeing that they can stay together until old age, isn't this a constant and unswerving love? "The bond between life and death is broad, and I say it to you. Hold your hand and grow old with me." This is their romance, a romance that can accompany them until they grow old. Just as the song sings: "The most romantic thing I can think of is to be with you." We grow old together until we are too old to go anywhere..." The reason why we fall in love with this kind of love is because only love that can withstand the test of time can be regarded as true love.

On the other hand, many young people nowadays, influenced by Western views on marriage, break through the traditional matchmaker's words and the marriage ordered by their parents, and fall in love and get married freely. Too much emphasis on free thought, lack of tolerance, and lack of understanding make this love more and more like "fast food". It comes and goes quickly. After falling in love like this several times, it is all a case of failure. Gradually, Turn yourself into a "leftover man" or a "leftover woman". After passing the common age of marriage, there is no suitable marriage partner around, and I have to join the blind date army, with a similar attitude to find someone, and quickly complete my marriage. In such a compromising marriage, the previous relationship between each other I don’t understand that after marriage, each other’s shortcomings are exposed, and both of them pursue freedom first and show off their individuality in the modern spring. There will not be the tolerance of the predecessors who “respect each other as guests, and raise eyebrows together”, and often cause trouble. In the end, It is also the tragic ending of divorce and breakup.

In life, many people are afraid of being blown away by the other party before they get married, so they are submissive and obedient to the other party. After getting married, people think that the situation is settled, so they have no scruples, show their true colors, act arbitrarily, and cannot tolerate the shortcomings and shortcomings of the other party. The emotional distance between the two parties became wider and wider, so that it became irreversible and eventually broke up. If we can inherit the virtue of treating each other as guests, both parties can respect each other like guests, and they will not break up without reason. Even if there is a small friction or quarrel, it will be resolved with tolerance and understanding, and it will never get out of hand. Nowadays, young people’s marriages don’t have the “seven-year itch”, some months are enough.

If you want to maintain a happy marriage, try to live a "respectful" life with him or her from now on and see what changes happen in your marriage. In short, we must treat life with a sincere heart, and life will reward us with true feelings. 1. Love is not that profound. Being able to depend on each other until old age is the greatest happiness.

2. Companionship is the longest confession of love, and staying together is the warmest promise. It would be such a happy thing to be with you until we grow old.

3. The true meaning of love is to stay together until old age, to help each other and to support each other. If it's just for getting married and continuing the family line, that's the animal world. Marriage is never an umbrella or an end.

4. My dear, you are the most important person in my life, a lover and a friend.

You know that I will do anything for you and our love. I hope we can stay together like this until we grow old. My love for you becomes more and more firm and real.

5. You don’t necessarily have to be excited when you go together, but it must be suitable, grow with each other, help each other, support each other, and stay together until old age!

6. You must be very good Love loves someone very much, tries hard to obey him, and relies on him for everything, but in the end we are still not together.

7. I think, I have loved you from the beginning to the end, and want to stand by your side, watching you lower your eyebrows, watching you smile, even if you don’t speak, I also feel happy.

8. When you come, I will calm down and put away my overflowing heart. You are my most precious person in the world. You make me like you to the core of my being.

9. Age is not a distance, height is not a gap, and wealth and poverty cannot stop us from being together. Put aside the distance and get closer to each other. Love is a matter between two people who are free and at ease. Enjoy her and cherish her. Finally, I will have her forever!

10. Maybe I really don’t understand love. I only know how to give and wait blindly. I thought that if I made a promise, I would stay together forever. It was just a joke, but he made me fall into it until I got deeper and deeper and couldn't extricate myself...

11. Some of the life you are looking forward to are always wasted in your self-righteous dreams. , and then give you a very disappointing blow. Some things are always beautiful when you think about them, so in your taking for granted, a reality that could have been very happy is wasted.

12. I have always liked the sunshine in the afternoon. It makes me believe that everything in this world will turn around, and that destiny is generous and beautiful; we will eventually grow up, quietly with a feeling of no resentment. Growing up; in the final analysis, growth is a kind of happiness.