Why do I say the wrong thing when I talk to others and feel that others hate me? How can I continue to get along with them?

1, I think there is nothing wrong with this. It's normal for you to say so. Besides, there is no harm in saying that people are mature.

I still can't see anything wrong with this article. If you are a friend, there is nothing wrong with you saying so.

In my humble opinion, it's not that she didn't like you after you said these two things, but that she had a bad impression of you before. If a person has a bad impression or is disgusted with another person, then what that person does is so awkward or out of place to her, and it will become a habit over time. Also, you care too much about what others think. There is a phenomenon that the more you want to behave well in front of others, the worse you behave.