"Daughter, your brother owes 300,000 yuan for playing cards. You helped him pay it back." What should I do?

Hello, my friend. After listening to your experience, I think it is ridiculous, and you are particularly stupid, because these things will not involve you, even if you give up, it is your duty. You have no obligation to pay for your brother's repeated gambling. If you want to go bankrupt and take the debt for him, then I can only say that you are stupid, which is not good for others, because of this.

So in my opinion, you should listen to your husband in this matter, because after a woman gets married, she must prioritize, put the family first, and even put back the relationship between parents, because this is something that smart women know, because the only person who can accompany you for a lifetime is your husband, not your parents and children. Of course, I'm not saying this to deny your six relatives.

To tell the truth, if you were another man, I'm afraid your marriage would have ended long ago, because your husband has no obligation to be so responsible for your brother. Your husband only did it because he loved you. Leave this matter alone. If you continue to run the business, you may become a sinner and regret it all your life, because if you face it bravely, you will definitely hurt your husband and children.

Besides, as a sister, if you really think about your brother, you should persuade him to quit gambling, instead of taking debts for him. Now I'll tell you a trick. Call the police. Your brother's life can be guaranteed. Let him suffer, let him really be afraid once. It's really for his own good. Let him find a job and earn money to pay his debts. Otherwise it's all his own fault.

So, I hope you can be rational and face up to your family first. Listen to your husband. He did the right thing, and you showed great endurance. If your parents really want to break up with you, then break up, because you are right. You have your own family, children and responsibilities.