I am a Cancer, why don’t I look like a Cancer at all? Are the zodiac signs meant to be funny?

The unhurt Cancer: He can detect the most sensitive fragile parts of your heart that others cannot detect. He will use his tenderness and consideration to make you accept him inadvertently. His delicacy and romance make you accept him. You want to be surrounded every moment without being separated.

When he is armed with crab shells, you must not be more impatient than him. Even if he says something that hurts you, it is because the hurt he feels in his heart is more serious, and he needs the woman around him to treat you. He is extra tolerant, and he will repay you with several times his tenderness. At this time, you only need to understand that it is his vulnerability that makes him sharp. Put down those needlepoints and wheat awns, and use the woman's tolerance to influence him. The sensitive man will instantly accept this message and return to gentleness.

Cold and hot? The reason is that Cancers like fantasy very much and are very sensitive. Everything around them can become the theme and extension of their fantasies. If their dream is a good dream, they will be the same sunny young people when they wake up; if it is a nightmare, then they will close themselves off after waking up because the nightmare continues. Therefore, the emotion of increasing Cancer comes down to myself, because I just think nonsense when I have nothing to do (Cancer is too sensitive, I feel very annoyed myself, and I keep thinking nonsense).

The first thing to pay attention to is to try to give them a stable and warm environment so that they can dream less and have sweet dreams that will not affect their emotions.

Cancers are suspicious by nature, so try not to be vague in front of them. They want the meaning of their words to be expressed very clearly. Only in this way will they tell you everything that is on their mind. Because they feel they understand everything and feel very secure. If Cancer starts to say ambiguous things, you need to pay attention. If they cannot understand the meaning of a sentence or thing, they will start to speculate and dream randomly, and at this time, they usually have nightmares. So don't try to keep it a secret from them, and if they get a whiff, tell them right away. Although Cancers are used to being lonely and sometimes like to shut themselves away from a person, they usually like to hang out with friends. So try to let them hang out with people they know as much as possible, and Cancer will feel very stable. Even if you dream at this time, it won't be a nightmare. When hanging out with Cancer, if they suddenly become silent, it means they are dreaming. Try to go with them as much as possible. Cancer likes to take their lovers to various gatherings, because they will feel very warm. Also, they don’t dream when they are concentrating on doing things, such as when they are busy at work, but if they pause for a moment, they will be distracted and fall asleep (sometimes it really seriously affects the efficiency of work and study).

Second, if they were talking a lot one minute and were very silent the next minute, it means they are starting to dream. At this time, they don't want others to disturb their dreams, especially sweet dreams. Even if you talk to them, they will say nothing and be absent-minded. Remember not to pester them. If they get annoyed, it will be a disaster. What may have been a sweet dream will turn into a nightmare in a blink of an eye. At this time, just stay next to them and wait for them to wake up. Don't try to wake them up or disturb their dreams, as the consequences will be disastrous. If you feel that they have neglected you and want to "teach them a lesson", it is not too late to wait until they wake up.

Third, when the environment is unstable, it is certain to have nightmares. Even if it is a good thing, every time you think about it, you will think of the bad things. Generally, if they have a nightmare once in a while, they will not close themselves off. If they start to close themselves off, they have to look for the reason. It must be because they feel unsafe and unstable. Most of the time, some things or words are not explained clearly, and sensitive crabs will think randomly. The result of nightmares accumulating to a certain extent is to close themselves off (crabs are very tolerant, but there is always a limit to their tolerance), and this The nightmares will become more and more frequent, and the time of self-isolation will become longer and longer each time. When they close themselves off, they will not forgive others for disturbing them. What you have to do is not to influence them, don't question them, and don't talk to them. At this time, you are very closed and won't say anything, and it will only widen the distance between each other. Send a few messages every day that you care about or miss him. It is best to keep the tone of the messages normal and not too frequent, as this may draw them back in advance. When they come back and explain everything clearly, they will have nothing to guess and then they will be right back to the past. Sometimes it may still be cold, just pay attention to your tone.

It is best to have a face-to-face conversation, not on the phone or online. Because face-to-face conversations will make him feel mentally stable. Crabs are also very ruthless. Also, crabs are very vindictive, and they are not the kind that only kills you. If they deliberately anger you, they will make you feel very uncomfortable. For example, they will say to your face that they have a good relationship with a certain woman, etc. On the one hand, they are testing your reaction, and on the other hand, they are trying to retaliate against you. There must be something about you that made him feel uncomfortable. He had a dream and then put the dream into action.