An inappropriate circle. Don't squeeze.

Don't hypocritically unite for the so-called sense of belonging. You would rather be alone than with someone who can't get in. You don't have to deliberately maintain a relationship and make yourself hypocritical.

? 1

Sometimes it's meaningless to be excluded. I don't know what I did wrong. When I first entered the dormitory, I found that other roommates had gathered together. Our education is that your exclusion must be your own problem. "How can others only exclude you and not others?"

So I began to reflect on myself. Reflect on what you have done badly, and carefully live a fearful collective life in the dormitory. I'm afraid that if I say something wrong, my roommate will be unhappy, and I will freeze my hard-won feelings.

Unfortunately, even if I live like this, I don't get the slightest favor from them. I seem to be someone else's errand boy. Today he asked me to get the courier, and tomorrow he asked me to help him carry a bucket of hot water to the bathroom. I can't refuse, and I dare not refuse. My life is spent in such a vicious circle. I lived more and more unpromising and humbled that semester.

Until one day, I heard my roommates Xiao A and Xiao B talking about me behind my back, saying that I was a fool and more obedient than a dog, and I would do whatever I was told. My whole body is shaking, and my heart is colder. I did so much that it turned out to be a joke.

I didn't go back to the dormitory that night. I blew in the playground all night. My mobile phone is very quiet, and no one notices that I'm gone. I thought a lot tonight. Why should I compromise blindly? I hold my head high, and I am no longer Nuo Nuo. When I returned to the dormitory, the first thing they said to me was: "What happened to Little C? Yesterday, the garbage was not taken out. Go downstairs and buy me a takeaway. "

"The students on duty yesterday and today are not me. I am not responsible for this. As for your takeaway, if you want to eat, you can get it yourself. "

After saying this, my roommate didn't go on the rampage as I expected, but didn't dare to speak and went downstairs to get takeout. Later, instead of breaking up with me, my roommate got along with me politely, which was really great.

Only after this incident did I know that when you learn to refuse others and answer blows with blows, others will respect you and fear you. The more you experience, the more you believe that sentence: "Be merciless to ruthless people and be kind to kind people."

In this bullying world, don't learn to be ruthless, just wait to become an assimilated accessory. Don't live a life of watching others talk, you will be very tired. Refuse if you don't like it, no matter who it is.

2

Xiaoxi is the coolest person I have ever met. If I had known her earlier, I don't think I would have had that experience of being wronged.

When Xiaoxi first started school, her face was covered with beans. When she goes out, she must wrap herself in a mask and hat. It's no use buying a bunch of cosmetics. Later, she went to see a doctor and ate a light diet according to the doctor's advice. But roommates are all night owls, with irregular schedules and unhealthy diets.

So she became the most "unsociable" one in their dormitory, getting up at six in the morning and running, either in the classroom or in the library during the day; Do not eat high-sugar and fried foods, drink as much water as possible, eat breakfast and eat regularly; Go to bed at eleven in the evening. If your roommates are noisy, tell them to be quiet.

In this way, she is more and more different from her roommates, but she has not changed herself because she is alienated from her roommates, but has always insisted on every effort. As a result, her skin became better and better. The biggest change is that her mood has become peaceful, no longer anxious and confused, and she feels as if she has suddenly found the direction of how to live a college life and become more charming and confident.

This change is from the inside out. Xiaoxi said the coolest sentence, which I still remember: "Sometimes I think loneliness is a good thing. If the whole world knows you, the world will not be cool, and I will not be me. "

? three

You should have your own principles. Compromise once is tolerance, more times it becomes weakness, and anyone can climb on your head to pee.

Don't be particularly nice to everyone. It makes people feel as if they are asking you for help and must be on call. If you don't do it, it's all your fault. You never consider your own problems.

Caring too much about others is doomed to make you feel uncomfortable. Don't let your kindness be a flaw in your life. Never wronged yourself, live a good life. Fuck losing is a blessing, life is too short, there is no need to have fun by yourself, there is no need to wronged yourself and give others a long face.

I hope you want to understand, please yourself first, as for the rest, it depends on your mood.

May you see through all the malice in this world as soon as possible, start the happy life of the person you love as soon as possible, and be a person who goes with the wind, buys whenever he wants, and eats whenever he wants.

There is nothing wrong with reality. Love money is love money. Happiness is more important than anything else. Go all out seriously. You are the coolest anyway.

Fireworks, fireworks

Honey, you know, there is no need to squeeze into inappropriate circles. That doesn't mean it's your fault that you can't fit in. Why not try to establish your own territory?