I lent my best friend 5000 yuan. When we met during the Chinese New Year, he scolded me and didn't want to pay me back. what do you think?

After a year of reunion with my family, several friends suggested that we get together. I readily promised that I would go out to work soon anyway, and then I wouldn't see each other for another year. After all, it was rare.

I study in the local university, so most of my friends who have a good time are here. My family is not a rich and ordinary family, so they helped me a lot in college, so I really appreciate them. It is fate that everyone can be together, but we can't live up to this fate.

After graduation, we often contact. I was interviewing with several roommates in a better company. Maybe I'm lucky. I am the only one who finally became a full-time employee through internship. They were all very happy for me, and then they started new jobs one after another. During this period, a good friend asked me to borrow money and borrowed 5000 yuan at a time. Actually, I don't have that much money, but he said it was urgent and needed money badly. He also said that he would pay me back in a month.

It's been several months, but he didn't contact me, and he didn't tell me why he didn't pay me back, so he asked him. He didn't return my calls, and he didn't answer the phone. I don't know whether he will come to the party. In fact, if he doesn't pay me back after the deadline, as long as he explains the situation to me, I understand. I just don't understand why he didn't tell me.

On the day of the party, I arrived early, and several friends had already arrived. Everyone greets me, and so on. It didn't take long for everyone to keep coming. I met a friend who borrowed money when I went out to go to the toilet, and I said hello to him. As a result, he just skipped me and entered the box as if he didn't know me. I thought it was because he didn't hear me. I thought I would find him when I came back.

When I came back, the food was already on the table, and everyone had a good chat. I came in smiling, then sat down beside him and greeted him. He still ignored me and chatted with others, so I called out to him. As a result, he stood up and yelled at me: What are you yelling at? It's not that I can't hear you. I was stunned by his roar.

Other students quickly advised him to forget it. Maybe he didn't hear it because it was too noisy, but I know he must have heard it. I don't want it to be unpleasant. Unexpectedly, he went on to say: Don't you just owe you five thousand dollars? As for urging me to return it every day? Do you treat me as a friend?

I got angry when I heard him say that. I said, let's be clear, it's the money you lent me that you haven't paid me back after the time. I just asked you what happened, and I didn't urge you to return it. You borrowed money without telling me. Do you have the face to tell me that you are not my friend? He is not indefensible, but means that no matter whether he has money or not, even if he does, he will not pay it back.

I was so angry at his words that I almost quarreled. A friend came up to persuade him to pay back the money and become friends in the future. It's not easy for everyone to get together. In a word, I am very dissatisfied with this meal. I didn't expect him to be such a person. It was clearly his fault, but it turned out to be mine. For such a friend, no matter whether I have money or not, I will never borrow money again.