Men always gone, but the girls still here

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There is an episode in the third season of "Qi Pa Shuo" with the theme "My best friend asked me to fuck my mistress, will I go or not?"

Sister Tantan, an "old artist" with both virtues and talents, changed her usual laughter and scolding and spoke passionately about her friendship with Sister Lulu.

She said that whenever something happened to Sister Lulu, she would be the first to rush over because she did not want Sister Lulu to be harmed.

She said that the best part of eating melon seeds and talking about the past in the alleyway is that Sister Lulu is in her story, and she is in Sister Lulu’s story.

She said, men are always gone, but the girl is still here.

After the words were finished, people were crying both on and off the stage, and I was also in tears outside the screen.

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When I was a child, I envied the direct friendship between boys.

They get along comfortably and casually. When they are happy, they go to play soccer, play games, and hang out together. When they don't like it, they meet to have a fight behind the school gate. They have the loyalty to fight against all odds, and the courage to go to the end of the world together with their swords.

In comparison, the friendship between girls seems too petty and tortuous.

As I grow older, I gradually understand the deeper meaning of friendship.

Counting the people around you, some have come and many have gone. As time goes by, most of the people who can still drink and chat together are girls. Looking back on the past, most of the people who left a profound mark on life, big and small, were girls.

I have also met very good boys, but it seems that girls understand each other more easily, and we have gone a long way together without realizing it.

To the lovely girls who appear in life, we are each other’s backing. No matter how bumpy and difficult the road ahead is, when you turn your head, the other person is there.

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"407" girls, meeting you is the most worthwhile reward in college. In four years of college, we turned from strangers into each other's "wives."

As an only child, I originally had a stubborn and willful child inside me who did not reveal my feelings easily and did not know how to care for others. It is you who taught me sincerity and sharing.

When I was about to write about you, I found that there were no big and dramatic events between us. The memories were filled with all kinds of trivial joys together.

Travel together on a budget, climb mountains, look at the sea, and count stars. Even if you just go to the cherry orchard outside the school, you have to pose in various poses, take a lot of photos, and tell a lot of jokes, making the originally ordinary journey become Wonderful and beautiful.

We watch movies together around my eldest sister’s computer, funny, scary, and sad. After watching them, we always discuss the scenes in them that impressed each of us with great interest. Occasionally, we would find out some weird jokes in a wicked way. I remember in one movie, a heroic horse defecated silently and was discovered by the sharp-eyed Xiaoxue. Then we played this scene over and over again, and everyone laughed. I couldn't help but laugh every time I mentioned it.

Many nights with lights out, we would have sleep-talking sessions together, talking about each other’s gossips, interesting experiences, growing pains, and the little throbbings of youth. I have forgotten exactly what we talked about. And the joy of talking freely can be preserved in the memory and last forever.

It seems that as long as I am with you, it is easy to laugh, bend down with laughter, and shed tears.

In the third year after graduation, in the crisp autumn weather of October, we returned to our beloved alma mater and took a set of bestie photos. It felt like I was back in my college days, putting on makeup and choosing looks together, giving each other ideas, and doing all kinds of funny, ladylike, nonsensical, cut-and-dry looks, and patting each other non-stop. We were spinning, jumping, and laughing heartlessly on the sunny campus. This kind of carefree time becomes even more precious after working for several years. When I think back to this day, I can still smell the grass-scented wind that day and see your bright smiles.

It turns out that the best thing is not that you spent a wonderful time with me, but that as time goes by, our relationship is still beautiful.

As soon as we graduated, we moved dormitory 407 online and existed in the form of a WeChat group. From now on, no matter how far apart we are, no matter how time passes, and no matter how life changes us, 407 will still be the same 407. We still protect each other, grew up together, and don't want to miss any important moments of each other.

We agreed that we would try to get together in different beautiful places every few years, because our stories cannot stop.

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When I was a child, I felt that friendship was only happy when I drank a lot of wine and ate a lot of meat. When I grew up, I realized that companionship in a long and steady flow is more precious.

My sister, the blood relative, experienced the chaos of being a new mother, wandering on the edge of depression, and finally broke out single-handedly. And when her sister and I fell into the same situation, she took on the responsibility of leading the way without saying a word and led me through that rugged and dark alley. She did not hesitate to bring up the sad memories of the past, just to encourage me to persevere until Come to the Avenue of Light. Even though this incompetent sister had never cared about her before, and didn't even know about the struggles she had had.

And dear Qiaomei, even in this era when "best friend" has become a derogatory term, your existence still makes me believe in the meaning of these two words. Although we are not perfect, although we have many different ideas, and we are not even the same personality, these do not prevent us from becoming each other's best friends. After thinking about the reason, maybe it's because under the different appearances, they both have a silly heart, willing to pay for each other and make the other person better.

There are also old trees that accompany me through a period of wind and snow, heart-warming and beautiful Yanyan, straightforward and innocent Chuchu, eternal girlish Dandan, warm and lovely comics, every one of them They are all girls worth dating, kind and beautiful.

The relationship with you is probably because we understand each other, so we are deeply affectionate.

Every girl in life has a long road ahead, so let’s watch the mountains, rivers, sunsets and brilliant spring together.