What details make you feel that this person has great blessings?

Generally speaking, those who do well in society are often eloquent, well versed in the wisdom of dealing with others, know how to grasp people's psychology, and make everyone happy. Therefore, life will be better and better as time goes by. Report after report.

Everyone wants to live a prosperous life, so they need to learn the wisdom of life from successful people. If you can have both sides, you will have good luck in whatever you do, because people who are willing to help you will a lot of. Today I would like to share this related topic with you - people who truly have more blessings generally have these three characteristics. They tend to have smooth sailing and more and more good luck.

1. Hide your edge as a human being. Put away your arrogance, be a low-key person, don't show off your abilities easily, and let others take the limelight.

Being low-key is to gain more living space for yourself. This is living for yourself. Being high-profile is just living in the eyes of others, and it is very likely to become a thorn in others' eyes.

The more low-key a person is, the more great things he can achieve; the more successful a person is, the more he knows how to be low-key.

There was a man named Meng Zhifan. Once his army was defeated and everyone fled in all directions. Only Meng Zhifan remained calm in the face of danger. He purged the stragglers and made the retreat in an orderly manner. He also ignored the danger and left a rear to minimize the losses of the defeat.

After the army returned to the city, everyone from top to bottom praised Meng Zhi for his good command and handling of the rebellion. Meng Zhifan patted his horse and said humbly: "It's not that I'm brave, but that this old horse can't run fast."

Meng Zhifan's heroic soldiers all witnessed it, but Instead of taking credit and being arrogant, he cleverly chose to keep a low profile. This kind of proactive behavior of taking credit and taking credit is the wisdom of keeping a low profile and avoiding being the target of public criticism.

That’s why Meng Zhifan was able to live smoothly and have more and more good luck. Even Confucius admired his wisdom in dealing with people. He hid his edge and lived a low-key life, so that he would have more and more blessings.

2. Know how to advance and retreat when doing things. Act within your ability, advance and retreat calmly, and be in awe of others, so that you will not be arrogant; be cautious and fearful of yourself, so that you will not act recklessly.

Everyone is not an all-rounder. He or she has his or her own strengths and weaknesses. Only by understanding the limits of one’s abilities can one avoid doing wishful thinking.

Those lucky people are pragmatic people who only do what they can to accomplish things, so that they can get more opportunities and blessings.

The Battle of Chibi is a classic battle during the Three Kingdoms period. At that time, Cao Cao had many powerful generals, strong soldiers and strong horses, and won consecutive battles. Cao Cao sent his troops south and reached Chibi in one fell swoop, facing Soochow across the river.

Cao Cao claimed to have an army of 800,000, but the soldiers were all from the north, and there was a lack of experienced navy troops in the army. Soochow has been entrenched on the left side of the Yangtze River for generations. Not only does it have a strong navy, it also has a geographical advantage. Many counselors advised Cao Cao to withdraw his troops and attack Soochow. The gains outweighed the losses. It was better to consolidate the results and slowly attack Soochow.

Cao Cao believed that the army was as powerful as a rainbow. As long as the warships were connected with iron ropes, the army would be able to walk on flat ground, and Soochow would be within easy reach. Everyone knows the later allusions: Wu and Shu joined forces, Zhuge Liang cleverly took advantage of the east wind to burn Red Cliff, and Cao's army was defeated.

Cao Cao ignored the objective situation of not having the right time, location, and people, and insisted on going his own way. As a result, not much of the 800,000-strong army was left. This is a typical example of arrogance and overestimation of one's abilities. This allusion profoundly illustrates that victory often belongs to those who know where to go and who can rationally analyze the pros and cons, so that they can go smoothly and get blessings. This is also the reason why Zhuge Liang won.

Although the skills of being a person and doing things are simple, the wisdom in them is very profound. If you can grasp the wisdom of dealing with people, you will be more likely to succeed in doing things, often go smoothly, and have more and more good luck!