Why is the reunion going bad now, and ugly boys don't need to attend it at all? So as not to touch a rebuff?

I think there are many reasons for this problem. 1, creating a distance between them. When I was a child, we were all in the same class and were good friends for many years. We all have endless topics, and we are very close to each other. People you meet can tell each other what happened around you, and others are willing to listen to you. Everyone is so naive and accommodating, and anyone who is in trouble will lend a helping hand. But when people grow up, they think more and become secular. Class reunion, there are not many topics. They are familiar with each other and only know their colleagues around them. I haven't seen my classmates for many years. I don't know what to say and where to start.

2. Humanity has changed. In the previous class reunion, everyone was a minor and had not yet entered the society. Everyone is simple and doesn't think too much. Everyone is joking with each other and getting along well with each other. However, with the growth of age, everyone will grow up one day and get together again. As we enter the society, we become secular. It is clear at a glance that everyone can't do without money and interests. It seems that comparison has become everyone's need. Everyone began to talk about money and Kan Kan, their own interests, their families, their children, and how they were doing. Nobody seems to care about others. Everyone is rich and rich, and those who have no money talk with those who have no money, so a table is divided into two factions unconsciously. Everyone will never find themselves again.

3. Life pressure is different. In the past, the reunion was only to solve the problem of food and clothing for one person. Now everyone has to face a small life when they grow up, so everyone can't understand other people's lives because their own lives feel great pressure. In the past, the party was for everyone, but now it's just me. At the same time, when that classmate is rich, everyone will try their best to please him like buttering up. It seems that someone can help him in life by making good connections. With the growth of age, the annual class reunion has become different. Familiar students are getting farther and farther away, and the distance is getting farther and farther, and there are fewer and fewer topics. This is why the reunion is old-fashioned, and why many people don't want to attend.