After the divorce, I met a woman for eight years, but I have been reluctant to pull the card. What should I do?

The stalemate in the "eight-year war of resistance" is indeed a bit long! I turned my life into a "joke", but I brought myself a burden of worry.

If you comfort each other at first, then you should settle down and live every day-after all, you are an "injured" person and can't play cat and mouse any more.

After divorce, it is a hidden danger to find a partner to live together but not establish a relationship for eight years. If nothing happens, it only means that one of them has an idea.

There must be a reason why she has been reluctant to get a certificate. There must be a reason why you can stand her for eight years.

So the answer lies in this reason. If you can resolve this reason and let your life go on, then you will overcome some difficulties and try to live a good life and become a family. If you think that things that are not solved are impossible to overcome, then don't have illusions. After all, life cannot be extended by impulse.

Eight years is enough to know a person. You can get gratitude from her company, but you can't settle for it, especially for some principled issues. Kindness and gratitude can't be replaced. Living a real life is not a player's home.

In retrospect, the days after divorce are as heavy as the burden. It's really not easy and grateful to accompany you out of that quagmire, but the enthusiasm will eventually fade and the days will pass sooner or later. We can't get out of the quagmire and fall into the deep pit, so that we become "enemies" from our initial friends.

If you want to live seriously, get on the right track as soon as possible; If you still want eight years, just being together, then there is nothing worth going online.

If the conditions are not met and the reality does not allow it, eight years will be almost the same. It may be best to interpret your reunion with a beautiful reunion. Because no agreement can be reached until it is completed now, it is better to say "take care" to each other than another big enemy.

If you are friends, don't hurt each other.