My son is almost two and a half years old. Should he be sent to kindergarten?

There are elderly people at home, so it is not recommended to send them to kindergarten.

I have an example around me. A mother, taking care of her children alone, felt very hard and sent her two-and-a-half-year-old daughter to kindergarten.

When it first arrived, the child cried every day and the daughter was still young. Really, I look pathetic. Every morning, I can hear my daughter crying, crying very grievance.

After about a month, the child stopped crying slowly. As a result, the child began to get sick. When the cold didn't get better, I began to cough. When my cough didn't get better, I started to have a fever and I was sick all the time. Basically, I have been ill this semester.

As a result, the mother is more tired, the child is getting thinner and thinner, she can't eat well and sleep well every day, and the child is very insecure.

So I suggest that the subject should not send it.

First, although children have good self-care ability and regular life, after all, children are too young to be sent to kindergarten and need to adapt.

Second, since there are old people taking care of children at home, it is even more unnecessary to send children to kindergarten early. It will be much better for children to go to kindergarten when they are older.

Take my children for example. My child was born in July. They went to kindergarten at the age of three. All the students in the children's class are older than my children. Some are over half a year old, and some are eight or nine months old. It's really different when children are older. Older children are more adaptable and like to live in groups. The child is too young for the teacher to control.

Third, children are prone to get sick in the first semester. Just like Ma Bao above, they went to kindergarten for a semester and have been sick. Children are older and their resistance is much better, so it is best to go to kindergarten after the age of three.

Children usually go to kindergarten at the age of three. For boys, if someone takes care of them at home, it is best to go to kindergarten for three and a half weeks, because boys develop later than girls. Going to kindergarten in the morning is not conducive to children's physical and mental development. For example, if you don't understand the teacher's instructions, for example, children can't urinate by themselves, and they will be laughed at by their classmates if they accidentally pee or pull their clothes. (Of course, it may be unintentional for children), which will lead to inferiority. Kindergarten is a big family, there are twenty or thirty children in each class, and the standard is only three teachers. Teachers can't take care of every child in every detail.

Children who have just arrived in the new environment of kindergarten have poor resistance and are prone to illness. It will make parents physically and mentally exhausted. There are many children in kindergarten, and they have headaches and brain fever, which are easy to infect each other. Although the kindergarten will take the child's temperature every day, it is impossible to completely isolate the source of infection.

At present, there are frequent cases of child abuse in kindergartens. Letting children under the age of three who can't speak normally go to school will increase the risk of children and increase parents' concerns.

Of course, it is not absolute. If the children under three weeks are independent, can urinate and eat by themselves, can understand the teacher's instructions, and can make friends quickly in kindergarten, it is also feasible to find a reliable kindergarten!

The children are still young, so there is no need to send them to school in such a small society. If anyone watches it, try to keep it free!

I have been a kindergarten teacher for three years.

Now she is a nanny for two children. Dabao is 2 years and 9 months old. She took care of the children by herself and hasn't sent them to kindergarten yet.

Generally speaking, there are 35 or more students in a kindergarten class. According to age and month, a better kindergarten may have more than 20 students. A class has 1 main class, 1 secondary class, 1 nurse. Some kindergartens increase their income to save money, but only two always do so.

But care is really not in place. For example, every time in kindergarten is arranged, morning exercises, breakfast, morning exercises, classes, outdoor, lunch, walking, taking a nap, attending classes, and sending children out of the park.

Children who have just entered kindergarten usually cry for a period of time, during which they will be coaxed by the teacher, and if they are coaxed too much, they will not be coaxed.

Children who have just entered kindergarten are prone to catch a cold, have a fever and get sick because they don't adapt.

Children are small and have poor resistance. Wait until the child is older. Don't disturb the children.

My baby is three and a half years old and ready to send it.

The institution where my son attends early childhood classes also provides full-time care service for children, and can send them as long as they are 2 years old. Before a class, I arrived at the early education center much earlier. Before the class started, I took my son around and bumped into the innermost classroom in the corridor by mistake. There was a child crying all the time, but the teacher didn't try to appease him. On the contrary, I have been pretending that nothing happened. I stayed for almost 10 minutes just to see if the teacher would coax the poor guy.

I was very unhappy at that time. If such a young child is at home, at least someone will ask you what's wrong. At least ask, don't treat it as air.

Therefore, if someone takes care of you at home, there is no need to go to kindergarten so early. Under normal circumstances, you can wait until you are a little over 3 years old and go to kindergarten. Children are too young to go to kindergarten, which will greatly affect their hearts. And being thrown into kindergarten at such a young age, even if it is wronged, it cannot be expressed. If I were you, I wouldn't trust to send my 2-and-a-half-year-old son to kindergarten.

In fact, it is also beneficial to send children to kindergarten, that is, they can contact and communicate with more children and learn more things, which is conducive to the mental development of children. However, if the topic is just to let children get in touch with children and exercise socializing, you can take them to the playground, or go to public places such as the square downstairs, or give them early education classes, and attend classes with many children every day, and you will also meet many children. And I am two and a half years old, I can understand many words, and I will learn a lot from my teachers and classmates.

You can go to the parent-child class in kindergarten first.

Children usually go to kindergarten at the age of three. Of course, some children who have no help at home will go to kindergarten at the age of two and a half.

This kind of parent-child class in advance will help children adapt to collective life and kindergarten in advance, and adapt faster when they start full-time classes; Moreover, in this half-day parent-child class, children will not be too tired, teachers will accompany them and have a good time.

If you choose to go to kindergarten, these precautions should be clear.

If the family members discuss and decide to send their children to kindergarten, the children and parents need to have an adaptation process when they first go to kindergarten. The following points should be noted:

The above is the answer to this question. I hope I can help you and wish your child a healthy and happy growth.

Hello, I'm Maisui's mother, Maizai.

When there are reliable people to take care of children, you need to consider whether to send children to kindergarten in these aspects:

I am a nanny and have two children. Now both children are in kindergarten. In view of your situation, I'd like to express my personal opinion.

The child is two and a half years old, with someone to take care of him at home, and his living habits are quite good. I think it is more appropriate to wait until the child is three years old before sending him to kindergarten for the following reasons:

First of all, a child of two and a half years old is still a little young in terms of age. Even if children are independent and have basic self-care ability, after all, kindergarten and home are two different environments, and it is difficult for children to adapt to sudden changes when they are young. It is possible that he can go to the toilet by himself at home, but when he is in a strange environment, he will be anxious after facing strange faces, and he will easily pull his pants, which is not good for his physical development.

Secondly, children are so young that they need the care of their parents. To tell the truth, even in kindergarten, children will be taught the most basic living habits at the beginning, and others will not be learned. Since your children's basic living habits are quite good, there is no need to send them to face the small society alone in the realization stage, which is still a bit pitiful.

Thirdly, the child is too young and the immune system is not fully developed. If they go to kindergarten, they will contact more children and increase the chances of cross-infection, which is not conducive to their health.

Whether children go to kindergarten, or whether they should go to kindergarten in advance, we must first understand the purpose of children going to kindergarten.

Some parents may not have the time and energy to teach him something, so they send their children to kindergarten, which is also a last resort.

First of all, we must know that kindergarten is not a place to take care of children. Sending children to kindergarten is the first step to cultivate children's independent collective life, which is irreplaceable by families (parents).

Why does the state stipulate that children go to kindergarten at the age of three and primary school at the age of six? This is a basic education plan based on children's growth and development.

Regarding the question of whether children should be sent to kindergarten when they are almost two and a half years old, I think it is enough to enter school according to normal school age. Similarly, you can't send it to kindergarten or send it to kindergarten late just because you say someone is taking it at home.

Some children have good physical development and behavior at home, but they may not be able to adapt to group life at school. Therefore, some children who have just been sent to kindergarten will find themselves often sick and emotional. This is also normal.

But this is an indispensable part of the child's growth process.

So what behaviors should we cultivate before sending our children to kindergarten?

1, independent eating ability

In kindergarten, there may be a life teacher to help children eat at first, but after a period of time, all children must be able to eat independently, and the life teacher can't help them. And after the age of four, you should practice using chopsticks, which is a must. In addition, children's food at home should be diversified, and they should not develop the habit of partial eclipse. Some children are partial to food and may go hungry at school. The difference between school life and family life is also the reason why children who have just entered the park often get sick.

2. Ability to go to the toilet independently

In early kindergarten, children defecate with the help of life teachers, but urinate without the help of teachers. Even with the help of teachers, it will cause a lot of inconvenience, and teachers will get bored after a long time.

3. Focus

This is a point that kindergarten teachers often communicate with their parents. Although some children are smart and lively at home, they will show insufficient concentration after school. If this habit is not cultivated well, it will directly affect children's learning ability in primary school.

4. Other living abilities

Other life skills that need to be learned include: wearing socks, tying shoelaces, buttoning, and wearing clothes without buttons. These are generally learned in middle and large classes. At home, most of these jobs may be replaced by parents, but they must be learned at school.

Summary:

Going to kindergarten is the first step for children to step into social life, the beginning of learning collective life and the beginning of learning to communicate with strangers, which family education can't give. Therefore, in principle, all children should enter school and go to kindergarten according to the legal age.

I'm glad to answer this question.

When my daughter was two and a half years old, I also considered whether to send her to kindergarten. I work while taking care of the children. If I send her to kindergarten earlier, I will have more time to do my own work. Later, after careful consideration, I decided to send my child to kindergarten after he was three years old. No matter how hard I try, I will insist on taking them for half a year.

Your son is almost two and a half years old. He has a family and a regular life. I think it's best to wait until the child is three years old before sending him to kindergarten for the following reasons:

1. Two-and-a-half-year-olds have weak adaptability.

Usually, children behave very cheerful and talk a lot when they are at home or with family members around, because the familiar environment and familiar family members at home can bring him a sense of security. If you go to a kindergarten in a strange environment and face strange teachers and children, it may be difficult for children to integrate into the group at once, and they are afraid to say anything to the teacher. For example, they are afraid to go to the toilet by themselves, and it is easy to pee their pants. When my daughter was two years old and six months old, I took her to a nearby kindergarten for an experience class. In this process, the three-year-old child is very active, but she is afraid to follow the teacher and other children. There seems to be little difference between two and a half years old and three years old, but there is still a big gap in cognition, communication and adaptability. It will be easier for children to adapt to kindergarten after they are three years old.

2. Two-and-a-half-year-old children have worse resistance than three-year-old children and are prone to cross-infection.

There are many children in kindergarten. Children are prone to cross-infection when they are sick, and they are most susceptible to infection when they are young. On the whole, children over three years old are more resistant than children over two years old. Of course, individual phenomena are not excluded. There is a child in our community who goes to kindergarten at the age of two. She gets sick once a month. She is ill, and her parents will take her home, so her mother can only take time off to take care of her at home. Children's contact with people at home is not so complicated and cross-infection is not easy to occur, but the chances of getting sick in kindergarten will increase. The child is ill, and the whole family is involved. The child is in pain. Since there are still people at home, the child should wait for more than three years old.

3. Lack of language expression and understanding.

Evaluating whether a child is suitable for kindergarten depends not only on the child's self-care ability and physical quality, but also on the child's language expression ability and understanding ability. Two-and-a-half-year-old children are in a period of rapid language development, and they can speak short sentences, but they can't express their ideas well, and their understanding ability is relatively lacking. They may not understand some instructions from teachers, which will easily frustrate children in a collective environment, which is not conducive to the healthy development of children's body and mind.

Many parents will have all kinds of worries.

Children should take good care of eating, drinking and sleeping when they are young; When children go to kindergarten, they should worry about their personality development and kindergarten affairs. Primary schools should worry about their children's academic performance; Junior high school should pay attention to children's adolescence; High school is a fatal adolescence ... after 18 years old, I began to worry about finding a partner and getting married ... my parents are not easy either!

Let's answer this question today:

There are several situations to consider whether to send them to kindergarten:

1, is the child's self-care ability good?

Just now, the landlord said that eating and drinking Lazar is regular, healthy, smart and cute, but he didn't say that children can take care of themselves? What if all these things are done by family members and a teacher takes care of many children in kindergarten, and our children may not even be able to eat and drink Lazarus?

For example, children are fed at home, kindergartens can't eat them, and teachers have time to feed them. Isn't that right? The child may be hungry. ...

Therefore, we should not pin our hopes on teachers, but let children have the most basic self-care ability. For example, I can go to the toilet, eat by myself, and ask the teacher.

2. Do children like kindergarten or not?

Some children are quite resistant to kindergarten. If parents plan to send their children to kindergarten, they must communicate with them. Although children are small, they are independent individuals and have their own thoughts.

Did you take it home?

For a 2-year-old child, if there is no one at home, consider sending it. The current situation is that if there is an elderly person at home to help, don't send it. Unless it is said that this kindergarten is really great, it can regulate children and let them learn more different things.

4. Is the child's age appropriate?

Kindergarten enrollment, small classes in the middle class, large classes in the middle class. The ages are 3 years old, 4 years old, 5 years old and 6 years old. If it is a child with a small birthday, there may be more kindergartens in the first half of the year.

It is also very beneficial for children to follow up according to their age and let them come into contact with school-age children.