Will people laugh at you when your husband dies?

If you really marry a man a month after your husband died, you will definitely be judged by your neighbors. The world is always harsh on women, thinking that women should get married a year or two after their husbands die, or never get married. Especially in some remote places, the constraints on women will be even greater, which is unimaginable for women living in cities. The smaller the city, the greater the influence of gossip on a person, which may make women feel depressed and dare not leave home at all.

Life in big cities is very busy. I may have been a neighbor for many years, but I don't know what kind of people live next door. Because everyone has their own things to do, there is no extra time to care about the relationships around them, or to engage in such work. But people in small cities are gossiping, especially some middle-aged women. They know something quickly and will tell their friends about it when they know it. If you live in a small county, you can wait a little longer and don't get married in such a hurry. If you live in a big city, you don't need to care. You can live the life you want and no one will control you.

Some netizens may think that what Bian Xiao said is too heavy or a little exaggerated, but the reality is really like this. If a man marries and has children after his ex-wife's death, the public will think it is normal, because men should carry on the family line and should not be too attached to women. If a woman does this, she will be told by outsiders that she hooked up with an outsider when her dead husband was ill, otherwise it is impossible to get married within a month. In fact, there are many examples of such things. For example, if the wife is ill, the husband can file for divorce. If the husband's sick wife asks for a divorce, she will be accused by outsiders of ignoring her family or other accusations.

Although many women want to live a single life, it is difficult to realize this idea in a small county, unless you have a stable job, a house, a deposit and a car, which can make your life very hard.