Is the human struggle just a joke?

1, as long as one thing is carefully planned and adjusted while persisting, it will often be completed very well. Everyone will slack off. Don't worry about walking slower than others, and don't be disheartened because of temporary setbacks. As long as you constantly adjust your mentality and stop, you will eventually reach the finish line.

Many people feel that they are too tired to live. In fact, they may just go to bed too late.

When you are not strong enough, everything you say is just a joke to others.

If you want someone to love you, the best psychological preparation is not to make yourself have to love him. You should be strong and independent, ask for more happiness, and make yourself the focus of life, with sustenance, goals, brilliance and prospects. In short, let yourself have enough sources to make yourself happy, and then prepare to accept or not accept each other's love.

5. All lucky and coincidental things are either predestined or a person is working hard in secret.

6. There is no one who will never be vilified, and there is no one who will always be admired. If you talk too much, others will criticize you, but if you talk too little, you will be silent. There is no one in this world who is not criticized. Don't worry yourself because of other people's doubts; Don't hurt yourself because of the ignorance of others. yi zhongtian

7. Fate comes to gather, fate goes to disperse, fate comes to live, and fate falls to die.

8. I would rather spend time cultivating my imperfect self than wasting time expecting perfect others.

9. Being single or being in love is just a certain stage of life. There is no need to envy others, and don't be dissatisfied with the status quo. Whether there are people around you or not, whether there is a commitment to work together in front of you, the joys and sorrows of life need to be experienced and precipitated by yourself. A correct life will bring you a better self at every stage. Growth is not simply getting rid of orders, but giving yourself the strength to experience any possibility.

10, to be honest, I don't want to meet you when I am too young. At that time, I lost my temper because you liked me. I was arrogant and thought that I missed you and there would always be someone else.

1 1. They all love hard, but they don't know how to love. Everyone only knows that I want, I want, but mature love is not taking, but giving.

12 We all meet people who want to promise most when we are least able to promise others, and we also meet people who want to stay most when we have to move forward for our ideals.

13, maybe you have many friends, but you still have to learn to adapt to loneliness and learn to be brave, because even the best friends may part ways one day.

14, not all people can understand the meaning of time, not all people know how to cherish time, there is no fate of separation and aging in this world, only a heart that is willing to love but unwilling to love. Xi Murong

15, you win, I accompany you to the throne, you lose, I accompany you to make a comeback! You don't know who loves you the most until you are poor. Friends only know who is true to you and who cares about you when they are down and out. Accompany me, unless you have money, I won't follow; Cherish, I only care whether you are beautiful or not. Time leaves behind not wealth, not beauty, but sincerity. Time may not bring love, but it will certainly meet people's hearts!

16, once someone gives you something to rely on, you will have expectations, so sometimes a person is not necessarily bad.

17. Someone came after you left, but now it has changed. I am still the same as before, cold, gentle, useless and cruel.

18, a life without concentration is like opening your eyes and seeing nothing.

19, there are many things I actually know the truth. But I can't help but desperately find loopholes and excuses to overthrow the truth and fulfill the answers I want in my heart.

20. If I had known it was so embarrassing, why didn't I know each other at the beginning?

2 1. If you are tired, just rest on my shoulder. If you are afraid, just hide in my arms and let me protect you.

22. People are like this. Sometimes I will be unhappy, sometimes I will walk into a dead end and feel miserable. Sometimes I feel that I am in a particularly good mood and can do anything. There will be both moods. The probability of the two is similar. It is in this repetition that time passes.

23. When I am tired of this world, I will think of you. I am willing to put up with everything when I think that your life exists somewhere in the world. Your existence means a lot to me.

24. When people are in a low mood, they are not interested in anything, so they should learn to divert their attention. Now that some things have become facts, try to accept and face them. One person cannot change the world, and the world will not change because of you. What you can do is to adapt to the world, don't fall into a dead end, and don't compare with others. You should have your own wonderful life.

25. Don't be shy to refuse others. Anyway, those who are embarrassed to embarrass you are not good people. allow

26. Young people, our hearts are relatively small. If you put a little pain in it, it will look great. When people grow up, their hearts get bigger. Even if more sadness is put in, you can still leave calmly and forget calmly. So be patient. One day our hearts will become bigger than sadness.

27. Many people fell in love at first sight, some of them were two of a kind, and they grew old together.

28. Some precious fragments in life actually come from some trivial things.

29. They all love hard, but they don't know how to love. Everyone only knows that I want, I want, but mature love is not taking, but giving.

There are many books. I don't know which to look at, so let's start with what we have at hand. Words are always endless, so don't look for shortcuts, start with the first one; If you can't make up your mind to travel, then give up the raiders and start by booking air tickets. The best way to overcome anxiety is to do something that makes you anxious. Starting is always the most meaningful thing, so do it. Lu sihao

The economy is not independent, and everything you say is bullshit.

1 In fact, you are kind to others, and others will remember that there are few baiwenhang in this world, but there are many people like you and me who are a little stupid and unwilling to speak insincerely. For a while, they couldn't find a way to repay you, and they didn't want to say some beautiful scenes, but they kept it in their hearts, knowing that they owed others, full of gratitude and great joy, and they didn't know how to express it.

If you want something, you should either try to catch up or give up. Don't always nag in front of everyone to express your determination or complain constantly, and become the laughing stock of others after dinner.

I used to be particularly afraid of losing, both materially and emotionally. Later, when I experienced more money, I was isolated and abandoned. I gradually learned to be independent and open-minded. Now I'm not worried about who will leave, and I'm not worried about becoming poor, because I know I can earn back what I lost. Having confidence in yourself is the greatest sense of security, and there is no need for external objects to prove and set off.

4. Instead of being busy and conspicuous, it is better to be true and natural in the crowd, not to make public, not to be artificial, and to leave a way out at any time. I have a fixed mind, just concentrate on my work.

I wonder how many people behind you are slandering you. Maybe you are a shameless bitch with a dirty mouth, but there is nothing you can do. Some people are sick, throwing dirty water on others to make them happy. You are criticized, but you don't hide, because you know that people who love you will believe you.

6. You don't have to worry about what you are afraid of, because it will come and go as scheduled.

7. What is an ideal life? Ordinary people, leisurely drinking tea, no win or lose in the game under the tree, let them go fishing by the pool, there is no need to ask for a big solution in reading, fame and fortune in officialdom are as small as sand, husband and wife love each other, father and son are filial and happy. Happy people don't have everything, they just try their best to enjoy the gifts of life.

Even though time is getting older, we are still there.

9. Some people think that everything is outspoken, that they are themselves, and that they live a free life. In fact, such people are the most annoying. It is often this so-called "true nature" that can't afford to make jokes, and it is the easiest to get angry because of being teased, because low emotional intelligence is often accompanied by low generosity, because it is difficult for them to digest other people's jokes, but they still feel like children, and others have to let them behave everywhere.

10, true sadness, even if you have spoken, you still can't say it. ...

1 1, women remember that deeper makeup is to change their temperament. They should read more books, think more, be optimistic about life, have confidence in life, be kind-hearted, care for others and love themselves with dignity. Such people are ugly even without makeup. The makeup on their faces is just the last little thing in makeup.

12, sometimes, the economy is not independent, and everything you say is bullshit.

13, nothing is more useless than entanglement. Although the purpose is to think things through, it is often that I wander around in the same place instead of taking a step and I am exhausted. It is better to move forward on an imperfect road than to struggle. Only on the road will there be gains, reflections and tests. In fact, people who have been entangled for a long time have no ability to comprehensively consider problems, and most of them are headless flies.

14, I don't show off, because I don't feel inferior. I don't care because I don't lack love. This is human nature. Inferiority is the only way to show off, and lack of love is the only way to be a playboy. Your ostentation can only prove your inner weakness.

15, many relationships don't need to be too close. Contact with so many people every day, not everyone wants to be friends. Many people just skim the water. A hedge between keeps friendship green. There is no need to exchange privacy or add WeChat. Most of the grievances, love and hate are because they are too close, and they are not as close as they are. The originally polite relationship has begun to become awkward and uncomfortable. Where there is distance, there will be respect.

16, many things, don't complain, don't worry, in the final analysis, it is because you are not strong enough.

17, people should be hard on themselves and don't easily magnify their sadness. Just face these problems correctly, whether you are lovelorn, failed in the exam, or lost some money. There is no need to disillusion your whole life, and feel that the days have lost their colors, and darkness will cover the rest of your life. What a big deal! It will be better after a while. It's not worth denying life.

There are three ways to solve many of your problems: accept, change and leave. If you can't accept it, change it If you can't change it, leave.

19, independent personality, know how to take care of yourself, enjoy life after things are handled properly, don't talk often, have the ability to dispel their own suffering, and rarely show aggression. Because of their inner strength, they have a compassionate gentleness, are not incited by cheap remarks and emotions, and stick to their own judgments without regret. May you become such a person.

20. You need to run often when you are fat, and read more books when you are ugly.

Everything is when you are here, and everything is you when you are not.

1, you can live a hundred years without heart and lungs, and you are not tired with a clear conscience.

I survived when the whole class died of a cold. Now they are all well, and I was killed.

It turns out that I am not an exception, but I am whimsical.

4, laughter, in fact, can cover up many emotions, such as your guilty conscience, such as my disappointment.

Only your own shadow is the most loyal, and you will never abandon yourself. . .

6. I hate people lying to me, because I once believed unconditionally.

7. Life is unfair. Just get used to it.

8. Everything is when you are here, and everything is you when you are not.

9. The woman I love doesn't love me.

10, I am kind, but not as good as an angel; I am guilty, but I am not the devil. I am who I am. I can't copy it.

1 1, no one will spend time with you to tease you and protect you except him who loves you.

12, another name of original love is water under the bridge.

13. Being nice to people you don't like doesn't mean that you are hypocritical, but that your heart is mature enough to accommodate these dislikes.

14, I dare not say who I have a good relationship with, because I am afraid I am romantic.

15, I want to be one of your teeth in my next life, so that you will feel pain without me.

16, the wound is no more painful than betrayal, and the tears are no more indifferent than you give.

17, I deleted all the memories with him, and sometimes I even wanted to delete myself.

18, suffering makes the strong, and suffering is the characteristic of the strong.

19, the furthest distance in the world is not love, nor hate, but a familiar person, gradually becoming strange.

20. Trust is like a piece of paper. It is wrinkled, and even if it is smoothed, it cannot be recovered. ...

Hot classics tell me that with you, you are everything. When you are away, everything is yours.

Junichi Watanabe: To appease a man, you must be kind to him, but not always. Just take care of him when he is ill. If he is really too good to get sick, just take care of him when you are sick.

Second, when you have no time to rest, it is your time to rest.

Third, women should not change themselves to please others, unless that person lets you meet a better self. Just be yourself. There will always be someone who will love everything about you.

Four, people have two ways to go, one is to go, the other is to want to go, you must take the road you want to go beautifully, in order to take the road you want to go.

5. Associate with smart people, fall in love with reliable people, work with positive people, and travel with humorous people.

From now on, I will do myself a favor: unload the burden, forget the pain and heal the wounds.

Life is a rope that always leads us by the nose. In order to live, we forbear, shrink, distort and even betray ourselves. Don't think this is normal. Many times what we take for granted will secretly change our character.

No matter how serious your life is, you can always find someone who doesn't think you are stupid.

9. Adversity is the resistance to progress and the driving force to make the strong. A person, if he doesn't push himself, has no idea how good he is. In the face of adversity, it may take only one thought to give up, but it will take a lifetime to regret. Only dare to fight back and persevere can we have the strongest rebound, rush out of the trough and set foot on the peak.

10. Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages. There is no need to be complacent because you are better than others in that matter, and there is no need to be ashamed because you are half a step behind in something. Mind your own business. People's energy is limited and their talents vary greatly. If we can get rid of the details and get to the point, it's already very difficult. If we can get rid of the competitive mentality and calmly deal with it with talent and corresponding diligence, it is valuable.

Eleven, some people say that they are unlucky and can't find a good job; Some people say that if love is not smooth, there will always be scum; Some people say that parents can't afford to buy a house; I have seen too many people who have changed their lives by their own efforts, and too many people who have squandered their original superior conditions and eventually become waste in life. You can't choose your birth, but you can choose your future destiny. What kind of person you want to be depends on yourself.

Twelve, the best state for two people to get along with each other is: not jealous, not catering, having something to say, not embarrassed.

Thirteen, Liu Yu's "Proposal": We are both talented and unruly, so we love each other deeply, and because we are both stubborn and exclusive, we hate each other's guts. Because of this paradox of love and hate, we love our brain and liver today and hate our chickens and eggs tomorrow.

14. I dreamed that you would come to see me. The plane that landed at two o'clock in the afternoon has been nervous since eight o'clock in the morning. I washed my hair five times. I'm not satisfied with how to make it up. There are no beautiful clothes in the closet. The more I look in the mirror, the more I want to cry. Time is getting closer and closer to two o'clock, and my heart is about to explode like a cannonball. Struggling to wake up and looking at the ceiling motionless, I think if this is not love, then there is nothing to say. dugout canoe

Fifteen, others think that you are impatient, aggressive, impulsive, pushy, smart, and have a rigid relationship with some people. True friends think that this is nothing more than frankness, positivity, boldness, sense of honor, high IQ and hatred. True friends are not blinded by friendship, but because they can see the scenery from your point of view and the world through your eyes.

Sixteen, people have three natures, one is nature, but nature, and the third is habit. Nature is pure and good without evil, nature is pure and evil without good, and habits can be good and hateful. The ancient furnace in Jiapingwa

Seventeen, when you are here, you are everything. When you are away, everything is yours.

Choosing good friends is really important. There is a joke that you will find flies in the toilet and bees in the flowers. Stay with people who shine, and slowly you will shine. Be sure to stay away from those who are full of negative energy. They will steal your dreams unconsciously, make you decadent and become as mediocre as them.

Nineteen, when all boys swear, they really feel that they will not break their word. When they go back on their word, they really feel that they can't do it. So swearing can't measure loyalty, and it can't judge right or wrong. It can only prove that at the moment they say it, they have really treated each other.