Don't want to be looked down upon, be "hard" on yourself.

There is an old saying that "a tree lives a skin, but a man lives a breath".

In this life, people seem to live for themselves, but in fact they have always lived in the eyes of others.

When you are young, choose to work hard and forge ahead, so that a person can constantly improve himself, rely on his own ability, gradually improve the situation and win the recognition and applause of others.

If, at the right age, a person chooses to be playful and slack, it is not only a lonely situation, but also a joke in everyone's eyes.

Sometimes, if you choose an indisputable result, what awaits you will be the trough of your life.

Only when a person is "hard" and strict with himself at ordinary times can he rely on his own strength, seize the opportunities around him and gain a personal excitement, so that he will not be looked down upon by people around him.

In the journey of life, what kind of scenery you will see and what kind of mood you have are always in your own hands; If you don't want to be looked down upon, you must be "cruel" to yourself, so don't deceive yourself.

Pursuing success is like everyone's wish.

In the rushing torrent, some people will naturally grasp the desired results; And some friends can only end their own process in regret.

When a person is faced with failure, if the result is attributed to fate, he will only hint to himself again that success will miss him eventually, which is not a good way.

The real strong will never believe that it is predestined, because in their view, the so-called fate is just a person's self-comfort, and laughing in this way is only a helpless choice.

Don't think that saying fate will make others laugh less.

If you do this, you will only make others look down on you more. You will be lost for a long time, thinking that you are not sure of the power of success, but you are not.

The ups and downs of life are a normal state.

A person must have the wisdom to look down on gains and losses, but also turn ridicule into a kind of motivation and seriously improve himself, in order to break the "curse" of fate and win real face for you one day.

Life is not only smooth sailing, but also failure.

When a person is down and out and chooses to give up, then success ultimately has nothing to do with you.

Even if we choose not to argue, we should have our own consciousness at least as good as others; An indomitable attitude will inspire confidence and give you a chance to counterattack.

Living at the bottom is not necessarily a bad thing.

In this case, you can see human nature clearly, understand human feelings, understand gains and losses, and learn to choose. For smart people, it is not terrible to be down and out. That time is just a good opportunity for self-improvement.

Choosing not to admit defeat will turn the contempt and ridicule of others into your motivation.

You know, after a person works hard, there are only two results, either to become excellent with excellent results or to be out with failed results.

When you give up, you are out.

Your indomitable attitude and self-motivation will give you a chance to succeed.

From a psychological point of view, a person's potential is infinite.

One of the purposes of learning psychology is to help a person know himself correctly and find the right position through certain means, so as to realize the excavation of personal potential.

When we set a certain direction, do not fear difficulties and challenges, and go all out to fight for it, we can constantly stimulate our potential and usher in unexpected results.

You will never know your potential unless you push yourself.

When you are down and out, if you don't want to be looked down upon, but look at others with special respect, you should be "hard" on yourself and push yourself in time.

Choosing the result of laziness will only make people slack off in the face of difficulties and eventually become a laughing stock in everyone's eyes.

If you don't want to be despised, you must learn to be hard on yourself.

With a clear goal, we should also have the spirit of "don't give up until we reach the goal", so as to continuously stimulate our potential and maintain enough motivation for success, thus welcoming the desired results.

Many times, a person has no confidence in himself because of his narrow vision.

Without the hope of success and the fun of struggle, a person will only live in his own cage and gradually become a person who sits on a well and watches the sky.

For the rest of their lives, even if there is hope, they will gradually be disappointed.

Just like the story of two monks going to the South China Sea, the rich monk carefully planned the cost of going to the South China Sea and never compensated him. On the other hand, the poor monk went to the South China Sea and came back with a bowl and a bottle.

Be hard on yourself at the right time, and you will know that the stage of life is actually very big.

Choosing a timid result will only make a person's situation worse, stay in a down-and-out situation for a long time, and others will always despise their own views.

At this time, you might as well give yourself a little ambition.

Moreover, you can support your ambition with your own actions. When you stand at a higher starting point and pursue new goals, you will understand a truth. As you broaden your horizons, you will have more wonderful things.

If, compare life to a trip.

After experiencing the ups and downs of failure and having the joy of success, such a life will be brilliant.

To see more beautiful scenery, we need to climb the peak of life constantly in the ups and downs. Choosing the result of self-deception will make you in a difficult situation; Be hard on yourself, and you will know how big your potential is and how wide your stage is.

If you choose to retreat in the face of difficulties, you will be depressed if you fail, and the journey of life will become dim.

When you are down and out, don't be looked down upon by others and affect your mood. You know, the truth needs no excuse, and time will tell.

Over time, only by strengthening yourself and having the wisdom and strength to face challenges directly, can people have more opportunities to break through the cage and usher in a breakthrough in life.