Why are popular people happy to tell failure stories as jokes?

Those who are willing to tell failure as a joke must have high emotional intelligence. We often see people who like to laugh at themselves on talk shows, which is a realm of self-mockery. If you do something wrong, you should make fun of yourself instead of waiting for others to tell you. After telling this experience as a joke, you won't mind so much, and others will think this kind of person is very open-minded and cheerful. I won't be depressed by my failure, at least I am an optimistic person.

There used to be such an aunt in the administrative department of the unit. She often passes out. This degree of shame can be attributed to her figure, some of her mistakes, and even the mistakes of common sense in life. She can amuse herself, be decent and not boring. It always makes everyone happy. I feel relaxed and stress-free when I think about being with her, and naturally I feel much closer to her. Whenever we get together, we are always willing to invite her, because the atmosphere is relaxed when she is around. Even if she is older than everyone, it doesn't prevent her from getting along with everyone.

Such a person can get along with everyone and is not aggressive. They like to make fun of themselves, and everyone won't feel tired. It is natural to be popular. On the contrary, those who always blame others, find fault with others and damage their shortcomings are unlikely to be popular. Such people are often self-righteous and think that the responsibility lies with others. He is very tired to get along with such people, and he will always feel full of pressure, fearing that he will take what he did wrong as a joke and blame it as a problem.

In short, a person who can laugh at himself must have high emotional intelligence and good self-regulation ability. It's normal to get along with such people, not tired and unhappy, and to be popular.