Why are the more honest people more likely to eat "dark losses"?

Because an honest man is kind, he won't fight back when others bully him, so some people with ulterior motives seize this weakness of an honest man and become bullies at home. It's always impossible to stop you from coming in in the dark.

I'm introverted and honest, and I'm easy to lose money in my life. I have a friend with me. He is arrogant and unreasonable. He likes picking soft persimmons and always practices with me as a target. But he made friends with me openly. I don't know how good our relationship is. However, he secretly does something that is not what it seems.

Once we went shopping together, I didn't bring much money. But he found that without restraint, all kinds of brand-name bags were even more soft to buy. However, when he paid, he told me that he forgot to bring money. At that time, I thought, since we are friends, it doesn't hurt to help him once.

I paid him nearly half a month's salary. I thought he would give me back my relationship with civilization, but after half a year, he still didn't give it back to me.

And everyone will say that I gave him those bags on my own initiative, and he didn't want them at first, saying that I begged from a fortress. Knowing the truth, I began to get tired of him. After I paid him, he not only didn't pay back the money, but also blamed me, saying that the bag was given by me, which was really a bargain.

From now on, I will never give money to others easily. In fact, kindness is a good quality, but kind people are always used. Being too kind is also a kind of weakness, which gives the bad guys an opportunity.

We can keep a kind attitude towards our relatives and friends, but your kindness must bring its own light, and then consider helping others while retaining your own interests.