Close the last door (remember to close the door behind you)

Writer Jimmy said:

"Remember, never forget? I'm guarding a fairy tale as brilliant as a bubble. Happiness has just begun, but sadness is already lurking. "

We are used to "remembering everything", but we don't know that what we remember has become a burden on our hearts, and some things have become stumbling blocks on the road.

Looking back suddenly, you will find that you have walked a long way, but the farther you go, the more tired you are. The road ahead is long, we don't know where to go, but we have no turning back.

No matter how many times you turn around, time will never go backwards. Even if we return to the starting place, in fact, at this time, everything has changed for the better.

On a Chinese Odyssey, there is a box of moonlight. Just open the moonlight box and you can go back to the time and space you want. The Supreme Treasure opened the Moonlight Box many times, but still didn't return to the desired time and space, either later or earlier.

Later, many people remembered a line:

"There was a sincere love before me, and I didn't cherish it. When I lost it, I regretted it The most painful thing in the world is this. "

Yes, you didn't cherish the people you met, and you can only regret it in the future. Besides, there is no better way.

Someone said, "I'll come to you when I'm old."

However, when you are old, the other person is old, maybe dead, maybe far away, you lose contact and can't find it anymore.

So, I want to tell you, remember to close the door behind you and live in the present!

02

Don't worry about the past and don't be afraid of the future.

Feng Zikai wrote in "Don't spoil, live a life without surprises":

"The heart is not disorderly, not trapped in love. Not afraid of the future, not thinking about the past. So, um! "

Whatever you've been through, forget it. People who hurt you are actually people who come to cross you and help you understand this society and appreciate its ruthlessness. The lessons of failure make you very painful, but failure is also the accumulation of experience, that's all; You have been thinking about the person you missed, and later, you still missed, you missed, and you were flustered.

Of course, you still have achievements in the past. But when you are complacent, your grades have disappeared, and when you keep looking back, you begin to lag behind others.

What will happen in the future? Many people are anxious. We often laugh at others for worrying too much, but we don't know that we are the same. Life is stressful and goes hand in hand. Nobody knows when the accident will happen.

Smart people, no matter what, close the door behind you first. Cut off everything in the past, and you will have the courage to break your wrist, so you can only face the future bravely.

Your courage is the secret of your victory. If it is not enough to show great courage, then you should show great courage.

You can lose, but you can't lose heart. Your future is to "turn over the salted fish". You can't bury your head in the sand like an ostrich.

03

But there is nothing wrong with doing good.

"Augmented Xianwen" wrote:

"But doing good deeds is the future of Mo Wen. The blunt bird flies first, and the big one is late. "

Your kindness will eventually be rewarded, sooner or later. No matter how hard it is, don't lose your kindness. No matter how miserable your life is, help others as much as possible.

Helping others is not to show that they are "saints", but to feel at ease. Being a man, there is always a time when you can't stand it. You can't be a heartless person just because you have experienced unfair things.

One summer, a heavy rain fell in my hometown. Father can't sleep at night. He feels that his home is very unsafe. Father thinks that our village is close to the stream, which may be poured in because of the turbulent stream.

After midnight, my father got up and stood at the door watching. He found that the stream had begun to approach the neighbor's house. Father knocked on the neighbor's door without saying anything.

A few days later, the mother scolded her father, "You are so busy. Last month, you forgot that our neighbor's fifth brother was digging our vegetable soil and you knocked on their door. "

Father said, "Let bygones be bygones. If I don't knock, if their home is really flooded, how can I feel at ease? "

Yes, no matter what others do or how you live, don't forget to do good deeds. When people communicate with each other, they should know how to "turn hostilities into friendship". Hatred needs to be resolved after all, not remembered.

Close the door behind you, and the grievances will be put down. You just do good deeds, regardless of whether there is a reward or not. If you help more people, someone will help you in turn, and one good turn deserves another, sooner or later.

It doesn't matter if you do good deeds all your life, but no one helps you. "Peace of mind" is the best reward.

04

Let go of your obsession and let nature take its course.

We often say that the more we toss about, the better our life will be.

If you toss in the wrong direction, do you still have a good life? Many people, after years of tossing and turning, find themselves walking back, or encounter cliffs and high walls and have to turn back.

Learning to close the door behind you is actually telling you not to go back, but to learn to choose the right path. Excessive persistence will often hurt yourself.

Want to adjust the direction, sooner rather than later; One thing, if you don't think it over, don't start at all.

"Skill is better than roughness." If we do things according to the laws of nature and the situation of things, we can often get twice the result with half the effort. With the help of the power of nature, you can "push the boat with the current and have a good trip".

It is commendable to be reborn in adversity, but people who have been in adversity for a long time are certainly no more promising than those who are "smooth sailing"

Smart people know that when God closes one door for you, he will open another door for you.

Being a man needs persistence and flexibility. Stick to things that have results and give up things that are doomed to have no results. If you give up, you will get it. Giving up everything is doomed to nothing.

Turn around, we have gone far and farther. The road was still there when I came, but I couldn't go back. ......

We can travel with memories, but we must be dream catchers in the future.

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