Teach chatting skills to your wife.

Talking to your wife requires two people to run the business together, so that the relationship will last. When running a marriage, you need to master some related skills. The following is some information I have compiled for you about chatting with your wife. Let's have a look!

Chatting skills with your wife 1

1, home is a place to talk, not to reason.

This sentence is a truth that my wife and I understood after quarreling for many years. It is impossible for husband and wife not to quarrel, but don't pester each other for a trivial matter, be sure to make it clear. Some things don't need to be clarified, but they won't be very good. At the same time, don't ask the other person to admit his mistake, even if the truth is on your side. Because there is no winner in the quarrel between husband and wife, there is no need to tell the winner. But turn a blind eye; Not only that, you also need to use your true feelings to maintain a real home. 、

Honesty is very important.

When men socialize outside, they sometimes like to hide the truth and tell some lies to deal with their wives. In fact, as long as it doesn't involve work, there is no need to make up excuses such as "in a meeting" and "working overtime" to cheat your wife. Because it often takes ten sentences to cover up a lie, and mistakes are inevitable. How tired you are.

3. Be good at "being afraid of your wife"

There is nothing wrong with proper "henpecked" families, which often last for a long time. At the same time, such men often know that their wives have suffered a lot, so they are willing to be "henpecked". Many times, they refuse some unimportant parties and go home from work to help their wives.

4. Don't blame your wife for her nagging.

Generally speaking, women are talkative only in front of the man they like. Maybe this man had a bad day at work, or just had a conflict with his colleagues, but at this time, his wife is like a tireless bird, chattering in front of you, making your mood even more irritable. But don't blame her too much, you just need to say to her: honey, I'm tired, let me have a rest alone.

5. Men should have a sense of responsibility to support their families.

Men bravely shoulder the responsibility of supporting their families, no matter whether their wives are independent or innocent girls, even if they work like you now and earn more or less wages every month, you should also regard yourself as the pillar of the family! Seeing his wife coming home tired of cooking, a man should say, "It's so hard, I'll support you!" " "Smart wife will also think of your hard work, get care and recognition, and work will be more motivated!

Chatting skills for your wife 2 1, spend more time with you.

The traditional concept of China people is that men dominate the outside and women dominate the inside. This understanding provides an excuse for men to often go out or even stay at home at night. Many women do housework as if their place were at home. However, if a woman stays at home alone for a long time without a man, she will be lonely and bored. After a long time, she will want to find a companion to relax or participate in some social activities and go out from home.

Under the psychological effect of loneliness, women are likely to be tempted by other men when they go out. Because of this opportunity, the chances of cheating will increase. How can a woman have an affair if she doesn't go outside? Therefore, in order to prevent women from cheating, men should first take care of their families, give women more comfort, and let them stay at home with warmth after leaving home. In this way, women naturally reduce the chance of cheating.

2. Occasionally asked to attend his wife's party.

If a woman always has activities, and you feel that you can't control it, and you are not very worried about the whereabouts of your wife, you can temporarily ask to participate in her activities. In particular, you can take your husband to some activities. If your wife is going out to have an affair, naturally there is no excuse to refuse you to attend. Even if she makes excuses, she sometimes reluctantly.

If you don't attend your wife's activities regularly, you will naturally have more and deeper understanding of your wife's interpersonal relationship and know yourself. If the wife is not having an affair, moderate participation in her activities will improve the relationship between husband and wife. If the wife has ulterior motives, she can also find out in time and take precautions in time. Don't do anything to hurt your wife. Many women who have an affair are often because their husbands are not good to themselves. Of course, it is most likely that their husbands did something that deeply hurt their wives. If the husband beats his wife, cheats on her, or the husband has a lover outside. Or the husband is extremely indifferent to his wife, and the wife is pregnant, and the husband does not ask.

After these injuries, the wife will not take the marriage relationship seriously and will not take the initiative to refuse the temptation of the outside world. On the contrary, when you meet a man who is kind to you outside, you may not choose the best one by comparison.

4. Let your female relatives be your wife's partners.

This has several advantages: first, it can make the relatives of both sides truly integrate and feel like a family. Instead of being separated from each other and burying each other. At the same time, take care of and support each other in daily life to eliminate loneliness.

Another advantage, of course, is to change the wife's daily communication environment, thus reducing the possibility of cheating. Also, relatives can play the role of supervision and information transmission. Although these do not need to be deliberately arranged, they will be conveyed through the daily words and deeds of their loved ones.

5. Know your wife's social circle.

According to Sun Tzu's Art of War, you should know yourself and know yourself. A wife is not an enemy, but it is not easier to prevent her own abandonment or betrayal than to deal with the enemy. To prevent his wife from cheating, that is to say, people who kiss again may have opposites. Otherwise, no one will leave.

Instead of doubting his wife casually, we should pay more attention to his social circle, friends, acquaintances and colleagues. If you have the opportunity to get in touch with these people, you will understand his wife's behavior style and conduct more comprehensively and truly. If the wife won't have an affair, it can enhance her confidence. If there are any signs, there is no need to wait for her to have an affair, take root and sprout, and then pursue it, and regret it.