How to end the conversation with the pursuer perfectly without making people uncomfortable?

When we usually do things, it is easy to say no to people who ask us for help. But it must be more painful to be with someone who likes him and reject his feelings. Some people will have a misunderstanding: because I don't want to make him sad, I politely refuse and he can't understand it, so I have to drag it over.

Actually, keep yourself in your heart. If you really like someone, but he still refuses or unequivocally agrees with you, or although he refuses, he feels as if there is still a chance to work hard, so you will never leave until death do us part. But over time, one day you really find that he doesn't like you, and that love is probably hate. You will be angry that he didn't explain it earlier, or even irrationally think that he is teasing you or watching your jokes.

So, please say no to people you don't like bravely and clearly.

Thank you for your appreciation of me, but I don't want to fall in love now and have no feelings for you.

For example, I already have someone I like. Sorry, you are not my type. Good luck finding the right person.

It's very kind of you, but I don't think we are suitable. Thank you anyway.

Did you get the point?

Obviously, you don't like it, but adding a tactful explanation can comfort each other, but of course, you must not say that you don't want to fall in love, so that he can find out that you are dating someone else every other month, giving people the feeling of cheating!

Beware of ambiguity: when you don't want to say yes to his invitation, saying another day will make others think you can mention it next time. If you just don't want to say no, the other party will know later and should be more hurt.

Think about the reasons for refusing: reminding yourself of the reasons why you want to say no will help you stay firm. You can pray and ask God to help you know what to say and be honest with your heart.

Avoid refusing in front of others: this is to avoid him being too embarrassed or angry, and also to cherish the thoughtfulness of the other party. If he asks you in front of others, you can answer him later, and then tell him your thoughts in writing or euphemistically when there are few people waiting.

Don't criticize yourself: guilt may be the number one reason why we dare not say no, but please distinguish whether such guilt is reasonable or not. Sometimes unnecessary guilt may be imposed on ourselves by the other party. In short, the most important lesson of feelings is respect, so you have the absolute right not to respond to others' love.

No longer accept his benefits: although some people are rejected, they will say that it is my freedom to continue to love you, so that they can still be nice everywhere, serve you and give you gifts, but they insist on not accepting the benefits of the other party and tell you that this will bother you. This is wise. It's not that you are cruel, but that we should draw a line. Since he refused, he should not be allowed to die.

Know how to ask for help: what should I do if I meet someone who is stubborn and refuses to give up? One way is to vilify his impression of you, do something indecent in front of him, break his fantasy and make him question why he liked you in the first place. But when you realize that the other person has brought you trouble in your life, it is necessary to ask for help. You can tell your elders or friends to protect you, or find a good way to persuade each other to back down, avoid being alone with each other, and know how to protect yourself!

Finally, once again, the skill of refusal lies in the following three points: considering the other party, saying no appropriately and being firm.