The first day of construction during the Spring Festival in 2021: May all good things come as promised

Text | Zhang Fanchen

The Spring Festival holiday has passed in a blink of an eye, and we have already ushered in the first day of work. Life is like this, whether you are willing or not, you have to do something. Growth is like this, and work is like this.

In 2021, we enter this year with full expectations. We look forward to no illness or disaster, good years, smooth work, and family harmony. May all good things come as promised. We can have stable happiness.

In 2020, there are always some people who make us feel particularly envious, envious of their happiness and envy of their luck.

As the Chinese New Year is approaching, a young man from Hangzhou posted on the Internet the 120,000 yuan year-end bonus he received, which ignited the entire circle of friends. Of course, it was as popular as his year-end bonus, and also There are pictures of his flight records over the past year, which are so densely packed that it makes people breathless.

The young man said simply: "There is really nothing to envy. When I say a busy year, I really mean a busy year."

Behind all the seemingly wonderful luck, They all have an unknown amount of diligence and hardship. We envy the lucky results, but we may not be able to endure the process of pursuing luck.

In this world, luck is only one percent of God’s love, and the other ninety-nine percent comes from preparation.

When it’s cold, you can’t get out of bed, but someone can.

When you are tired, you cannot persist, but someone can persist.

When tutoring children, you think it’s almost enough, but someone is taking it more seriously.

In this way, someone has met their so-called "luck", but you have not become that person.

It is better to retreat and build a net than to admire the fish in the abyss. Life is not easy, so you can only work hard.

When some teachers receive high wages and then complain that they need to study early and study late at night, violating the eight-hour labor right. How many people are carrying bricks at the construction site in the severe cold and heat, and delivering food after work.

In fact, their college entrance examination scores were almost the same, but one was born in a rural area and the other was born in a big city.

While we lament that it is not easy, in the real world, we may be lucky enough.

No opportunity always falls just right on your head. Your soul can be left to chicken soup articles, but life still requires hard work.

Everything in the world is caused by cause and effect. Only by working hard can you become the lucky person.

I hope that in the new year, we will work hard on our lives, endure the hardships of the years, and become that lucky person.

I once saw a sentence like this: "Never put your children first. Anyone who puts their children first will most likely be in for a tragedy for the family." This is what he said, But it is difficult to do.

I don’t know since when, the parent-child relationship began to take precedence over the relationship between husband and wife, and many families began to put their children at the center. I disagree with this idea.

The foundation of the family is marriage, and marriage is a matter between husband and wife. No matter how much we love our children, we should not regard them as more important than our spouse.

A happy family never puts children first.

Principal Liu of Beijing No. 4 Middle School wrote in his article: "Never put your children first. Anyone who puts their children first will most likely have a tragedy waiting for the family. . ”

In many places, as high as school district housing, there is also the cost of children’s education. In some families, education expenditure even accounts for more than 50% of the family income.

Some mothers think about how to cook for their children every day, what kind of teachers to hire to tutor their children, and their children’s schedule for the next week.

But she didn't know what kind of pressure the man was enduring on the other side of the family. He didn't dare to eat or get sick. He was shivering alone in the underground garage, holding a cancer report in his hand.

Kunling once publicly stated: "I want to be a 'selfish' mother." After she got married and had children with Jay Chou, she insisted on putting her husband first and accompanied her husband in performances, while she herself It has also become the main content of Jay Chou’s social media. The happiness of this marriage comes from putting your lover first.

No matter how much we love our children, we cannot forget ourselves and our loved ones.

Mr. Yang Jiang said: "In this life, it is easy to be selfish, but it is difficult to love yourself."

Children are destined to be just the people who accompany you through the journey. Only your lover will accompany you throughout your life. Our partner is the most important person. Only by putting your lover first can you have a happy family.

It seems like just yesterday that we welcomed 2020 with full expectations, and 2021 has arrived in the blink of an eye. Year after year, hurriedly, we repeat the life of leaving early and returning late, boringly facing the bumpy life day after day.

Only when you look back at the past year, will you feel regret: I haven’t cooked a good meal, stayed with my parents for a few more days, and played with my children a few times.

Sometimes, we are immersed in this kind of regret and cannot extricate ourselves. In fact, instead of regretting the past, it is better to get on the road as soon as possible. Intermittent efforts are not worth mentioning, but continuous laziness and memories are enough to make you regret it again next year.

No matter how seamless the plan is, it will become vulnerable to sudden changes. Whether it’s yourself or your family, if you keep being sad about the past, then the present will become your next sad past.

Now that we have set off, it is not that important to remember or not remember why we set out.

The first working day after the Spring Festival is here, and all themes in life have to give way to "working hard". Finally, you have a good year to implement the plans in your personal bills.

This year, no matter how busy you are at work, don’t forget to spend time with your family and have a few good dinners. Buying vegetables in the street market, haggling over the fat and lean pork chops, lightly heating the oil, fragrant garlic sprouts, condensing water, and cooking over low heat. The meal does not need to be rich, and the whole family is happy just sitting in front of the dining table.

Perhaps, in the past days, we were too busy and tired to ignore the beauty of life, but in 2021, we have another opportunity to shake hands with life and cherish this hard-won Time brings back the trivial beauty.

Ren Xianqi sang happily in the song: In spring, flowers will bloom and birds will be free.

All good things happen quietly around us. Some people find their lovers, some people recover their health, and some people's careers begin to prosper. We are part of this beauty, there is no need to envy it, we just need to slowly appreciate it.

In the short life of a parent, there are always rewards that you can't find. Let go of the persistence of the past and live the present with all your strength, so that you can have a better future. Work hard and live well.

There is always a meeting, the return date is tired, the passing years are drunk, and the whole past is beautiful. In the new year, please strive to meet a better version of yourself.

When we become a better version of ourselves, there will be better others around us. Without any effort on your part, life will get better day by day. This is the greatest success of our lives. Confidence.

On the first working day after the Spring Festival in 2021, I hope that ordinary you and me can have a good start. The bumps will be gone, the hardships will be no longer, the good things will be as promised, the years can be expected, and we will live an ordinary life. Every day, have stable happiness.

This year is complete.