Is divorce really that unbearable?

Marriage itself is a practice.

It requires constant reflection, adjustment, tolerance, understanding, and self-recovery.

1. If there are no children in the divorce, it feels relatively simple when everyone agrees on the division of property.

2. If you have children, it is recommended that you consider the issue with the children as the core. For example, how to make more use of the healthy growth of children. No education method can replace the loving nurturing of a child by a family. The love between husband and wife in front of their children can give them the greatest sense of security.

3. The most taboo thing about marriage is to look for your own happiness from other people’s marriages, because when you see the happiness of others, you must also have quarrels that you can’t see. Marriage sometimes requires one party to have unlimited limits. of tolerance. (Except for selective issues)

4. The most fearful thing about marriage is that there is no more dependence on each other. Whether it is spiritual or material, psychological or physical. The lack of dependence is an important sign that a marriage is disintegrating.

5. Marriage itself is a kind of balance. Once you learn it, you will naturally know how to control it.

6. In good jobs, I have had the urge to resign countless times. No matter how good a marriage is, there will be times when you have the urge to strangle each other to death. After the impulse has passed, the class will continue and the marriage will continue. Because impulse is impulse and cannot replace reality. Otherwise you will be paying for your impulse.

To sum up, divorce must be an unbearable thing. I will start my marriage journey rationally and seriously, and manage our marriage with kindness and tolerance. I believe that tomorrow may not be a good day, but a good tomorrow will definitely come.