What do you think of those girls who are desperate to marry away for love?

At the beginning, for love, I really didn't think about anything, as long as I could be together. Distance is not a problem, and age is not a gap. What are you afraid of? Now that the traffic is so developed, I can get home in one day. I think most married women in long-distance relationships thought so at that time, but what was the reality? Go back once a year at most. It may take several years to go back once you have children, so you don't have to think about filial piety in front of your parents. After five years of marriage, I always have to go back three times. Going back in the first year of marriage doesn't feel much, just like working in other places and going home on Chinese New Year holiday. Later, my grandmother died, and I was pregnant with Dabao, and my pregnancy reaction was particularly serious. My family told me not to come back and take care of myself. At that time, it was really hard, not only because my grandmother died, but also because of my long-distance love. I couldn't send her the last journey when I watched my elders die. This time, I deeply felt the sadness of long-distance love. Later, when Dabao was born, I had no mother-in-law, so I took my parents from thousands of miles away to take care of Confucius. After the second month, I did everything by myself. As a new mother, I realized the hardships of raising children and thanked my parents.