Angela Zhang has no friends, Wang Hanlahei, Fan Bingbing and Chen Kun. How many common contacts are there in your mobile phone?

Angela Zhang once said at the tucao conference that "there are few friends".

However, she doesn't think this is a pity.

The definition of friend is different. Many friends are easy to walk, but I don't need friends to help me find my way. I have wings.

I want to raise my hand and applaud her.

Many people regard "having many friends" as an achievement. However, the older we grow up, the more lively and warm our lives are.

Measure the number of friends, not the number, but praise anyway, but whether you are sincere or not.

There was a video before, "How many common contact methods are there in the mobile phone?"

There are thousands.

Yes, many people.

Who can refuse a warm sense of community?

Humans are gregarious animals, instinctively eager for the sense of security of many people and afraid of being isolated.

A person, unparalleled, is a beautiful poem placed on Nie. Putting it on yourself is a bitter situation and a failure.

So everyone is socializing, busy making friends, and hate meeting many people every day.

But do we really need many friends?

The host doesn't want to contact now. Please delete those who haven't contacted for half a year.

More than half.

That was almost deleted.

The host then asked how many people can tell the truth if they continue to delete contacts and work relationships in the remaining contact information.

Everyone deleted it one after another, and finally, some people only had two or three.

Some people say no.

There are only two contact methods left.

/kloc-the contact information of 0/000 people is only 0.

Some people sigh "failure" for the huge gap.

However, this is not a failure of one person. This is the syndrome of our time.

We turned the excitement into something valuable.

Praising, holding and surrounding something is a kind of intimacy.

However, these things are actually things like bubbles. Shallow, one thing. Once a "friend" was like the exile of a ship. Once "friendship" has become like an animal. As a result, you found a real friend. But two or three people.

None of them.

Finally, the host said. "Well, please call the rest of your friends now."

On the phone.

However, the other party cut off.

The caller looked disappointed, but he couldn't leave.

What about you? Do you have the same dilemma? I know too many people, WeChat "girlfriends" broke out, and real friends gradually alienated.

Reject meaningless "friends"

Pay attention to important people.

Smart people start to lose weight.

Jinfeng once complained that she had been framed in the Mars Intelligence Agency.

Wang Han said: "Chen Kun and Fan Bingbing have been deleted."

He said, "It's a little scary to have more than a hundred friends. Delete all meaningless things. "

This is really an accident.

We originally thought that the entertainment circle was to unite peers, to go in and out in groups, to embrace each other, to be fashionable and to be successful.

Some people are sober and can clearly distinguish the truth of social communication from the essence of life.

After Mr. Wang deleted this group of WeChat,

"This kind of life is very easy. All the time belongs to you.

You suddenly feel that your whole life has changed.

And we don't have WeChat with each other, but because we haven't contacted each other for a long time, there will be no bad feelings. "

The biggest reason for his relaxation is that he was kidnapped.

Many friends are a double-edged sword.

Give people a rich impression of life, but they can't get in touch with real people.

Psychology has an important concept of others. Refers to people who have an important influence on you in the process of socialization and psychological personality formation.

For example, parents, influential teachers, lovers who encourage each other, and friends who really communicate.

This person is more and more connected with you, and you are more and more nutritious.

Wang Han has an old friend. He was a great help.

Usually, every time the program ends, he will be very tired and go to the teacher's house. You can sit beside him and listen to him.

This teacher is an important figure in Wang Hanzhong.

It has become an important thing in Wang Han's life to communicate with this person, with deep contact, conflicting ideas and inspiration.

Time is reserved for the most valuable people.

The most valuable person, can you send WeChat or contact frequently? No matter what happens, even if you ride a branch to be a phoenix, you will become a dog that has lost its home. If you call him, he will always be there.