Abandon the first wife, pay for the profligacy of the second wife, and take a friend's downwind plane crash to save money.

1On April 3rd, 965, Lu Xiaoman died in Shanghai Huadong Hospital. Lu Xiaoman's ashes have never been claimed. It was not until 1988 that Lu Xiaoman's nephew claimed it from Taiwan Province Province and set up a memorial tomb for Lu Xiaoman in Suzhou.

Speaking of Lu Xiaoman, there has been constant controversy. It's a shame that this talented woman ended up like this. People say that this woman is really a loser, playing a good hand to pieces. These superficial phenomena are most easily seen by people and are also most easily rooted in people's hearts.

People often think: If this famous lady, who had a beautiful life in the first half and a gloomy life in the second half, was not so pretentious at the beginning, would she have a good life?

A rich girl born with a golden spoon.

Lu Xiaoman,1903165438+10 was born in Kongjianong, Shanghai on October 7th. His name is Mei, alias Xiaomei and Xiaolong, and he is from Changzhou, Jiangsu. His father Lu Ding was a juren in the late Qing Dynasty. He graduated from Waseda University, Japan, and is a proud disciple of Japanese famous Ito Bowen. Lu Ding served as a counselor and director of taxation in Nanjing government of Kuomintang. Lu Xiaoman's mother's name is Wu Manhua. She is born in a noble family, well-educated and versatile. Lu Xiaoman is an only child.

Lu Xiaoman's birth is outstanding in any era. She grew up with the love of her parents. She spent her childhood in a kindergarten in Shanghai. At the age of 6, she went to Beijing with her mother and lived with her father. At the age of 7, she went to the primary school affiliated to Beijing Women's Normal University. At the age of 9, she went to Beijing Women's Middle School to study. 14, 15, she transferred to Beijing Women's Sacred Heart School. /kloc-at the age of 0/6, she is proficient in both languages and can play the piano. During her three years of diplomatic life, she has repeatedly shown her vigilance and patriotism. At the age of 65,438+08, she is well-known in Beijing society, with a bold, romantic and enthusiastic personality. At that time, the whole Peiping social circle fell for her.

At the same time, Lu Xiaoman studied under Liu Haisu, what a famous artist. Lu Xiaoman is good at drama, is familiar with Kunqu opera, and can also play Pihuang. His articles are excellent, and he has a solid knowledge of ancient Chinese and a solid ability to modify words.

It can be said that Lu Xiaoman is a real lady.

It is this sense of superiority in her bones that makes this lady do things willfully and unruly, and finally comes to a sad end.

First marriage

When Lu Xiaoman 19 left school, she got married under the arrangement of her parents, and her husband was Wang Geng.

Wang Geng was born into an official family, but Wang Geng was ambitious, eager for success and also excellent in his studies. He received early education in China in Beijing Anding Middle School and Tsinghua School for Studying in the United States, and was sent to the United States for further study at public expense. Wang Geng studied at the University of Michigan, Columbia University and Princeton University, and then at West Point Military Academy, where he studied under the famous American Eisenhower. 19 18 graduated and returned to China. He used to work in the War Department of Beijing government and was also a student of Liang Qichao. In addition, Wang Geng, who looks British, was also famous in the social circle of Beijing at that time, and was called "the first handsome guy in the Republic of China".

Young Lu Xiaoman had a certain affection for Wang Geng at first, so she married the young talent under the arrangement of her parents. However, because they didn't have any emotional foundation before marriage, after the passion of honeymoon, she gradually found herself out of place with Wang Geng. Wang Geng is a soldier, unsmiling and pragmatic. Romantic, lively and sociable Lu Xiaoman, nightclub cafe in the Republic of China. What she likes best is the ballroom dancing party she goes out every night, and she lives in the envious eyes of everyone.

Wang Geng can't stand her lifestyle. They often quarrel. In the third year of marriage, Wang Geng was appointed as the police chief of Harbin and asked Lu Xiaoman to go with him. Lu Xiaoman lived in Harbin for some time. However, Lu Xiaoman is not used to living in Harbin. Soon, she separated from Wang Geng, so her feelings with her husband became even colder.

Wang Geng focused on her work and future. Lu Xiaoman wants to play, so let Xu Zhimo go with her. Wang Geng would never have thought that such treatment would lead to a marital crisis. In this way, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman lived together and fell in love for a long time. Their feelings are getting deeper and deeper. The two often lament "meeting each other late."

Later, Wang Geng heard the rumors about Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo, and tried his best to save them. He wrote a letter to Lu Xiaoman, "If you still care about our mutual affection, come down and get together. If your heart belongs to someone else, I will never stop it. "

At this time, Lu Xiaoman was pregnant, but for the sake of so-called free love, she decided to risk her life and chose abortion. Therefore, she completely lost the right to be a mother.

Soon, Lu Xiaoman and Wang Geng had another big fight. Wang Geng insulted Lu Xiaoman in public, and Lu Xiaoman claimed that he would never return to the Wangs again. Hearing this, Lu Ding was also very angry and expressed her support for her daughter's action. Finally, she divorced Wang Geng on 1925.

Romantic love

Xu Zhimo said Lu Xiaoman: Her eyes are talking, too, and their eyes are glowing. That's her inner secret. "

For Lu Xiaoman, he has a kind of inspired enthusiasm and responsibility. Xu Zhimo played Lu Xiaoman when there was a rift in his marriage. At the same time, they were dissatisfied with the marriage arranged by their parents, and then they admired each other and came together vigorously regardless of secular opposition. Their love has a kind of mutual affection, and there is also a kind of self-immersion, so you must pity me, pity me.

Faced with this marriage, they met with great resistance from their parents. On the one hand, Lu Xiaoman's mother, Xu Manhua, objected. She still recognizes Wang Geng as a son-in-law and despises Xu Zhimo. On the other hand, Xu Zhimo's father, Xu Shenru, resolutely opposed it. Xu Zhimo's father, Xu Shenru, is a rich gentleman in Shixia Town, Haining County, Zhejiang Province. He thinks that his son's divorce is a big violation, and marrying a married woman is even more insulting. It is said that Xu Zhimo's divorce should be approved by Zhang Youyi. I didn't expect Zhang Youyi, who was heartbroken, to agree, but Xu Shenru firmly opposed it. Even after Xu Zhimo's mother died, Lu Xiaoman went home in mourning and was kicked out by him. After the intervention of Hu Shi, Liu Haisu and others, Xu Shenru finally reluctantly agreed.

At the wedding of Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman, Liang Qichao's wedding speech was unprecedented: "Zhimo and Xiaoman, both of you have experienced it. You're divorced and remarried. You're not good at relationships. You should repent and turn over a new leaf May this be your last marriage. "

After such a passionate, romantic, free and calcium carbide-like love calmed down, Xu Zhimo saw the hardships behind supporting such a top celebrity.

The luxury of Lu Xiaoman.

Lu Xiaoman grew up in a luxurious environment, and his hobbies are luxury, singing and dancing.

Life in Lu Xiaoman is very luxurious. If you want to live in a villa, you need a dozen servants at home. Chefs, tailors and drivers ... are very expensive. At this point, Xu Zhimo's father was deeply dissatisfied with Lu Xiaoman, so he cut off their funding. In order to support Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo gave lectures at Guanghua University, Soochow University and Daxia University at the same time, and wrote poems after school to earn money.

At that time, Xu Zhimo's annual salary was several hundred dollars, while the average annual salary at that time was five dollars, which was dozens of times that at that time. However, these expenses are not enough for Lu Xiaoman. The huge expenses made Xu Zhimo miserable. He traveled from Shanghai to Beijing, and the money he earned was not enough for Lu Xiaoman to spend.

/kloc-in the autumn of 0/930, in order to meet the extravagant life in Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo resigned from his posts in Shanghai and Nanjing and became a professor at Peking University and Beijing Women's Normal University. Lu Xiaoman was too headstrong and decided to stay in Shanghai, so Xu Zhimo began to run back and forth on both sides. 193 1 In the first half of the year, Xu Zhimo ran back and forth between Shanghai and Beijing eight times.

Lu Xiaoman also suffers from asthma and stomachache, and the pain is unbearable. Xu Zhimo found many famous doctors for her, but failed to cure her. With the recommendation of a friend, Weng Wurui, who has unique skills, successfully treated Lu Xiaoman who fainted. Later, with the permission of Xu Zhimo, Weng Wurui often went to Lu Xiaoman's residence. In order to alleviate Lu Xiaoman's pain, Weng Wurui suggested that Lu Xiaoman smoke opium. Since then, Lu Xiaoman has never left Ah Furong in his life.

Xu Zhimo works part-time in several universities at the same time. In his spare time, writing poems to earn money and running around still can't satisfy Lu Xiaoman's profligacy and debt. In his letter, Xu Zhimo mentioned many times that he was anxious and sleepless because of money, and told Lu Xiaoman that "the car at home can no longer afford it". Xu Zhimo asked Lu Xiaoman to quit smoking several times, but Lu Xiaoman was tough. He had a big fight. Lu Xiaoman smashed his pipe in Mo Chi's face and broke all the gold-rimmed glasses on his face. Xu Zhimo also ran away angrily.

Xu zhimo passed away

1931119 Xu Zhimo gave a lecture on ancient China architecture to foreign guests in the auditorium of Peking Union Medical College in the evening to save money.

Before boarding the plane, Xu Zhimo sent a message to Lu Xiaoman: "There is heavy fog in Xuzhou, and I have a headache and don't want to go. I'm going back to Shanghai. " But in the end he left. When I arrived at Dangjiazhuang in the south of Jinan by plane, it was suddenly foggy and it was difficult to tell the course. In order to find an accurate route, the pilot had to lower the flight altitude. Unexpectedly, the plane crashed into the mountain (now Guyunhu Sub-district Office, Changqing District, Jinan City) and immediately fell into the valley, and the fuselage caught fire, killing all the people on board (two crew members and Xu Zhimo). At this time, Xu Zhimo was 34 years old and Lu Xiaoman was 29 years old.

After Xu Zhimo's death, Xu Shenru was heartbroken and thought that Lu Xiaoman had killed Xu Zhimo. At a time when Lu Xiaoman was sad to what extent, even Yu Dafu felt indescribable.

After Xu Zhimo's body was transported back to Shanghai from Jinan, Lu Xiaoman saw the only relic at the scene-a long scroll of landscape painting. This painting was created by Lu Xiaoman in the spring of 193 1, and it is Lu Xiaoman's early masterpiece. More precious is its inscription. Xu Zhimo took this scroll with him and asked someone to add an inscription when he was going to Beijing. There was no martyrdom because the hand roll was placed in the iron reed. Lu Xiaoman looked at this picture and thought about the benefits of Xu Zhimo. Since then, she has cherished this painting.

After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman stopped going out to socialize. She silently endured criticism and accusations from outside. As she said in her elegy to Zhi Mo: "How many years ago, dust became a nightmare. After five years of mourning, I was always in a hurry and justice was resurrected. I want to die because my mother is old; Don't hate talking to anyone. You are worried about getting sick and you are far away from your soul. The world should not last long, and there must be an answer. "

The marriage between Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman is a free union that breaks through feudal shackles. Although they have hurt each other, they also love each other deeply.

Lu Xiaoman and Weng Wurui have lived together for decades.

Weng Wurui was born in an official family and received a good education since childhood. He is good at painting, calligraphy and poetry, and he is also good at singing Beijing Opera and Kunqu Opera. Later, he studied Chinese massage with Ding Fengshan. It was this unique skill that made Weng know Lu Xiaoman during the Dragon Boat Festival.

Lu Xiaoman was weak, and Xu Zhimo asked Weng to give her a massage on the Dragon Boat Festival, and the effect was very good. When Weng Wurui gave her a massage, Lu Xiaoman asked him, "Wu Rui, your massage is really effective, but you can't stay with me all the time. What if I get sick while you are away? " Weng Wurui thought for a moment and said to Lu Xiaoman, "There is a way, but there is no way to do it. It is not easy to use unless it is absolutely necessary. " Lu Xiaoman even asked what the solution was, and Weng Wurui said, "Smoking opium." Lu Xiaoman heard that this was a bad idea, so he cursed Wu Rui for hurting people. However, I saw Weng Wurui smoking all the time, and it was very tasty. I have been ill for a long time. I can't control it for a while, but I slowly took it. She knows it's a bad habit, but once she is addicted, she can't control herself. She and Weng Wu Rui often sit on the couch in the living room and smoke together.

After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman lost her financial resources, and she wanted to smoke opium again, so she stayed with Weng Dragon Boat Festival. Speaking of it, Weng's Dragon Boat Festival is also a time when he has a wife and children at home, and then he lives with Lu Xiaoman and takes care of them at both ends.

At that time, Lu Xiaoman was not the social butterfly who used to laugh and laugh. At that time, many friends disapproved of her relationship with Weng and asked her to sever diplomatic relations with Weng. Hu Shi is the most important one. He proposed to Lu Xiaoman that as long as she severed diplomatic relations with Weng Wurui, he would take full responsibility for everything in the future. Lu Xiaoman politely refused his request. She said to the people at that time: "Although Wu Rui was extremely poor, he always took care of him in every possible way. How can I drive him away for more than 20 years? " Lu Xiaoman and Weng Wurui have lived together for more than 20 years. They have some feelings, but also troubles. Because Weng Wurui didn't abandon his wife, he had to take care of both.

Weng Wurui's family has a wife and five children. At the same time, they have to support Lu Xiaoman, who has a lot of expenses. The economic burden is very heavy. Later, they continued to sell their collections to maintain their living expenses.

"Lu Xiaoman has never produced anything, because it has always been supplied in black and white."

The fall of talented women

196 1 year, Weng Wurui, who had been dependent on Lu Xiaoman for half his life, died. Because of poor health, Lu Xiaoman smoked opium again, and his teeth fell out and his gums became black. Finally1died on April 3, 965 at the age of 62. After his death, Lu Xiaoman wore a tattered cotton-padded jacket, which Zhao Qingge could not bear. He gave Lu Xiaoman a new set of silk clothes and trousers so that he could leave with dignity. After cremation, Lu Xiaoman's ashes have been unclaimed for more than 20 years due to various reasons, and Lu Xiaoman has been in love for several times, but left no children.

Lu Xiaoman-a bloody rose in the world.

Lu Xiaoman is a proud woman in the first half of her life and a miserable woman in the second half. Her ideal is to live a romantic life. She comes from a good family, and everything is too easy to learn to cherish this word. The education she received also made her not know how to reflect on herself, not know how to make progress, and she was full of food and drink all day and unhappy.

Sad, sad! (Attached is a picture drawn by this talented woman)